He put his slong where?!  

amberabercrombie 37F
11929 posts
8/7/2005 9:00 pm

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He put his slong where?!

Ok im flipping through this site and I see an awful lot of slongs in womans rears, I dont get it, what is the big deal about anal? Ive personally tried it once, hurt like hell, my ass in now an exit only area......

So I ask the you men and woman of AdultFriendFinder this, why anal? What is it im missing out on that oviously everyone but me enjoys so much..? Do tell!



HamiltonHammer 39M
1 post
8/8/2005 7:56 pm

Hi Amber,

Not sure why there is all the fuss over it, but it's probably just a novelty thing. I have performed it on a previous girlfriend, and while it certainly was "different", it was like it's better then going in the front door. Why try to understand men though... ignorance is bliss!! haha


rm_bisexual69 48F

8/9/2005 4:51 am

I believe its a fantasy for most men as it is considered taboo, A little hedonistic in regards to the pain and maybe a little power and contoll felt by the male.
And for those males who take to long to climax....well it is super tight


rm_4nik8_4u 61M
2501 posts
8/9/2005 8:31 am

Very strong muscle that can squeeze the hell out of your cock. As far as hurting, anal sex is not something you just jump into. Without an experienced partner I'm sure it hurt. There has to be a progression leading to penetration. You should be so turned on you're ready to beg for it. There are a huge number of nerve endings in your ass and every woman I have had anal sex with has been able to orgasm from it. Some more easily than with vaginal sex. Don't give up on it so quick. Start exploring there when you masturbate and concentrate on the added feelings it creates. You will find yourself going a little farther each time. Good Luck, AA


smackyman 46M
3844 posts
8/9/2005 10:39 am

Only been down that road twice - with an experienced woman, and it was simply fantastic for me - and from her reaction and talking to her she enjoyed it as well.
Trying it for the first time with an inexperienced woman - all we ended up doing was laughing our butts off because is was just SO not working for us that night! *grin* Overall I would say that the front door will always win when comparing the two. It's not for everone though.


rm_Tommytune99 60M
10 posts
8/14/2005 8:45 am

Hi Payton... It is an aquired taste but once you accomplish it, it is worth the patience for you and your partner. The big secret it to be slow and easy and lots of lub. Be patient. If you need to slowly go over several sessions, so be it. It is for the Ladies bennifit too. It can be mutual gratification. Also try a anal vibrator as well. Something to slowly stretch and relax you. If you do it slowly, you will enjoy


dXs73 43M
4 posts
8/23/2005 5:24 pm

Amber..trust on me..it's just a matter of complicity. You will find the right man for the right thing. And the right guy isn't a train but the ocean's waves...let him drive you to anal pleasure slowly, with great attentions and patience...moreover a slow anal actions gives the highest sensations! Make him use fingers first [you can do it on your own as self-training...and it feels even better!] and only when you fell the long for penetration ask for it slow...inch per inch...close your eyes and concentrate on sensations...it will be fantastic for you and even for your partner. A thick dick hurts of course...ain't a good start but a good aim indeed...I'm never satisfied anymore with small ones...I need always larger and bigger! lol One last suggestion to choose the "right analizer"...before to allow him to enter from backdoor use a password...I mean... ask him to allow you to penetrate his ass first..if he says ok and opens his own backdorr...welll...you found the right guy for sure. Teach your partner how to treat your sensible anus! Need further suggestions? Just ask me deusxs at lycos.co.uk

A tender kiss right there in your "rosebud"...a long deep kiss there helps...

Bye... David


rm_shane_smith2 54M
1 post
9/25/2005 3:57 am

If it feels good, do it. So, if it doesn't...


4theanswer 31M

10/14/2005 10:26 am

Nothing wrong with experimenting but if you don't like it you don't like it. Most women don't do anal for their own pleasure...they do it as a treat for the men. So yes you could say its a win win for the men.
pschologist says: anal stimulation can add to the experience for women when mixed with vaginal intercourse...but when anal intercourse is compared as an alternative to vaginal intercourse in regard to female stimulation...it really cant compare
So my advice to you is, get some stimulation for your naughty bits while you're getting anal to enjoy it more or if all else fails, men love anal...use it as a bargaining tool
Last girlfriend did that and I hated her for it...and loved her for it
just a thought


rm_anacortes 74M
2850 posts
10/28/2005 8:52 pm

Quite frankly, it seems to be one of the last "TABOOS".. it seems few can even talk openly on this subject.

Your frank sharing is appreciated.. I think Tantra says NEVER do something you really do not want to do..

As you will have read, the TECHNIQUE is entirely different from missionary..

I think Tantra would also say, "keep an open mind; dont rule out anything arbitrarily" sp?

Namaste


PartnersNCrime69 50M

11/15/2005 1:59 am

Well, as I would agree with most of the comments here, I must add that the "pleasure" of anal for the woman is difficult to achieve but nevertheless VERY do-able. And I mean that for practically all woman. Not to sound like an expert or anything but, if it's done properly a new orgasim can be experienced. At last count I was informed of 9 types of orgasims for a woman (one point for the ladies). Damn, if I can think of them all but obviously: clitoral, vaginal (g spot) full body, breat/nipple etc. Just think of anal, for those who've been lucky enough to master it, as having a new type of orgasim. Use common sense and go slow. An experienced partner is obviously helpful. It doesn't, should say, shouldn't be painful. Work up to it over time and in the beginning only with clitoral or other for-sure stimulation at the same time and lots of lube (spit isn't going to do it!).

Hope it helps and Good luck


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