Love it....Like it....Do it again!  

amberabercrombie 37F
11929 posts
5/14/2006 12:34 am

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Love it....Like it....Do it again!

For every Holiday I have a tradition...Christmas...always at my dads....Easter...typically at my moms....Canada Day...always at the same park watching the same firework display...Birthdays...normally bitch and sigh that I'm yet another year older! ....Remembrance Day always at the Memorial down town...Long can generally find me camping......those traditions....those little tiny traditions ..... are what I most look forward to in life....

With sex I have certain ways I like to start out...little traditions if you will....I get much more into sex if he starts out caressing me...holding me...stroking my hair...tickling my back....The more gentle he is...the more he pays attention...the harder..the better the sex will be for him....I suppose..much like life... there will always be those certain traditions in the bedroom with me.....repetitive things that I most enjoy... certain things I love and like.....

What’s your tradition while love making....certain positions you cant live without....what positions are the ones that get you hot...make you wet...get you you embrace some of the little traditions in your life...what are your sexual traditions?...What are your general traditions....tell me .....any and all of your traditions....

puntachueca 105M

5/14/2006 1:10 am

The thing about a busted relationship is all of the tradtions are gone. Leaves an amazing big hole in the soul. Got to start all over creating new ones. Different ones not shadowed by the past.

Want to start a new one? Alternately flying across the country to experience each other's erotic weather?

clitalicious67 49F

5/14/2006 1:27 am

I have to agree with you...the more I am carressed, teased, tantalized the better the sex will be...I cannot live without the kissing...lots of kissing...deep and passionate...

Great post!



oldude1946 70M

5/14/2006 1:33 am

At my age I'm just proud if it gets hard. Look out, ol man cumming through with a dandyhappym;

rm_LoyalCumpany 46M
3204 posts
5/14/2006 1:40 am

Damn, and I just shaved my goatee.

To answer your question, amber... I like to end with her on top. Nothing better than letting my hands wander and giving her the control.

I'll go hide now.

I am JoJo the Circus Boy!

meerkittykat 42F

5/14/2006 1:49 am

Just cos I like spontanaiety, the only tradition I go for is this NEED to cum together. Oh....and while a little "rear entry" always feels good, there's something wild about cumming while staring at each other.

With the male of the species, I love to be sitting on total control of my orgasm.
Women....face to face, bodies grinding, and hips placed just right to make it all good smooooothly


ilsuconu 56M

5/14/2006 3:44 am

Generally speaking... nothing real elaborate:

* flowers on my mother's grave every Mother's Day (regular visits there every Sunday until the next Mother's Day, weather permitting)
* stop at Sheetz for a refill of coffee in my Sheetz travel mug on the way to work, on the days I work. (Three Krispie Kremes with that on the weekend shifts)
* reading your blog every time I see a yellow highlight on it (well... reading all of the ones on my Watch List when there's yellow highlights!)

and then when it comes to, uh, you know... (sex):

I guess my traditions are rather tame…

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alphuctup 40M

5/14/2006 4:05 am

I'm concentrating so hard on not making a rather obvious and childish joke about pitching a tent that I've got a complete mental block on the traditions thing...but I'm sure something will spring to mind shortly.

rm_kneel_be4me 48M
457 posts
5/14/2006 4:54 am

I dont have any traditions in bed.... Being a sagitarius and having no memory.

I look at each encounter as a new adventure. it will have new things to explore, new feeling, new emotions to draw to the surface. I am always looking for what makes the woman I am with the most pleasure, the most passion. The next time I am with that person I will bring those things back, but also I will search for new things to bring her even higher.

closer2u1971 45M

5/14/2006 5:33 am

intense passion is a must (along with intense music). anyone can fuck but not everyone can reach that level of intensity and eroticy.

runzwithknives 59F

5/14/2006 5:34 am

I'm with you on this one. Start gentle and work me into a gfrenzy...kisssing, kissing, kissing, stroking, sucking my nipples. Yep the more attention to my nipples the harder he'll get it. Face to face and I like to end with me on top.

Whispersoftly5 51F
15176 posts
5/14/2006 6:00 am

Fun post! I really enjoy extended foreplay. Leaving little notes for each other, sexy phone calls, hugs throughout the day - that sort of thing. Aside from that I've no real traditions when it comes to sex.


Twister2bed 47M
617 posts
5/14/2006 6:48 am

My holidays sound similar to yours Amber, I spemd them with family.
Birthdays well I try real hard to forget its coming so I don't remember I'm mortal.
And sex I pretty much have the same tradition as you start out caressing, kissing, holding and it progesses from there.
A little bit of attention to the little things really makes the whole experience more intense.

rm_tlaw781 38M

5/14/2006 8:00 am

Hey amber sorry you were feeling under the weather. Slam some oj or some emergenC while your typing. Anyway holidays are all about family mostly. Moms day Im driving to go make my mom some new cabinets whoa better type fast. New Years is all mine tho (a tradition I started)and my coworkers get pissed every year because I block it out in vacation time. For the millenium i went back home to NYC baby and had my cop cousin get us to the front to watch the ball. The next year I was partying in the top of the space needle in seattle (best salmon I ever had) damn good view too. AFter that I stayed in denver as they brought in this big name guy who did the paris millenium fireworks show (not bad) NYC was still better..silly french guy.The next year I was broke so I stayed home patronized some local establishments and then I met these homeless folks and it was freaking cold so I ran home and got every blanket I had to give away. Guess I had to get grounded again that year and buy some new blankets. But this year I got back on the horse partied in Vegas and was part of the worlds biggest toast in the guiness book of records.But I donated way too much money to the Vegas parks and rec fund. Damn. Oh well the next day I spent sitting on the beach in LA watching the sunset (made the losses feel better So Toronto got anything I should look into? Anyway sex.. I think its extremely important to know and understand what your partner likes and dislikes even in the smallest of things because they lead to the biggest or lack there of. If those are traditions then ok. I personally dont have many per se as I like to take it as the moment arrives and if there's no time for traditions (apt building stairwell) then bring it on! But if that communication isn't there you ain't goin anywhere you probably ain't been- so I make it known to my partner what feels good to me, sounds good etc to try an incorporate when possible. Positions-There's really not a position I don't dig except for maybe some of that super duper gymnastic three chairs and a ceiling fan bit. Geez im still trying to master yoga! Again ramble ramble...Get better and happy moms day to ya!

Knot4Everyone 40F

5/14/2006 8:41 am

I don't have any sexual traditions - it's always different and depends on how I'm feeling, who I'm with, and where we're at.

I used to have many general traditions, especially with the family. Over the past ten years my family has changed quite - they no longer resemble the family they were when I was growing up. At this point I have only one tradition: a shot of whiskey every year on the anniversary of my grandfather's death. He was a great person and I still miss him...

sillyperv 54M

5/14/2006 10:21 am

There are things we like and don't like but they seem to very with each relationship. Like right now, and I know it's kind of weird, but every sexual relationship I've had in the last 6 months seems to have started with cash. Weird, huh, hope it changes soon, I'm going broke.

I was kidding. That was a joke. You don't think I would - well not, only if - I don't have to talk about this.

I'm out of here. You try and bring a smile to somebodies face ....

Djeeper1987 47M

5/14/2006 10:29 am

I would not mind starting a tradition with you. How about it?
A full week of just you and me and nothing else.

Carpe Diem

rm_energybunny7 41M

5/14/2006 10:30 am

hello i think the sex should start from your mind like txt msg thru the day to get the find thinkin then blind fold tie up then put on some music so you cant hear where ther going to so then every kiss is a kiss you never new was coming think that would open your mind to thoughts you didnt no was there like askin yourself whays coming next just the things i like to do play with the mind the body will respond hope you like my type from other side of the pond and amazing phot by the way D

rm_energybunny7 41M

5/14/2006 10:33 am

hello i think the sex should start from your mind like txt msg thru the day to get the mind thinkin then blind fold tie up then put on some music so you cant hear where ther going to so then every kiss is a kiss you never new was coming think that would open your mind to thoughts you didnt no was there like askin yourself whats coming next just the things i like to do play with the mind the body will respond hope you like my type from other side of the pond and amazing phot by the way D

rm_kelli4u2dew 41F
5220 posts
5/14/2006 10:49 am

Happy Mom's Day!!!!!!!!

Dildo_replacemen 38M

5/14/2006 11:31 am

I'm with you and knife runner... start gentle... kissing, groping, undressing, stroking ... extended foreplay until you can't take it and jumps all over me.

I love all positions and as they evolve naturally, but I do like to work in the standing and carry, and her against the wall. Oh right, can't live without 69 and cowgirl!

I always like to clean up with a shower together. Sometimes that starts the process all over again.

rm_anacortes 74M
2850 posts
5/14/2006 2:11 pm


when I scrolled thru the replies; there were few to none remarks about positions and TECHNIQUE..

Folks... you are all into "sacred sex" in some way or another.. you are NOT animals fucking.. you are sharing LOVE.. and love IS sacred..


jd29992z 54M
3888 posts
5/14/2006 3:03 pm

I am like you I like to start off with touching and cuddling getting ourselves in tune with one another. That spot on your back that spot on my neck your hair my chest. Slow light kissing building up to extreme passion lips pressed tight sliding and moving tongues twisting, dancing, darting. To touch my lover and bring her to climax with my fingertip before all of our cloths are off. Slowly stripping each other naked and tasting each others bodies with lips and tongues. Teasing and building desires and arousal. Yes then mind blowing sex! Why do I always get so aroused commenting on your posts like this? That's ok I love it! See you JD

goodguysneedit2 56M

5/14/2006 5:35 pm

I suppose there's no point in discussing quickies and public

I'm probably going along with the flow, surprisingly...
I feel as though my preferences are simple and trite... but there really is nothing better for me than time alone together with a meager plan.. when you put on some music, pop in a movie.. sometimes both, and often more than one movie by the time the evening is over...lying together closely...on the couch or on a specially prepared playground out in the middle of the floor.
Lights dimmed..candles...
From some point you start to kiss & touch..slowly working into more... serious, serious, intense lip-lock..(nothing like it)..body parts start to mingle & tangle, and before long you're both sweating like pigs,fully clothed and going through every motion of having sex...your dick is starting to rub raw from the clothing... she's soaking wet and has already exploded once...and out of nowhere you both snap to because the first movie is over and you realized you missed 75% of the show, and you can't believe that much time has passed already. get smart while you put in the next movie.. you at least partially undress...perhaps acquire some snacks and drinks...and then pick up where you left off.
I don't care what anyone says.. I still love standard missionary position..and I love it turned to the side from behind. They are the most sensual..and allow me to envolve myself in the ways that seem to work bestfor both parties. I love being on top...drenched with sweat.. with a puddle filling her belly-button...everything is so slick and wet...and it gets all slappy & squishy...and I just want to slide around forever... so,I do my very best to make that happen.

Nahhh.. I don't have any favored rituals...


Deep_blue2 40M

5/14/2006 8:02 pm

Holding the woman with two hands behind her hips pulling myself deeper inside of her. Also love to hold a woman from behind on the pelvic bone massage her whole body and pull her close to me... I am very tender and passionate and I love to express it!

Nightguy_1961 55M
4866 posts
5/14/2006 9:47 pm

There are certain positions that I prefer over others...that goes without saying.

Sexual traditions?...hmmmm, that's a new one. I'm going to have to think on that one for awhile before answering, okay?

NG61...fading back into the shadows....

rm_Shortdogg65 51M
672 posts
5/14/2006 10:27 pm

I'm still looking for someone to start some traditions with. Shortdogg

chasingfun27 38M
1108 posts
5/14/2006 11:00 pm

Doesn't it all depend on the person you're with? The sex you have varies depending how much you care for your partner (and how ridiculously horny you are!).

rm_ngabirano 34M

5/14/2006 11:04 pm

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lookin4fun9430 40M

5/14/2006 11:20 pm

well, as far as everyday traditions, I'm like everyone else, holiday's with the family.

As for sex, There has to be oral. I was with a girl once who wouldn't let me go down on her, and it just made the whole thing weird. I also like to keep switching positions, I guess I have A.D.D. or somethi....hey, look at the kitty!

chasingfun27 38M
1108 posts
5/15/2006 12:37 am

No worries about losing my response. I'd still do ya... WTF..who said that? Stinkin alter ego!

Kamikazewild2005 37M/29F
10 posts
5/15/2006 6:13 pm

Hey Amber - just sent you that email I promised lol.

Traditions -

I'm to spontaneous and unpredictable to have traditions in everyday life.

Sexually I guess I have a couple

1. Sex does not end until she cums in my face and on my cock

2. I always go down on a girl first

3. Dirty talk is a go 24/7 lol

rm_TNmbigshaft 39M

5/15/2006 9:48 pm

The woman ALWAYS cums first (and often)

What’s your tradition while love making?...

Start at the woman's lips and make sure you play with every erotic part on her body...lips, neck, ears, breasts, ass, inner thighs, behind the knees, toes, fingers...fondle, play with every part of her body...Make her feel like a woman before you even touch (or tongue) her pussy...then dive in and endulge both your mouth and her cunt with your tongue...

can't give it all away though

rm_CDRoss 33M
655 posts
5/17/2006 11:20 am

Well, I am a very tactile person so I do love to feel and stroke with my fingertips.
I love just standing and holding eachother for a while, kissing and embracing, looking into eachother's eyes, and undressing eachother.
Running my fingertips along her jaw as I kiss her, down her neck, and along her shoulder, down her sides, massage her hips and ass, stroke her stomach, her legs and feet... and of course I love pleasuring her with my hands, penetrating her, rubbing her clit... Hold her and caress her... and then proceed to make love to her. (The number of times on that phase varies.) Even if it takes 2 or 3 hours before the actual sex - so be it. It'll be that much better in the end.
And afterwards, I still love to stroke and carress and hold... and sometimes tickle if I'm in a playful mood.
And yes I'm very much a cuddler.

rm_kamchak2003 38M

5/21/2006 4:13 pm

For family traditions, get togethers at christmas and that's about it. I'm more of an adaptable person, dealing with the situation now, being in the moment, treating it as a unique and separate experience. As for the sexual traditions, can't say I have traditions. I do have preferences, I am very much a physical and passionate person. Everyone is different, so I try to approach my partner with an open mind and willing body. Intimacy begins with a touch or a kiss (sometimes both!) Kissing is where you find out how much passion your truly have for each other. Have to have to gentle touching and caressing, maybe even a back and neck massage in the beginning to help relax her. Teasing, touching, kissing, even a little licking, fourplay is the only way to start, the more the better. Personally I prefer to engage as much in foreplay as she can take. Definately oral, what better way to focus on her needs? And I'll admit being in control in that act is nice. Intimacy should definately be a slow and gradual process to build up to the climax, so to speak. And a definate preference is time, the more the better. Never was a fan of quickies, not enough time to admire her reactions and to satsify her needs. But in the end you have to seduce her mind as much as her body. Reading her reactions and engaging in deep passion. But then again I have always been of the philosophy that as a partner is it my responsibility to do all that I can to satisfy her needs and to promote her happiness. If she feels the same way then she will reciprocate. But my responsibility is to focus on her. After all sex is only fucking, but making love requires intimacy and passion.

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