Life and choices  

angeldevillvr 53F
92 posts
1/2/2006 6:37 pm

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Life and choices


over the weekend a very dear friend of mine helped me stop and, to quote a famous saying....'Made me smell the roses'. So I am going to work on making the changes that I see I can make be they short term or long term and learnign how to make better choices in the things I do in my life and the friends I choose to have in my life.

And no I am not gonna do these things for this person I am doing them because this person made me realize what I need to do to become satisfied with myself, my life, my family, and my friends before I will be able to let a man into my life as my soulmate, my partner, my lover and my friend.

rm_art_persists 52M
1789 posts
1/2/2006 7:58 pm

good luck. Going through the same thing. Best advice I've had in a while was to ask myself "will it make it better?"


angeldevillvr 53F

1/2/2006 8:29 pm

    Quoting rm_art_persists:
    good luck. Going through the same thing. Best advice I've had in a while was to ask myself "will it make it better?"
Yes I know it will make thing sbetter for me and for anyone I should decide to let into my life and for my future with a special man.


jimandmore 56M

1/2/2006 9:45 pm

It's hard to offer yourself to another, when you aren't happy with the package. It takes a lot to step back and look at yourself and realize that only you are responsible for what you see, and only you can do something about making yourself better. It's also important to rmemeber along the journey, that any setbacks are not the end, but a stumbling block to be overcome. Good counsel can help, and good friends make the journey bearable, and maybe even fun at times. Hope your journey is short and not too hard.


angeldevillvr 53F

1/2/2006 11:16 pm

    Quoting jimandmore:
    It's hard to offer yourself to another, when you aren't happy with the package. It takes a lot to step back and look at yourself and realize that only you are responsible for what you see, and only you can do something about making yourself better. It's also important to rmemeber along the journey, that any setbacks are not the end, but a stumbling block to be overcome. Good counsel can help, and good friends make the journey bearable, and maybe even fun at times. Hope your journey is short and not too hard.
It may be hard to offer myself to another for more reasons than being happy with the package I offer. It is the insecurity of not knowing if they want me to offer the package. But I am changing things and I hope in time to have a man want the package offer I am offering him. Yes it does help to have good counsel especially when that counsel means somethng to you makign it more bearable and worth trying to do what you know you should do and to become the person you can be to the best of my ability.

I want to be the person that some man will stop and think to himself...WOW...she is what I want in my life...she is what I am missing in my life...she is what I need and desire in my life...she is what I want and what I dont want any other man to have...and where he wants to make me his (to only share if he and I so desire).

I have a feeling my journey isnt going to be very short or hard at all but I do have a feeling I might just find something hard at the end of my journey.

Thank you!!!


rm_MeadowMuff 59M/55F
38 posts
1/4/2006 4:02 am

Good luck g/f **big hugs** remember to trust in your own selfworth and to strive to be happy each day. The past is behind us and can not be chamged so let it go - the future is before us and unknown - all we can effect is the here and now. Enjoy the Now with a song in your heart, a smile on your lips, and joy in your heart. (These are the lessons hubby taught me years ago when I was a very damaged shell of a person)


angeldevillvr 53F

1/4/2006 2:36 pm

Meadow............yes I do have selfworth it just took someone important in my life to make me realize that or I guess someone I hold dear to my heart to make me listen to him. You know they say love can do many things to you and my love for this guy made me realize that I have to be true to myself and improve myself before I can ever think I can find a man that will love me the way I deserve.


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