To any good BJers out there  

angelcoed1980 36F
128 posts
4/12/2005 7:21 pm

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To any good BJers out there

I have never been one to ask for help, but HELP!! I have never given head. Are there any good BEGINNER tricks of the trade that you would be willing to share. Just remember that I NEVER, EVER have before. I know I should wait for a guy I feel comforable with and inspect it making sure there are no abnormalities or anything like that.

Any advice would be APRECIATED. Thank you.

daydreamer928 55F

4/17/2005 12:58 am

Don't do it just cause he has shoved it in your face 1st thing.
You can still give good head to someone who treats you with respect and you just met him.Advice from a womens point of view.
No teeth,ask how it feels,if something is say to hard he will show you what he likes.I was always so gentle,hell the way these men have treated their pride and joy means you can squeeze harder than you think as a women.Squeeze harder on the way is like a sucker really.If a man has a womans mouth near his baby,he will be happy.
The stories you have read that say then she took her tongue and ran it all around the tip giving little flicks with her tongue was too much for me.Take those stories and that is what men like and how women give them.
It is a piece of cake.When I gave my 1st BJ he never knew..I just acted like I knew what I was doing...I did damn good also..

wyvernrose 38F
3895 posts
4/17/2005 1:34 am

lol ok,

easy start stimulating slowly, begin with the inner thigh the soft white skin, stimulate by touching lightly with your fingers and tongue, move to the scrotum, lick and suck the sack and balls, begin at the lowest part of the scrotum hold the balls out the way and lick straight up the middle, while at it suck on both balls gently, be careful not to drop them or suck too hard as some guys will jump a mile screaming in pain if you do, if they are already hard lick the length of the shaft explore it with your tongue tasting it and moistening it, explore the head with your tongue and lips, watch and listen to your partner the whole way through pay attention to what they respond too, begin taking only a little into your mouth playing with it, DO NOT USE TEETH unless you have some experience and know what your doing, far too many women use their teeth and they do it badly at that. learn how to resist the gag reflex, I can strip a chicken leg in one bite,

if they are not already hard, gently take them into your mouth suck and lick with it in our mouth massaging it with your lips slowly withdrawing but keeping some of the suckion, warning DO NOT PULL on the penis, DO NOT PULL down too hard to the point that the skin is hard and taught behind the head it can HURT them.

you use the hard back of the throat your lips and your tongue to massage the length of the penis while you lubricate it with your mouth, learn how to take it in full length while doing it and you will become the Queen of BJ's

oh there is a spot just at the base of the scrotum which they love being caressed and licked, and when playing with the penis explore the full length of the shaft down into the scrotum don't be scared to but do be careful not to hurt/pinch/or pull them always pay attention to how they respond to what you are doing,

before they cum they will throb and become harder you will feel the cum begin to travel up the penis making it even harder and swell, if you are careful you can actually keep them in that state and prolong it. I find after doing that a few times they end up begging to be allowed to cum, and it results when you finish with them giggling like school girls lol.

and ALL men no matter what they may say about it cum so hard if just before they reach climax, you softly stimulate their anus without penetrating, some will freak out if you do try for penetration those who don't well the penetration and resulting climax by stroking up inside the anus towards the penis whiel you blow them will basically render them incapacitated for quite a duration afterward.

that's just the basics if you want any more hints and tips you will have to contact me direct.


wyvernrose 38F
3895 posts
4/17/2005 1:36 am

oh P.S. variation is a blessing always explore, and ALWAYS TAKE YOUR OWN SWEET TIME DOING IT, my average is 2-3 hours but I have been known to take much much much longer....


cute_kelli_32 44F

4/17/2005 4:32 am

Hard to believe no one responded to your post and you may find it hard to believe that the first response is from a bi woman who would much rather have YOU in bed than a man but here goes. Even though I overwhelmingly prefer sex with women, I do enjoy giving a good by at times. To really turn me on, a man must have a decent sized cock - at least 7", circumsized, and the thicker the better. First I'll run my hand up and down the length of his meaty shaft, then work on just the head with my tongue, getting it nice and wet. If you do this right you'll start getting some precum...put your mouth over the head and suck it'll enjoy the taste! Pull back any foreskin that may be there and take about a third of his cock into your mouth. Lick the sensitive underside and enjoy how nice it feels to fill his cock harden and get bigger in your mouth. Make sure your mouth stays nice and wet and continue sucking your way down the shaft. After a little of this you may have to pull back to keep him from cumming too soon. Most men have sensitive balls and you can either fondle them while you suck or occasionally take his cock out of your mouth and suck on his nuts. I personally don't like doing this...once I get a cock in my mouth I keep sucking till she shoots his load down my throat. Speaking of which there are some techniques you can use to develop deep throating action, but for now just enjoy the taste of that big, meaty cock sliding in and out of your pretty mouth. Now for a big question - do you want his load in your mouth or are you just working him up to get ready to slide his cock into your pussy? Since I don't like to be fucked my men, in my case it's easy - I want his load in my mouth. Oh well, hope I gave you some rudimentary advice. Best advise is practice, practice, practice! Oh and if you can find a gay man to coach you, I'm sure gay men can suck cock much better than we girls. After all, no one eats pussy better than another woman, right?

luciouslady49 62F
184 posts
8/15/2005 2:46 pm

I like to begin with slowly stroking his cock,and as I stroke I run my tongue up and down the shaft.. .. then I begin to suck on his balls..mmmm then I go back to running my tongue all over the shaft then licking around the head slowly.I now take his cock in my mouth a little at a time until I have it all.. moving my head up and down pumping on his cock with my mouth feeling his cock throbbing as I begin to suck faster taking it deeper in my mouth ..I continue to suck harder and faster wanting every drop of his cum.I stop and take my tongue and lick around the head of his cock driving him wild I return to sucking his cock faster and harder until he explodes that delicious creamy cum in my mouth...mmmmmmmm so good

luciouslady49 62F
184 posts
8/15/2005 2:48 pm

PS.. Having my tongue pierced is an added delight when giving the perfect blow....

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