*The Blow Job*  

amberabercrombie 37F
11929 posts
2/12/2006 9:01 am

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*The Blow Job*


Ever wish you could do what they do in those porn movies for your special someone?

While I love to do anything to please the person I'm with, I do have some trouble with the following...

I suspect I'm properly in the minority here about blow jobs, I have never been a big fan in giving one, unless that man is particularly small, yes in my case size does matter but not for BIGGER reasons.

I don't understand how woman can get over the *gag reflex* I sure cant, I can go maybe 20 minutes of sucking and playing.... but deep throating, forget it, I gag and literally want to be sick (thats if hes big of course).

Than there is that age old question, spit or swallow? In all honesty, I cant do either, the smallest taste of it makes me want to rush off into another room, hide my head under the covers and scream, have mercy on me no more!

Ive read some womens blogs on here, who seem to be magnificent at doing this and I wonder what their secrets are!?!

How do you get over that gag reflex, men do you do anything to help her?

Woman I would love some tips!?

Would you spit or swallow, do you spit or swallow? or in my case neither?

Men which do you prefer?

And guys ANY advice would be most welcome in this post!


expatbrit49 62M

2/12/2006 11:09 am

I dont have a preference, I think its all a mtter of practice, I would be happy to help lol

Good luck with it

Thank You for Your Time and Attention


onenonlydave_77 39M

2/12/2006 11:50 am

I spare you the two typical repsonses from guys (either oh... it doesn't matter that much... or it a deal breaker)

In terms of the deep throat... it looks really good... and feels a bit interesting, but you can accomplish most of the same sensation without scarfing down a foot long. Just work you way from tip to toe on the bottom side, and I don't think you'll here any complaints.

As for the climax.... that's a bit tougher. In my personal opinion (speaking from my expieriences) the best blow job climaxes have come with my little dagger inside my partner's mouth. For those I've been with who like you, toss their cookies at the slightest hint of semen, the allergic type reaction is definitely a bit of a mood killer. But that said, if the finishing touches are a loving and vigerous hand job... the day is definitely not lost! I think the most important thing is to not leave a guy hanging so to speak. It would be like a guy bringing you to the brink of orgasm and then leaving you to finish on your own... definitely not as powerful.... and I know you can especially relate to the frustration of an incomplete job!

In the end I think it comes down to... a blow job is best if the person giving it is loving what he/she is doing. If your hearts not in it, do something else you love!


rm_PurryKitty2 48M/49F
9753 posts
2/12/2006 12:31 pm

I wouldnt spit or swallow either but I wish I could do some of the other things those porno queens do plus their hair always looks amazing and I love their fuck me pumps!

Purry {=}

Purry


sillyperv 54M

2/13/2006 9:24 am

Just as a means of passing on information, and not because it's really important, though due to a voyeuristic tendencies, I think it would be rather enthralling to view a porno performance done on my dangly bits, it's called a "hummer" for good reason. Doctors ask patients to hum so they can slide tubes down the throat of patients without them gagging. It's worth a shot. The other suggestion is pratice and relax, on a dildo so there's no performance anxiety. Still, I wouldn't worry about it too much.


boytoy4urdesire 37M
35 posts
2/13/2006 5:23 pm

Ok, well just to throw my two cents in...A former g/f of mine would usually take a drink to bed. A coke, tea, or sometimes kool-aid. She said it helped with the taste because she would swallow then chase it with a large drink. Maybe that might help. Also...to prevent the gagging, just dont go down so far. Duh! i know, but just wrap a few fingers of your hand around his base this way your lips hit your fingers before he hits the back of your throat. Plus, when he looks down and you sees you "all the way" down on him, he wont know the difference. If he does, disctract him. Use your hand to play with his balls or his inner thigh. To keep him from thrusting too deep keep a hand on his upper pelvis area, this will let him know not to thrust (kind leading a horse with the reigns). PS...I love a girl that laughs during sex. It really helps to lighten the mood some.


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