Bi Curious meets Bisexual  

amberabercrombie 37F
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7/16/2005 11:39 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Bi Curious meets Bisexual

Now I have to admit im only at the bicurious stage and really dont know if I would ever cross over, played in the minors when younger, but never went pro. I was browsing the site today and noticed a tremendous amount of other bicurious/bisexual woman, yet I myself have never been contacted by one of them or advica versa.

I find this strange because of the amount of male emails I get per day as im sure most woman get on here per day, has anyone ever been contacted by another woman? Did you actually meet? How did it go?

While I love men, I often wonder what a one on one interlude would be like with another woman. A woman would be able to understand you and know your every needs (to some degree)right? Id love to hear about any one on one encounters such as these or even couple + woman where there are 2 woman involved.

bifemseeksfem 60F

9/21/2005 12:16 pm

As a bisexual woman that has never been curious and always been bisexual, I may be able to shed a little light on this. This whole bi thing is like a journey and everyone seems to be at different, sometimes opposing places. When you factor the whole husband/bf threesome thing into the mix, it makes for some pretty diverse needs. Myself, I never respond to the curious. I made the mistake once, the woman freaked out and cried "OMG, what if I'm a lesbian?" to which I responded "Uh, so what?" Way too dramatic for me. And then there's the male quotient. I'm always nervous that pressure has been put on a woman that describes herself as curious and says that she wants a threesome with the guy in her life (or, God forbid, she wants to "give" it to him as a gift" -- oh please). I haven't looked at your profile but it could be that there is a big question mark contained within it that you may not even be aware of. I know that I don't respond to those profiles and I suspect that a lot of bisexual women that are really secure with their sexuality don't either. Just a thought.

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