Ever notice.....  

amberabercrombie 37F
11929 posts
1/14/2006 5:22 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Ever notice.....


Have you ever talked to someone on here that you think is totally intesresting, than talk to them for awhile and you get to know each other, perhaps like one another...

Than after awhile you notice the little head games they start to play, it really makes ya wonder about some people...

Good thing is I could give a fuck less and can just say ces't la vie, but ya know what I mean lol...or am I making sense!

To much time on your hands when your stuck in bed I tell ya....and to chatty!


smackyman 45M
3843 posts
1/14/2006 9:09 pm

Maybe the Nyquil is creating those head games? All kidding aside - when you first chat with them they try to put on their good side. (really - who doesn't) Then as you get to know them you may find out about their willingness to mess with peoples heads...good thing then that you got to know them this way first....*click* (delete!)


sillyperv 54M

1/15/2006 8:03 am

I have such a low tolerance to "mind fuckers", it's almost like an allergy. Honestly, they leave me physically ill and I cut them off at the first hint of trouble (the benefit of learning from experience). I think these narcissists have no emotional core and need to traumatize their victems so they can absorb feelings they don't have.

I've heard it said that if you don't look into someone's eyes while they speak you will recognize the crap being spewed.


smackyman 45M
3843 posts
1/15/2006 11:49 am

When you said 'head games' I was just assuming people that weren't all there - but now I'm on board with what you are talking about. Was this the guy where things seemed to be working out but then became screwed up? The reason why you were away from AdultFriendFinder for awhile? Don't mean to be nosey - just interested.


Plano69 54M

1/15/2006 12:27 pm

The hard part for me is after getting to know someone and really liking them, I have to accept that I may never really meet or see them... and that when all is said and done, we never made any promises,we don't own each other, and unlike the outside world, we expose our inner most souls in our souls to each other, and it's taught me to love unconditionally... to still love someone even if they love others... something that was a bit difficult in the world I used to live in... I confess, sometimes I get a twinge of jealousy when I see a babe I adore having fun and flirting with others, but then, hey, I'm doing it too. It's raised the level of trust and freedom to levels I've never been before... and teaching me alot about myself in the process...
So often, I can understand the head games... if they get a bit out of control, then you know the person isn't right for you, lover or friend... soul mate or cyber fuck... it's still amazing to me... LOL!


redlipsprincess
(Princess Lips)
51F

1/25/2006 12:52 am

making purrfect sense lol

TTFN


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