Sex with a woman....Fun with a man...  

amberabercrombie 37F
11929 posts
5/9/2006 12:07 am

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Sex with a woman....Fun with a man...

A few years back my best friend and I had a little to much to drink and made out with one another...we didn’t sleep got as far as kissing and groping..touching and feeling...stroking and petting.....its one of those experiences ill never forget..and ill always remember...and perhaps even cherish....

I remember her saying to me...were all a little bi curious, only some of us are more open about it than others...I didn’t know whether to believe her than and I don’t know whether to believe it today.. ...

What about you.....Do you believe were all a little bi curious....have you ever thought about the same sex...ever wondered...ever tried it...are you brave enough to admit it or are you confident enough to know your not...?

chasingfun27 38M
1108 posts
5/9/2006 12:11 am

To be honest, I can't even imagine how you chicks find blokes attractive. Hair in all the wrong places i.e. everywhere - just plain nasty! That's why most straight blokes imagine (wish!) that if they were female, they'd be lesbian.

Nightguy_1961 55M
4866 posts
5/9/2006 12:27 am

I think that at some point in going from adolescent to adulthood, we all are curious...I'll admit I was waaaaaay back in the day, but I never tried to satisfy that curiousity...I enjoy women way too much.

NG61...fading back into the shadows...

rm_smosmof2 67M
3240 posts
5/9/2006 12:39 am

I have to answer awkwardly to that. I don't think I'm bi at all, have never been bi, at all, but did have a homosexual relationship that lasted for years. It was about the person, rather than the gender, and it was educational. I learned a lot more about what pleases a man than I ever would have without that perspective...

itsallfun1957 59M

5/9/2006 12:50 am

I believe that we all have the potential, but the bi sexual individuals are wired just a bit differently. One can take the cold clinical approach and look at hormonal chemistry, but I prefer the more romantic notion that I'm a true sexual being and it is all about the partner.

Amber, it sounds like you had a very enjoyable experience with a close friend and someone you care about. That's what it is all about. It can happen again, keep it spontaneous rather than planned. Again, a very good post. Thanks.>>>itsallfun1957

we2arehere1 53M
100 posts
5/9/2006 12:59 am

Do you believe were all a little bi curious....Yes
have you ever thought about the same sex...Yes
ever wondered...ever tried it...Yes and Yes
are you brave enough to admit it or are you confident enough to know your not...Brave and confident?? if thats what it takes, but it's my belief that it is more a maturity thing.

The adolescent to adult comment best sums up my experiences - young fumblings as an early teenager led to some vivid fantasies in later life...

n0tatalker 39M

5/9/2006 1:20 am

I am being as h0nest as i am capable when i say... i have never thought about having sex with a man...

without being t0tally disgusted! But i do catch myself doing flirty gay dumb shit with guys s0me times... uhhhh! i alright i'm a raging fuckin' h0mo but i'm a virgin h0mo and i'm stayin that way!!!

TabithaElectra79 37F

5/9/2006 1:41 am

.....Do you believe were all a little bi curious.... ~ Possibly, maybe, I guess if anyone was offered 10 million pounds to have sex with the same sex they

As for me, yes, I know I am!

oldude1946 70M

5/9/2006 3:58 am

Man do I ever like sex with women and I wished those men would stop winking at me. If it's a woman I'll fuck it, if it's a man fuck you

honeycomb1974 44M/42F
282 posts
5/9/2006 5:37 am

Oh I'm bi, some times I crave the touch of another woman's soft body. Yes I think most people are bi, the difference is weather you are able to admit it to your self or not! Honey

rm_Kissmystuff 61F
1435 posts
5/9/2006 5:43 am

Been hit on by women. Not tempted in the least. No..wait..except once. But it was something about HER..and she was lesbian..had a mustache..lean body..hardly any breasts..and I could actually feel the ENERGY..from her. She was a very rare matter what her gender.

Other than that..give me MEN MEN MEN.



Fletch8491 50M

5/9/2006 6:40 am

When it comes to thinking about the same sex, I have always liked the saying "Women can be Bi and men are just gay." I have never thought about sex with a guy and am pretty confident I never will. I enjoy women too much to ever think about guys.

mollen6 34M

5/9/2006 7:50 am

The only experience of the same sex was in a dream. And it wasn't a good dream, I haven't had a nightmare like that ever, and God I hope it won't happen again

rm_zahuma2 50M
459 posts
5/9/2006 8:15 am


I missed you guys that day.
Wish I was there too.
Remember me the next time you get horny.

digdug41 49M

5/9/2006 8:36 am

when I was younger I had a period in my life when every homsexual male tred to hit on me, I was perplexed by this becuase I am a very heterosexual male and going through this experience did not make me homophobic it just made me say to myself ewww yuck

roaming the cyber streets of blogland

SlowPlayin 50M

5/9/2006 8:51 am

Bi-curious? nope ... the only thing I'm bi-curious about is ... one ... would you say oooo or ahhhh if I was licking your pussy ... and ... two ... are we ever going to find out who will our little bet we have going?

Ta2dPisces 44M/38F
435 posts
5/9/2006 9:15 am

Yes I was bi curious, so I filled my curiousity with my best friend. Turns out once I ate her her curiousity was filled. I'm not curious any more, but I still like it. Hell, I'm one of those indecisive chicks....dick or pussy??? dayum its decide...

Formerly Kypris_GuardDog, AdultFriendFinder Ate Me, & I Didn't Like It!!

Knot4Everyone 40F

5/9/2006 9:30 am

I'd imagine most people are bi-curious at some point in their life. I was, and still am! I know I'm not a lesbian, but I do appreciate the beauty of a female body. I did have an experience with another woman once, and it didn't do much for me - I don't know if it was just awkward because it was my first time with a woman or if it just wasn't my thing. I may try it again someday. You've got a good story of your own, amber!

NGs_lady 64F
762 posts
5/9/2006 9:36 am

Well I can't talk about being bi curious. I am bi sexual and have been for a long time. Sorry I can't help.


NGs_lady/Lady Stee

sexstarve2006 48M

5/9/2006 11:27 am

just saying hi i am a lesbian trapped in a mans body you are really pretty do you have any nude pics

Westhill19 53M

5/9/2006 11:35 am

Sure,sucked my mate's cock when we were around 16 years old.
Only time though,prefer canadian pussy,not beer,lol...

jd29992z 54M
3888 posts
5/9/2006 11:49 am

Well my question is how do you woman like us hairy guys. I have though long and hard and I can never even think I thought fondly about that. Hmmmmmm I can't blame woman they are so soft and smooth and smell really good. If I brush my teeth to far down I almost gag yikkkkks!

Not to change the subject but I have to tell you thanks I have been visiting your blog and I noticed that you write back to everyone that leaves a comment not a lot of people do that I think that is soooooo cool thanks and see you around JD

norprin5 55M

5/9/2006 12:23 pm

i'll admit to being a little curious...under the right circumstances...

King Nor XVIII

007sexy40plus 50F  
7603 posts
5/9/2006 12:29 pm

Nope, never had any desires or thoughts about another woman. I say they have the exact same thing I have. I can safely and boldly say I am not bi or the least bit curious. my motto is I am "strictly dickly"

I am the real deal! "Come Get Me!!!"

PlaceSulfoEmily 55M/54F
1 post
5/9/2006 12:34 pm

I feel most women are either bi or bi-curious. I know I am. Only had one experience and can't wait for my next!!

rm_Crazyman1169 47M
28 posts
5/9/2006 3:55 pm

Hey Amber...Long time no chat....did you miss me?.... Had a good laugh at some of your blogs and their for this one... I will have to say no Bi-curious thoughts.... I just LOVE women... Had a threesome once where it was 2 of us guys and 1 girl, and during the melee, the other guys knee slightly touched mine.... Well I had to call a timeout, there was a flag on the play, we had encroachment...had to explain the rules and then we continued.....


Djeeper1987 47M

5/9/2006 5:16 pm

Bi-curious, NO. I mean I will say he is a good looking guy or what have you, but never ever will I engage one. I am pretty confident with that.
Of course being a man, turns me on to see a woman with a woman. Strange I am sure for some, however I think it is very erotic.

Carpe Diem

rm_kelli4u2dew 41F
5220 posts
5/9/2006 5:24 pm

I will admit to being a little curious about whether the curtains match the rug ...

I'm horny almost all the time. If a person turns me on, I don't really care if they have one sex or the other ... or both ...

evil_lolita 34F

5/9/2006 6:09 pm

I think that maybe sometimes, deep inside, everyone wonders a little bit. But most people don't go there because that little bit of wonder really isn't enough to make it interesting for them.

I do find it funny that more women are prone to be bi-curious than men are likely to be.

Me, I'm just heteroflexible. I like a man anytime, but women can join in too

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docdirk 47M

5/9/2006 9:01 pm

Great, with that thought in my head, there's going to be very little sleeping around here tonight too!!!

Ah, Its you again, Your Angel Feathers and your Blood Stains...

rm_lust2u2 51M

5/10/2006 12:31 am

Sorry, but I´m a "limited" man - I just prefer women!

T_Scupido 39M
22 posts
5/10/2006 1:52 am

I think at the end of the day it's a fine line between pleasure, experience, and trying something that is new and stimulating.

We all get turned on thru our minds, then our reacts body reacts accordingly, and either the sexual energy attracts or repels.

I think we each need an experienced figure in our lives to walk us through certain taboo's until we get more comfortable with being open about them


rm_zahuma2 50M
459 posts
5/10/2006 2:11 am

I'm not kidding.
Yes, all over the world Muslims can keep 4 wives at a time.
And here, every third person has two, three or four wives & if he wants to go for the fifth one then he needs to divorce one of the existing four.
But I just have one & don't plan for a second one.
I believe that when the milk is available from the market then why to keep a buffalo.

rm_Lookin469s2 32M
1 post
5/10/2006 3:44 am

Well it seems that the woman tend to be more bi-curious. I think thats because the female body is so dam beautifull, who could resist?

jd29992z 54M
3888 posts
5/10/2006 5:58 am

    Quoting amberabercrombie:
    Yes but some guys wax lol...

    And your welcome and thanks! I try to keep up with the comments nightly, some nights (like tonight) I get pretty darn tired and when that happens, the comments become one liners.. I try to get to know everyone as best as I can..the whole reason I blog hun .
YIIIIIKKKKKKEEEEESSSSS!!!!! Did you see my pic? Could you imagine if I waxed I would have a cardiac arrest, keep 911 ready, keep the defibrillator warmed up! I don't mind a good spanking now and then but I am not into masochism. Hahahahaha see you JD

rm_RONZO20 48M

5/10/2006 6:49 am

i would say being curious is definitly on every ones mind,shit i have had a few nasty thoughts over the years but i love to eat pussy fuck it admire it ,do what ever to see a woman get off! a man i guess i would say it will remain a thought for now

rm_OreoEyes 34M
8 posts
5/10/2006 5:49 pm

I identify as straight, because I have never had a solo sexual encounter with a man and I'm not sure whether I ever want to. I am curious about it and it does make for a hell of a fantasy, just not one I necessarily want to fulfill at this point in my life. I can say with some certainty that I haven't met a guy I like enough yet to date, and certainly not one I like enough to fuck.

I think it indeed does depend on age and how bound you are to traditional ideas of relationships and sex. As a teenager I was not attracted to men at all - I had lots of attractive female friends and was more preoccupied with losing my virginity.

As I grew older, I became more knowledgeable about sex and what brings people pleasure. I began to wonder what having a sexual encounter with a man would be like, and how different it would be than being with a woman. When I fantasize about it, mental images of the other guy's cock are not what I focus on; it's how his hands would feel, his breath, the sounds he might make as we play together.

I dated a bi-sexual girl for a while and I believe that how you react and whether you pursue a bi-sexual encounter or relationship all depends on whether you meet the right person. In that case it's all about the individual, not about their sex parts.

Dildo_replacemen 38M

5/11/2006 8:27 pm

Each person has their own level of comfort when it comes to the opposite sex and the same sex. Some are more explorative and open, others are not. I've explored the same sex and I've concluded that I am not bi or gay, but very straight. I still get hit on by guys more then women though.

I agree with need4fun2469, woman certainly do have the better parts!

Dildo_replacemen 38M

5/14/2006 3:27 pm

I just wish the ladies would ask more than the guys! Do I look like I go after my own team? Damn, I left that wide open! lol

rm_kamchak2003 38M

5/21/2006 3:45 pm

Without a doubt each person is different, everyone has their own sexuality and their own level of comfort. What I always find amusing is when other people assume that all people must be a certain way but they just don't know about it. I say there is always an exception to the rule, best not to generalize and stereotype. I really got a kick out of TabithaElectra's comment on for the right money anyone would. Some people are confident not only in their sexuality, but in their identity and principles. I can honestly say that I would not sell out for any price. To answer the question, I have never been curious about men, never had an attraction, nor an idle curiousity. I'm definately straight. But then again sex is in the mind, so who are we to judge anyone else for their preference or interest. I may be straight and non-curious, but I am also completely accepting of others differences and individuality. After all, how boring would it be if we were all the same (especially sexually.) I also wanted to say I amdire your insightfulness and creativity for the topics you choose. I haven't been on much, but I do keep coming back to read the opinions of the fascinating Amberabercrombie.

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