Why Oh Why  

angeldevillvr 53F
92 posts
12/17/2005 10:03 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Why Oh Why

I look at others in the world and I sometimes wonder Why Me? Why am I the one to be so alone when I have a very loving heart. Why am I the one men dont notice but when one does he tells me I am the best fun he's ever had and then he disappears.

I am the type of women that gives my all to the man I love. Thing is finding a man that will relax enough to let me love him. Men in this day and age seem to be so afraid of letting someone love them but they don't understand that loving someone so totally can be the best thing in their life.

I have met several men that I feel I could develop a very good loving relationship with but I always seem to find the men that have had such bad experiences in their past that they wont relax and let go and let us explore the love possibility. Lots of people think that if they love someone that it is a one on one reltionahip and it doesnt have to be that way. In fact if you can share the one you love it means your love is so strong that you can endure anything that happens.

Im not saying that Im in love with anyone at this time but that the potential for that type of relationship does exist if it gets explored to that degree.

rm_MBiggler2 59M

12/17/2005 8:42 pm

Have patience luv. We are out here somewhere, there is one for you too. Not all men are ready to "jump back into a long term relationship" again. But there are some that are willing to take the chance.

From what I've read here on your blog, your still grieving. Don't push so hard on trying to find "Mr. Right". It will happen, trust me, I've been there/done that.

From what I read (between the lines) your going through a tough time right now & your basing your whole future on this rough spot. Don't fall into that trap. Knowing how rough that is (my own experiences), you just need to have confidence in your own abilities to reach out & make those dreams happen. Never give up on the dream, work at making it happen.

And it will. Have faith in yourself luv, you can do this.

rm_MeadowMuff 59M/55F
38 posts
12/20/2005 7:28 am

oooooooo angel - what MBiggler2 said g/f - he expressed it very well. Hugs g/f will se you on the 14th if not before.

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