The lost blog!....  

amberabercrombie 37F
11929 posts
7/17/2006 1:37 pm

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The lost blog!....

I’ve always found with any x of mine..they all had this annoying trait to would snap his gum over and over...another would hike his pant leg up when he ate...and the other has this insanely bad habit of biting his nails....

I was talking and telling this to a girlfriend of mine the other night when she started to tell me all the inconsiderate things her hubby does...believe me this conversation was in a category of its own...This man blows wind in bed....does his toenails on the sofa and leaves them on the floor....burps and belches while her parents are present....lets himself get off before he lets her orgasm...makes dinner for him and not for her.... and so on and so on...

So it made me wonder...what do you find rude or inconsiderate in a lover...What bothers you so much that you just cant stand....Ladies could you handle what this man does...Gentlemen can you tell me the female quality’s that irritate you...Lets have it..Lets hear all the rude and inconsiderate things a lover does to bug you!...

P.S. Thank you for the wonderful comments regarding the previous post...I love ya’ll and will catch back up tonight...!

Phuc_Buddy 46M

7/17/2006 2:03 pm

Every person has their bad habits and you just learn to deal with them. As for what drives me nuts is a person who cannot make a decision about know the type always saying "I don't care" or "Whatever you want". As for the little personal traits those are just a minor annoyance and I tend to overlook most of them because it is not worth the aggrevation.

Brainy42 53M

7/17/2006 2:19 pm

I think I'm pretty laid back. What with the middle east going to hell and freakzoid terrorists trying to kill us because we aren't like them I see little point in getting bent out of shape about nose picking or bed farting.

On a completely unrelated point... who 's your master? Who got you the most votes for the House of the Tiny Vaginy?

rm_babyboomer26 66M
898 posts
7/17/2006 3:16 pm

I hate her chewing gum. Especially noisily or with an open mouth. Makes me think of a cow chewing her cud.

rm_Benkai7 55M
2358 posts
7/17/2006 3:22 pm

Dear "amberabercrombie".

Hm ... I惴 sure I have some bad habits ... not really sure what these might be ... sometimes it depends on the point of view ... but I惴 sure about what I dislike: ... old, cracky and exfoliated lacquer on finger- & toenails ... uaahhh ...


earthShiva 59M

7/17/2006 3:58 pm

You know what bugs me? People who don't fart in bed! If I'm going to be lovers with someone, I want to know the inhibitions are all gone. Fart inhibition is often a measure of a relationship. More than once in a new relationship I have had close friends ask, "Are you two on farting terms yet?"

Farts are largely methane- a highly reactive simple hydrocarbon similar to fossil fuels. Your body wants to expunge them as a waste product because absorbing them is unhealthy. Would you ask your lover to drink gasoline? Putting up with your lover's farts is a loving act that may save the from getting colon cancer some day. Besides, they're often funny.

Djeeper1987 47M

7/17/2006 5:27 pm

Everyone has bad habits, only thing to do it let love conquer over it.

I think?

Carpe Diem

docdirk 47M

7/17/2006 5:47 pm

Gentlemen can you tell me the female quality’s that irritate you


Ah, Its you again, Your Angel Feathers and your Blood Stains...

moo_nips 57F

7/17/2006 5:50 pm long as no one really tries to elucidate a real issue...i find it so very easy to find a means a woody...right?

is the problem the poverty? or is it who the productive areas that become poverty next decade...oh, who cares...just don't pass any gas measurable by greanpeace

oops...sorry...wrong blog

T_A_B_75 42M

7/17/2006 5:57 pm

Sounds like there are respect issues between your girlfriend and her husband. He sounds fairly rude to me. I have friends like that, they all have girlfriends.

Sorry I can't really answer your question. It's been so long since I've been in a relationship I don't even know what would or would not bother me.

toothysmile 50M
16514 posts
7/17/2006 6:05 pm

ummm... i am rather meticulous about my personal hygiene and grooming, lol... so, i'd like to see that on my lover as well.


7/17/2006 8:26 pm

I better stay married.. would be scared to death in the single world..

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rm_cnilingsfan2 48M
158 posts
7/17/2006 8:58 pm

Bodily functions don't bother me
These are a few things x's have done that have bothered me...
Listening to the same question 10-15 times just asked slightly differently drives me nutty Being told to stop acting silly or to behave just makes me want to act silly and misbehave I had a girlfriend who always wanted me to tell her stories when we had sex about me having sex with women I thought were hot that we knew or I worked with. I mean I have a vivid imagination so the stories were fun but sometimes if we fought she would bring those women up and give me shit over the stories. I never quite got that as she insisted I make up the stories and would get mad if I didn't want to do it

funintheday2006 56M
9659 posts
7/17/2006 9:12 pm

Woman, shut up, c'mere. Ill take ya, faults warts and all

cobra70118 105M

7/17/2006 9:46 pm

He has an orgasm before her? What? Holy Catfish's!

Tell your friend to dump him ASAP. He needs a blow up Barbie, not a lover. If I don't get her off at least, 3 times, old rule was 8 times or more before I do and when I do it's with her! What's the sense of being a woman then. Woman are suppose to have multiple orgasms. Even 10 times, 20 times or more.

Wake up woman of the world!

What irritates me? When they don't go home when they're suppose to! lol

soldierxtrm 38M
15 posts
7/17/2006 11:20 pm

Wow. I'm not going to comment on other peoples responses. snake boy. any ho I was in a relationship where my x would be sitting down in the kitchen reading a magazine, then call for me to come here, then proceed to ask me to get her a drink of water or tea. It's only five feet away from you. Or better yet she would tell me this or that needed to be done.
I had another gal that would get extremely jealous when I would read something. A book a magazine or anything because I wasn't giving her any attention.
Oh the lists could go on and on but the important thing for me to say is that sure it bothered or annoyed me but I didn't get bent out of shape over it. Why, cause you care for them thats my they're your mate and all. And hey every guy can have a bad day in the sack, just as long as he makes up for it next time. And if you talk to the skin flute a little bit he'll come out to play again.

Oh and as of a 1998 statistic ( that was when I read it) Scientist reported that a woman could have up to 219 orgasms in one hours time. Triggers that caused them sex, talking, eating chocolate etc. However men in the study could only orgasm something like 8 or 9 times. I could continue but I think that I would bore you.


intierzha 43M

7/18/2006 1:11 am

A relationship of any sort, especially a romantic one or a marriage, boils down to compromise, what we are willing to put up with to make whatever we are engaging in work. I don't really want to categorize my ex's faults, simply because I had more than enough to for both of us. I could talk about my faults all day/night long, but I have a blog for that I think, in the end, I would rather be positive about the matter, and I know I should have been less annoyed (or annoying as the case may be).


rm_KirkVW44m 55M
688 posts
7/18/2006 3:09 am

I find it funny the argument when somebody farts or burps which are the bodies built in natural reaction to excess gas. If my girl has to fart i may tease her if it does smell bad but the fact remains its a normal bodily function. I cant think of anything my wife does or past lovers has done that disgusted me or what i thought was rude. Thankfully i've never had rude people/women in my home.. I dont associate with rude people because i cant stand them.

rm_Henry4fun3 70M
297 posts
7/18/2006 4:40 am

I think we all have bad habits and most of the time we don't even realise we are doing it.
It makes for a good relationship if our partener comments about what offends them. It is easy then to correct any bad habits.
I am a nail biter, but still trying to kick the habit

Dildo_replacemen 38M

7/18/2006 5:15 am

Qualities that I find disturbing: picking your nose, burping, and farting. Yup, the last two are natural bodily functions but don't bring attention to yourself by making it louder or "I got a good one, pull my finger". Sorry, but saying I can't help it is like saying "I kicked the cat because it was there". We are suppose to be an evolved species, the first thing we learned to control was our body and its functions. There are appropriate times, and there are times when it's best to excuse yourself. I'm actually a very relaxed individual, so none of these traits would get me mad. If it's a person I know intimately, on occasion I have found farting cute - but it's the whistle they made!

Qualities I do find irritating: being rude or inconsiderate of others... it's just unacceptable, there is no reason for it. And no, saying it's that time of the month, I'm just in a bad mood, it's been a bad day, I just need to vent, etc. are excuses.

soulripper2005 47M

7/18/2006 12:07 pm

Hmm im sure, i know mine, making a kind of chaos near by me, but i know what to find on a place!!

"The one, letting all the things on place they have to be, is too lazy to search for"!!

"Only genious will work with chaos"

But the way is, if i惴 out for bying food to have a delicious 1愀t class dinner with all anyone could wish, to take a celabity with others, how could it be, that you are arriving home to see, that the best things ar taken from your "better site" for enjoying it for his/her own, 1 hour before the cealebration of ... will begin???

Gr. Soul

goodatpoetry2 67M
13100 posts
7/18/2006 2:32 pm

When I'm involved with someone, I can put up with just about any bad habit. I just figure that's a part of their makeup.

TheCliticals 35F/F

7/18/2006 3:33 pm

Sandy infuriates me sometimes by eating in bed when I'm at work and leaving crumbs that feel horrible when I roll over and feel them under my skin. And she snores !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


ThickDick2323 106M

7/18/2006 3:41 pm

Dammit!...I answered this one the other day and the blog seems to have been deleted. Ah, well. I promise not to be annoying. Just let me know when it happens. But ya know what?...I'm afraid to tell ya know cuz I don't want you to scratch me off the list in case I list some of your!

It looks like you got your blog fixed, though. I just dropped by to let you know it seems to be working least from this end.

Take care.

BTW...I'm glad we crossed paths, too. You know if you ever need an ear away from this blog you can message me. Your story the other day was very touching. I was surprised at your candor in front os so many people. You're quite a trooper little lady. I wish I could give you a hug.

rm_kneel_be4me 49M
457 posts
7/18/2006 4:07 pm

One good thing about haveing ADD is that you cant remember anything other people used to do.... lol.

I hope this comment goes through, you just warned me you were having problems with your blog.

aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
7/18/2006 7:04 pm

I can't stand when people eat with their mouth open!!! Drives me right up the wall...

bamaboys1 49M
7 posts
7/18/2006 7:17 pm

you are extremely sexy1

Hydragenias 56F

7/18/2006 7:28 pm

funny you should post about this topic.........I met a man from AdultFriendFinder not real long ago. We went out for dinner and had a real nice evening, no sex, just wonderful conversation, dinner and of course some serious flirting. A couple weeks past and he asked me to spend a Saturday afternoon with him. We went for lunch and then back to his place. He taught me how to play rummy. The whole time we were playing cards, he would lift up his butt cheek and fart, over and over, YUCK! how gross! It's one thing if you're in a LTR with someone and you are THAT comfortable around one another, but for barely knowing someone.........I just think it's rude and it shows me that he really doesn't care what I think of him. It's a shame too because he is quite handsome and very successful in the business world. Oh well

foskidz 51M
3 posts
7/18/2006 10:01 pm

I agree with EarthShiva.

TripleHARD3 57M

7/18/2006 10:35 pm

stuck in what i wonder...a time warp...a black hole...chewing gum...ghosts in the machine...

i am positive it has nothing 2 do with you so count it as a blessing even if you don't think you deserve it...


goode4u3 50M

7/18/2006 11:50 pm

Relationships are all about teamwork and compromise. "i'll put up with some of this and she'll put up with some of that ect ect...I was with one woman who would chew gum loudly, talk about her uncle's death every time she had a couple of drinks...My worst peeve would be when this one woman would constantly tell me how to drive. - She had never drove in her entire life - very annoying!!!

JaniSux 44F

7/20/2006 9:16 pm

This one just burns me up! I had a fuckbuddy once who was always trying to get me to lick his ass hole AND YET, he would never ever even try to eat my puss. GRRRRHHHHHHH!

I blew him alllllllllll the time, but.... that's because I love giving head.. so me sucking him off was never conditional, I just did it because it gave me pleasure, especially on those nights when he didn't care if I'd cum or not.

rm_macallan4u 46M
968 posts
7/21/2006 7:06 am

My ex had this annoying habit of breathing!lol!! Actually, she would come home and dissappear into the bathroom to .... pluck! It drove me crazy, she spent hours (not at a time) plucking!

rm_veedubb71 45M
2 posts
7/21/2006 3:37 pm

call me and we'll talk about it

rm_veedubb71 45M
2 posts
7/21/2006 3:42 pm

you are well fit xx

docdirk 47M

7/22/2006 9:36 pm

OK, just this once, I'd be willing to make an exception!!!

Ah, Its you again, Your Angel Feathers and your Blood Stains...

soldierxtrm 38M
15 posts
7/22/2006 11:31 pm

    Quoting rm_mzhunyhole:
    I can't stand a man who kisses me 3 times and starts pushing my head towards his lap..when I get ready to suck his dick..he is gonna get it good..but don't be pushing my head nowhere after a couple of kisses.
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