understanding  

angeldevillvr 53F
92 posts
2/28/2006 2:22 pm

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3/6/2006 4:25 am

understanding


How is it that people always think it is so much easier for others than for themselves. If we would all stop and actually get to know a person before judging them the world would be a better place. I know though we all at one time or another jump to conclusions and say or do things that hurts someone else without meaning to do that.

I want to apologize to anyone that I have pre=judged without getting to know them first. It's like someone said don't judge someone unless you've walked in their shoes. Well I feel sometiems some people have judged me without having walked in my shoes or taking the time to find out why some days i am a B***H. Yes I called myself a b***h and I know at times I can be as most people can if they would just stop and realize that.

Everyone deserves a second chance. I knwo life can be hard and life hits us all in different ways and everyone always feels life is worse on themselves than it is on other people. I am quilty of that myself. Though with the help of some real good friend sthat I have met on this site I am slowly getting past that. I know I don't get to see them as often as I wish but they should know how much I respect and love them.

Yes it is so easy when you are in chat and everyone is busy chatting about something you know nothing about to feel left out and you sometimes strike out in very unfriendly ways. So until I get a few thing sstraightened out in my life I have turned off my profile and I have left a few groups that I belong to on here and on yah. This is what I feel is best for everyone though my true friends do know how to reach me and anyone that wants to correspond with me can let me know and I will message you on what other means you give.

Lookign forward to meet and make new friends and spend time with my old friends and possibly make amends with others.

SaintorSinner30 42F

3/2/2006 7:07 pm

I understand where you are at right now, and I agree with you that people do deserve a second chance. I have been guilty of jumping to conclusions about people more than a few times in my life, and that is one character flaw of mine I am attempting to get past. Life is a bitch, no one will deny that, but each day brings a new beginning. I miss talking with you and so far it looks as if I and someone else will make it up there the 25th. If anything changes I will be sure to let you know asap. Luv Ya, SaintorSinner

SaintorSinner


angeldevillvr 53F

3/2/2006 9:57 pm

I miss you too Saint along with a few others and I do miss the chat room. There were a few good people in there and it is really sad that some people are so stuck on themselves that they only see thins as they wish to see them. As it looks right now I don;t think I will be getting that phoen call tomorrow night so I will be ready to party and Im happy that you have found someone everyone deserves to have a special person in their life it just doesnt; seem like that is going to happen to me.

I finally admitted to myself I am still in love with a guy I have seen off and on for 4 years but he doesnt want a relationship so Im not sure where Im going. I just know it really sucks to be in this situation and having friends always makes things better just wish you lived closer.

Luv ya too and tell Meadows and Jim hi for me if you run into them.


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