friends, Lovers or Love of Your Life  

angeldevillvr 53F
92 posts
12/20/2005 5:38 pm

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friends, Lovers or Love of Your Life


This is the ultimate question that everyone, women or man, asks themselves. How do you know what is what?

Well there is no sure fired way to tell. You just have to take things with a grain of salt and past mistakes and it will all fall in place. The hardest part in any relationship is looking at the relationship for what it is and not letting your past relationships or mistakes interfere in the realtionship you are currently in.

I knwo we have all been in this position and even in the best of relationship you will run avross snags. You just have to stop and look at how feel for the other person and decide if your love for that person is worth keepign your relationship going or if you want to end it or take the relationship a step further.

I hope someday to hav ethe type of relationship where you can both look into your partners eyes and be able to see what he/she is thinking just by the way the eyes spoarkle and shine. The smile on their face and the way they l;et thei hands caress your body.

I knwo I will find this and I hope it is a relationship that comes out of no where and just hits me between the eyes one day and says

HERE I AM!!!!!!!!!!!

rm_wiggles401 38M
1 post
12/20/2005 5:58 pm

i reached it with a very special person. we had an understanding and a way to communicate which was incredable. thru the eyes[mirrors to the soul] or just a feeling, a presence when seperated. that is what it turned into and thats how we knew....... she is still out there, somedsy i hope our paths reconnect..


rm_art_persists 51M
1789 posts
12/20/2005 6:28 pm

Everyone wants it but no one wants to work for it... as such it remains just a fantasy for most.


rm_goddess1946 106F
13518 posts
12/20/2005 7:04 pm

I agree with you Angel in that when it is the one, you know. I think that is part of why it is so important to not be honest with what is really real on a personal note...things just are what they are.

Just a little food for thought.............
If you really want to be happy, nobody can stop you...
{=}


rm_MeadowMuff 59M/55F
38 posts
12/21/2005 4:23 am

angel - it'll happen g/f - just takes time - remember baby steps and slow and steagy. Build that foundation one block at a time so your future castle of dreams (or little cottage with the white picket fence) has a goos solid footing and a chance of standing up to the storms that come even to the best of relationships


angeldevillvr 53F

12/21/2005 1:56 pm

Meadow..beginning to think that wont ever happen and just gonna give up on the relationship thing and becoem a cold hearted bitch and just fuck the guy and move on.


rm_MeadowMuff 59M/55F
38 posts
12/22/2005 12:53 pm

Angel - you are trying to rush hun - remember first you learn to sit, then to crawl, then to stand, then to walk and finally to run. When you are at the start of a relationship - whether friendship or romance - at the begining you are a baby who can't yet sit up - as the relationship grows you gain more confidence and strength - just like that baby. Don't be in such a hurry g/f - a newborn baby can't run and a new relationship can't stand firm until it's had time to build the strength (remember those baby steps ) to withstand a possible fall. Take care and keep your chin up - things will be fine if you take it slow and give them a chance. (FYI - despite falling in love at first sight it took hubby 6 mos to propose though we were living together that whole time.)


angeldevillvr 53F

12/22/2005 4:26 pm

    Quoting rm_MeadowMuff:
    Angel - you are trying to rush hun - remember first you learn to sit, then to crawl, then to stand, then to walk and finally to run. When you are at the start of a relationship - whether friendship or romance - at the begining you are a baby who can't yet sit up - as the relationship grows you gain more confidence and strength - just like that baby. Don't be in such a hurry g/f - a newborn baby can't run and a new relationship can't stand firm until it's had time to build the strength (remember those baby steps ) to withstand a possible fall. Take care and keep your chin up - things will be fine if you take it slow and give them a chance. (FYI - despite falling in love at first sight it took hubby 6 mos to propose though we were living together that whole time.)
Well Im not exactly sure I want a man to propose to me ever again. Had the marriag ething once not sure if I will ever let myself into that stage ever again. As for falling in love...........not even sure if I believe in love anymore. Would I like to find a man to be a companion and for us to go out together and do things or even just spend a night at home cuddled up watching a movie.

Just not so sure love exists anymore?


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