I only wish it had lasted longer...MUCH longer!....  

amberabercrombie 37F
11929 posts
8/5/2006 6:07 pm

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I only wish it had lasted longer...MUCH longer!....


Most wonderful night I’ve spent WITHOUT having sex!...Bet you all thought I was going to sex that man up didn’t you lol!...Actually I really would have if mother nature didn’t know best...Rewind...

We get there and everything was just beautiful...Breathtaking...Just plain ole gorgeous...We had a wonderful dinner..Intimate conversation....He got to know just how much of a goof ball I really am...We danced barefoot in the sand...Oh I seriously could not have scripted a better night...Getting to the point....Things got super hot with endless kissing and caressing and touching when I decide I'm going to slip into something more comfortable...uh huh...Wait for this one....I get to the bathroom and...Holy lanta Ms. Amber forgot what time of month it was!...Whatever thoughts of sex and making love were gone gone gone!....Thank god he has a sense of humor....We both had a good laugh over it and ces’t la vie...Took the pressure off for the rest of the night...Alas we both had to come home for different reasons...We knew we were only going up for the night...but I tell ya...Next long weekend...Look out!...Fuck the one nighter...Its going to be all weekend!...

So what the hell let me ask this for fun...Have you ever had an unexpected oops in the bedroom...?...Gentlemen have you ever ejaculated way to early on her?....Girls have you ever had what happened to me this weekend happen to you..?..Ok going to unpack now!..Relax..Unwind and have a few coolers!...Seriously missed you!

smackyman 45M
3843 posts
8/5/2006 6:49 pm

Glad you had such a good time - and that it looks like finally - you are going to get some in the very near future! Yeah Amber!

SingleWarrior 52M

8/5/2006 6:59 pm

Ha! I won the bet! (see your other thread )

Now... questions...

How about a combo of the two? I came too early, and discovered her time of month had started! (which is what I think caused me to go too soon... her body reations were definatly on the go )

tadpudgy 56M

8/5/2006 7:00 pm

well, *blushing*, i freely admit to "arriving" too soon. Er, on more than one occasion. Only once did i have a girl put off by it. I have been lucky to have caring lovers. We would a bit of a laugh, and i was grateful to be allowed to try again. i am happy he was so good about 'events'. Think he earned a marathon session of Amber's Addiction"!! HUG=GASMS!!!

Wyldtyme2nite 45M/45F
853 posts
8/5/2006 7:01 pm

Sounds familiar. Me and a friend of mine have had this sexual tension for years, and I mean for years. One nite we decide what the hell lets go on a date date. We have candle light dinner at a restaurant, get a little buzzed. We go back to her place. We get hot and heavy, we were both down to our underwears, and I am reaching for the condom and I notice a red stain. I joke and say you may want to soak that when we are done. Needless to say she has a thing about sex and her period. I reassured her I dont mind. She did and I slept on the couch and she in her bed. We never saw eachother again. Bad timing sucks. Question I guess would be should I have done what I did or just said nothing and had sex. Since we never saw eachother again sometimes I fell I should of kept my mouth shut till later. What do you think amber?

rm_Shortdogg65 51M
672 posts
8/5/2006 7:07 pm

Can't say that in my somewhat limited experience i've ever been premature with her. In fact, she began to wonder why I ws taking so long. It took some doing to assure her that that's just the way I am. Shortdogg


8/5/2006 7:43 pm

Hi Amber, really happy it went so well for you,even if the grand finale has to be post-poned for a bit. I'm totally jealous of the night that old boys in for. Curious; are you,like many of my lady friends,especially "randy" just before and/or during that time? Some of the best intercourse I've ever had was during. While some find it gross, for obvious reason, I just take it as a natural thing, and enjoy it. I've seen an entirely different side of a few women who got past the idea of it and just enjoyed it.

Bronzehalo 2007

IviesBidesJuste 55M
3658 posts
8/5/2006 7:50 pm

Have you ever had an unexpected oops in the bedroom...?

Yes, many times. But with my sense of humor, we get over it and keep going anyway.

Gentlemen have you ever ejaculated way to early on her?

Umm, nope, never. She always cums first. Just my rule.

I've had many experiences when the menses popped up. Sometimes we passed, sometimes we went for it anyway.

A memorable time, is when I was overseas and a smoking hot expate euro-lady befriended me at a club and took me to her place. We both didn't waste anytime and it seems we had equal minds on foreplay all the way to the shower. She then realized that the menses had started, but just when I thought we wouldn't go any further than the touchy feely stuff, she said "The hell with it, I'm getting some!", and did me right there in the shower, in all three inputs.

Thankfully, showers over there are like small rooms. Lots of space, all tiled and a drain in the floor. Mess or no mess, it was marvelous!

Dildo_replacemen 38M

8/5/2006 8:15 pm

Have you ever had an unexpected oops in the bedroom? Yup; and "Aunt Flow" is completely natural - I'm not turned off by it, but it's always been a no fly zone for the women I've been with. The event gets postponed for another evening, making it all the more anticipated and enjoyable (pleasure delaying).

Gentlemen have you ever ejaculated way to early on her? Well no, I've gotten to that point very quickly, but just pull out or pause until it subsides - again pleasure delayer.

mysticdreamangel 60F
2759 posts
8/5/2006 8:45 pm

Sweetie, I am so glad that things worked out for you, even if not as planned! We have all had that oops as females, but obviously this guy understood!

Sweet dreams because you deserve them!

funintheday2006 56M
9659 posts
8/5/2006 9:22 pm

So what the hell let me ask this for fun...Have you ever had an unexpected oops in the bedroom...?...Gentlemen have you ever ejaculated way to early on her?....

Fun answers: I have had so many oops, not prem ejac but OOOOOPPPPSS.
Rermind me to blog the time a young lady broke her wrist as we left the restaurant to go to the room....
Never prem ejac but, I think thats because I dont believe I'm getting any until I actually do!!!

manofneed 41M
148 posts
8/5/2006 10:06 pm

Timing? I have yet to find a time of the month where sex is not good. It cuts down on some of the warm up's but I don't get the rest of the problem. Monthly or not I would make you moan.

itsallfun1957 59M

8/5/2006 10:54 pm

Amber, think of the anticipation for your next adventure with him.

Sure there have been some premature, but in the younger days that was not a problem, but then the focus of sex was sex. Now the focus is the experience for both individuals to enjoy the moment. Different age and different philosophies.

Now with the pressure (internal; being the best, etc.) The erection just died and God that was so embarrassing and frustrating.>>>itsallfun1957

Balibabe19 41F

8/5/2006 11:01 pm

Well I am sure any healthy sexual being would have had an oops once or twice...they say if the sex isn't dirty you're not doing it right!!

Glad you had a great time!!

Intensity4U 52M
7432 posts
8/5/2006 11:11 pm

Hey Amber Glad it went well for you.
Have you ever had an unexpected oops in the bedroom...? Sure - like when kids you thought were asleep are opening the door... (or parents in my younger days).
Gentlemen have you ever ejaculated way to early on her? Nope, never had that happen - there's been times I had to REALLY slow down...

docdirk 47M

8/5/2006 11:46 pm

You? A goof ball? Shut up!!!

Accidents? I ejaculated before the computer booted up today. Does that count?

Ah, Its you again, Your Angel Feathers and your Blood Stains...

economickrisis 54M

8/5/2006 11:46 pm

G'day. There'll always be a next time

Ya might want to know about [post 456903]

IsThisBetter4u 105M

8/6/2006 12:20 am

I'm soooooooooooooooooo sad. I didn't realize that I had added so many Watched Blogs to my list that yours got moved to another page that didn't exist before (along with some others). I just now figured it out. I thought your blog was down.

I didn't even read this one when I found it. I'm too sad. Just wanted to say that I missed ya while I was being a dumbass. {=}

tootsiedippin 53M/52F
1078 posts
8/6/2006 1:05 am

First time we courted a girl together. Been talking to her for months. And she finally pops the question..."do you want to come up and meet me". We had meet her a couple of times before but we knew that this time it was different. Tootsie is excited and in the bathroom getting ready when I here a moan. A quite one but I knew exzactly what it meant. Well neadlessly to say that night was delayed for a couple of weeks.


lostmydrinkagain 43F
2272 posts
8/6/2006 1:17 am

can't say that has happened to me and thanks to a wonderful doctor it never will, too bad that leaves the door open for other things that could go wrong...

TheCliticals 34F/F

8/6/2006 1:21 am

Poor you


rm_6969dave6969 42M
9 posts
8/6/2006 1:43 am

well, i think everyone has had some type of..well..u know..youjust need to have the right attitude when it happens..laugh...

sweetlovethe9 40M

8/6/2006 1:58 am

Okay, So I guess I will be the bad guy on here. In I bad I mean "sexually" comment. Well...hmm..

Okay..usually if you have known a person for awhile ( I realize this was the first time you met) there is one thing you can do. Granted the first person who decided to do this to me was a little tipsy side the first night we hung out and I was though to myself..what the heck are you doing chica?

Anyway, instead of "riding" try gliding. It works when you are with someone (Dating, married, other relationship) and it you have the balls to do it with people you barley know. When it is that time of the month..you get on top the guy like you are riding him...but instead slide up and down his shaft. Usually works best when there is lube (duh) and probably feels better for the girl when you back is to his face. (since that rubs your clit more)

So...if that occurs again once you are more comfortable..by all means either with a condom or with out it try it. I was introduced to it a few years ago and if anything for a guy the sensation is a mix between normal sex and oral sex...rrrrrrreally nice.

As far as the being excited and getting done to soon for guy. young guys need to watch pepper. This may sound crazy..but it will sit on your prostate like a 2 ton truck. So what you say. Simple..it puts pressure on it although you cant feel it. It is like if a lady walked around with something pressed against he clit for house end..she would probably start to do something with a person later on and climax quickly. Don't be believe me guys? Eat food 3 times a day with a crap load of pepper on it. and $10 says you will be done faster than normal..

Thanks for the comment on my blog the other day..yes people would miss you if you left...and I know you will have some rocking orgasm soon. =) Stay beautiful..please excuse the novel..later.. For more tips like these and crazy stories..keep an eye on my blog. Happy hunting ladies and gents..

tracy_de_lacy 105F
9268 posts
8/6/2006 4:49 am

yep, I have been in similar situations. Although mine could com on with the stress and build up you had coming up to that weekend. Now I have some instructions for you

Go to the calander or your diary. Mark that weekend in red then do the same every 28 days for the next 6 months, lol. Then book the next weekend on a red free zone.

Bye everyone, it was a blast

rm_ironhead1956 60M
275 posts
8/6/2006 5:31 am

Well, let me start by saying yours is one of the blogs on my watched list. I've only been on this site for about 2 months, and it is on my watched list. I enjoy your humor, your stories, and your questions very much, I've even left comments. But let me tell you, we have all been exactly where you were this last weekend. I'm 49 yrs.old and I can honestly say YES to each of the questions you asked. I have gone off half cocked, so to speak, and had women be under the same circumstances as you. Anytime a man has been with a woman for more than, oh, about 4 months, one if not both have happened. Let me just say this, and I hope you don't find this gross, (if you do, just tell me on my blog, cause I certainly don't want to offend you), just be happy it happened when it did. He might not have been as understanding if he had certain parts of his anatomy in or around the "holy of hollies" when it started. Besides, this could be a real indication of how he might feel about you. If things keep going the way they are, he thinks a lot about you, if they get ice cold, your fears will be confirmed. He just wanted to get you into the sack anyway. Love the blog, don't leave us ever.

goodatpoetry2 66M
12406 posts
8/6/2006 6:25 am

Make sure your next date with him isn't next month! LOL!
Yeah, I've been too quick and have found out about her period at the last minute. Some women don't care, and some do.
I don't! LOL!

jd29992z 54M
3888 posts
8/6/2006 7:18 am

It happens to us all. You know maybe it was for a reason to show you he had a sense of humor and he is gracious. Also to build both of your desires more for the next time oooohhhh!!!

That is so cool you had a great time you deserve it girl and you also deserve a nice guy in your life. Later JD

Djeeper1987 47M

8/6/2006 9:07 am

That sucks, I was really hoping you get some for me at least anyway.
There is always the next date my dear.

Glad you had a good time!

Carpe Diem

rm_Benkai7 55M
2358 posts
8/6/2006 9:18 am

Dear "amberabercrombie".

you seem to have had a good time ... ...

... as long as you feel comfortable with ... everything is all right ...


wickedeasy 66F  
25470 posts
8/6/2006 11:40 am

um, er

why couldn't you have sex with your period?

am i a freak or something - i never thought of it as a reason not to be intimate

You cannot conceive the many without the one.

ChrisDL 47M

8/6/2006 11:52 am

I'm glad you had a good evening - hopefully the first of many so an unfortunate incident this time won't matter

FunFlirty4u 45F

8/6/2006 12:33 pm

Good thing you packed the granny panties lol

rm_devilsgrin69 51M
223 posts
8/6/2006 12:51 pm

Well Amber,
The question i'm going to ask refers to my last post on the bet.
Did you sleep in the same bed?

To your question, does premature ejaculation include heavy oral and manual stimilation then entering and cuming, before she does, then yes i have.(it's been a long time since that happen)

To the next question, It seems to happen whenever we go out of town.

Glad you had a great time...
Did you bring the beach toys?

T_A_B_75 41M

8/6/2006 5:10 pm

I had a feeling you weren't going to. Not because of the actual reason. Interesting how things work out.

The only mishaps in the bedroom is the first... Hold on that is going to cost you big time. Isn't this a family show.

Glad you had a great time even though I am extreemly jealous.

rm_cnilingsfan2 48M
158 posts
8/6/2006 7:34 pm

I have never launched early...lol but I have been with women several times when the curse shows up. Then I just get the old blue balls Glad to see you had a good time regardless

rm_1hotwahine 62F
21091 posts
8/6/2006 8:50 pm

Many years ago I had this happen and the worst part (this is really gross) guess what the poor guy was doing at the time??? Yep. Oh lord.

PS: SO GLAD you had a wonderful time. And you know what? I'm kinda glad mother nature put in her two cents' worth. Next weekend will be even better!

Yeah, I'm still [blog 1hotwahine]

rm_IFromCountry 53M
1 post
8/6/2006 9:43 pm

Whoa, whoa, ejaculates and all that,... is Jerry Springer in here too?
Understanding orgasm and fluids is a lot more that stepping on a gas pedal for a shot of high test. For men, as much as they won't talk about it, and ladies, who usually don't know you once you bring it up.
I am the first one to be curious and rewarded by "hot stuff". Not all women ever ejaculate, and the thought of that only drives their feedback and feelings of "not doing it" further away from understanding. So Help me out here, and give us a pause to get to second base. We aren't children here, so ask for info, someone will share and you will begin to get your own hot wheels going, but I will try to be available for email Q's.
Thank You for Reading, Dr Rob

rm_marnisway 85F
5018 posts
8/6/2006 10:21 pm

...did ya ever feel like you were standing in line at the funny farm...
prem..ejac...from the partner....yep
a day not to play...yep
but thank goodness ...you get another week/end



Nothing is ever the same... when it comes to pleasures.

with a hint....the erotic senses will manifest into an abounding mess of flesh

the mind needs fulfillment of the body

if it feels good ...it is good

I've done it again...*S*

AvantOrganFezes 49M

8/7/2006 12:52 am

I met a girl one time and took her back to my college apartment. We used the living room couch bed because I my roomate was already crashed out in my room.

I had the absolute best sex of my life that night. She was a firecracker, I was just drunk enough to keep from "arriving" anytime soon, but not so much that I couldn't pilot the cruise missle. We went for hours that night, lit only by the streetlights through the closed shades.

I woke up very satisfied the next morning. Looked down, and thought someone had conducted surgery on me overnight! I was covered, the sheets were covered...oh, it was a mess.

I remember taking a shower with her and it was like a scene out of a horror movie watching all the blood wash down the drain (sorry!). I didn't care, though. It was a GREAT night that I'll always remember. I'm not sayin' you should book the suite for 28 days from now, but know there are plenty of guys out there that aren't nearly as phobic about having a threesome with Aunt Flo as you might think.

alphuctup 40M

8/7/2006 1:39 am

Good job you took the Granny Pants!

rm_dirtyltlslut 45M/40F

8/7/2006 2:42 am

You should have had sex in the shower, your both clean when it's over.

noangel46 59M

8/7/2006 7:07 am

Sure it has happened. What the hell , in for a penny.............

4biddenlove4us 49F

8/7/2006 7:52 am

Been there, done that but dropped by to say " hello gorgeous " Glad you had a good time tho

rm_goddess1946 105F
13518 posts
8/7/2006 9:30 am

of coursssssssssssse

It's all good, beautiful one...
just remember to breathe {=}

Just a little food for thought.............
If you really want to be happy, nobody can stop you...

DiscreetDelights 50F

8/7/2006 9:57 am

I recently spent an amazing, sexless night much like yours. Incredible man, lots of laughter, fond memories, wonderful dinner. Makes you feel all giddy inside doesn't it?

rm_shagknight 47M
67 posts
8/7/2006 11:44 am

Wow -- how about all the advice you got -- Nothing I can really add here... except my name... LOL

40lovesetmatch 59M

8/7/2006 3:01 pm

Sorry you had an inconvenient interruption. Maybe after you have dated a while, It won't preclude activity. I know from experience, that if the w wants it she gets it. At least the hard part.


Bloody_Quandary 49F

8/7/2006 4:15 pm

Sometimes i drop me flowers, and accidentally crack one off as i bends over to pick them up. if someone mentions it i go 'the one wot smelt it dealt it'. take care beautiful sexy lady ~smiles~

Passion247000 46F
3195 posts
8/7/2006 4:31 pm

Hey, Amber... hope you don't leave us... come back when you can, k? I miss you!!!

take a min. and check out the link to get your whole astrological chart for free.... I love to see yours..... come [post 458936]

I love ya and I am missing ya!


rm_Ptalk1155 34M
3450 posts
8/7/2006 7:11 pm

Not early, but unexpectedly ejaculated once. She was lazily stroking me while I was focused on getting her off. But, apparently watching her orgasm was quite the turn on since I came with her despite the limited stimulation.

beatpoeme 53M

8/7/2006 7:17 pm

Adventure adventure. There have been times in the early days when....
Yes it has been hot girl. But its cooling off in time for the X. Hope to see you there. I was down at the beach today, got my burn in for the year. Didnt bother out in Vancouver with the rat race and all. Im back home for RnR, and to take it easy for a while. Time to plan a vacation out of here. I travel so much It feels like work. Better pick a hot spot way down south in the winter time that will do it... Email me and we can hook up...tehe. Im ready to get it back on with all the T.O friends again...Im back.


hjblknyt 37M

8/8/2006 3:39 am

Glad to hear you had a great time...

I have had an occasion where I have gotten to excited going down on my lady and when I have gone to enter it is all over red rover... Fucken hated it as I was looking forward to a good long session that night too.

keithcancook 60M
17718 posts
8/8/2006 4:54 am

Meunstral sex has worked just fine for me. Although that never happened the first time I was with anybody. I suppose in that situation I woulda sat it out like y'all did.

Harpocrates7 42M

8/8/2006 2:57 pm

I could go on about accidents and mishaps, but in response to the first part of your post, I'm glad you had a great evening (in any event).

warmandsexy52 64M
13164 posts
8/9/2006 12:59 pm

My guess is that if he can laugh and take this in his stride he will be a great lover.

To passions that lie ahead.

warm xx

mythex119 33M
1 post
8/10/2006 6:03 am

nothing is more relaxing than having a hot drinks and starring at the sky at night? sex? it's just a common thing

4 posts
8/23/2006 7:43 am

Unfortunatly I have been in that situation with a friend of mine.We laughed saw a movie and had a few drinks.Once we get back to her place the moument starts she's hot I'm hot.She tells me I got her all wett.She goes to the bathroom and I hear the shower come on.I'm thinking well maybe she came on herself and wanted to be fresh for the next one.She comes out with sweat pants on.Ok now that's not very sexy but I imagine she was comfortable that way so I thought nothing of it.We began to kiss and touch again.I sucked her breast as her shirt came up but not off (no bra).She went down on me for awhile and she was good.I tried to stop her because I was ready to make her kitty purr.She just pushed my hands back and told me to just relax.She sucked it out of me and there was nothing I could do.So we talked for awhile and she said she was ready for bed. I left and got a call on my cell as I was on my to somewhere else.She told me she would have love to take it all the way but the timing wasn't right.LOL
I still had a wonderful time!!!

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