**Breast implants**  

amberabercrombie 37F
11929 posts
3/20/2006 8:44 pm

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**Breast implants**

A few months ago in my blog I talked about wanting breast implants, I decided against it at that time and truth be told, I am still very iffy on the subject, yet after talking with a very good friend tonight that feeling of wanting to get them done has recommenced...he was middle ground on the subject, but provided some very useful information...

I'm pretty sure there is great Dr's out there who can virtually make them look real and feel real..

See if I were to get them done I would be getting them done for me and me alone...I have always been a little self conscience about my breasts because I think they are way to small...I wish I could fill out a bikini better and so fourth, I'm sure other woman have had that feeling at one point or another?

So to bring up an old post and for the life of me I cant find it....should I or shouldn't I?

Would it really such a big deal to get them done? Do guys/girls really feel any different one way or another towards them?...

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You know...... I really could be an ass and make this a poll but I'll spare you the yes or no antics of that!


docdirk 47M

3/20/2006 9:12 pm

I've always been of the belief that surgery, any surgery, should be a "last resort." There are dangers that are always present and very, very real. Nothing is 100% safe, so I've always thought avoiding the risks is a better idea - unless it's a health issue that needs to be remedied.

On the other hand - you have to live with you 24/7. If it's a constant discomfort, (image wise) the peace of mind may balance the risks.

There - I was absolutely no help whatsoever. Mission accomplished!!!

Ah, Its you again, Your Angel Feathers and your Blood Stains...


reverend21 49M
1913 posts
3/20/2006 9:53 pm

Most importantly, you are doing this for you if you get it done. Second i would check to see if they would still feel the same after the surgeory, to who ever is lucky enough to be graced with your precence. third, i checked your profile, there is no mention of size so i can't use that as a reference and no pictures to use as a reference, so I can't give an honest opinion on that count. fourth, i would prefer to do some hands on "research" before egiving you my final opinion. Lastly, and most important, you are a babe from the get go, anybody would be lucky to spend time with you, only do this if you are sure you want it to be done for you, sorry if I wasn't much help. I just feel that a persons body is sacred and that women are never satisfied with their breasts no matter what. They are either too samll, too big, too far apart, too close together, sort of like a man with penus size.


SlowPlayin 50M

3/20/2006 10:40 pm

S,
You have a GORGEOUS body ... don't do it ... please.

Oh ... thanks for not making this another poll.

Jim


charlieff 76M
264 posts
3/20/2006 10:55 pm

My advice; don't do it. There is too much emphasis on big boobs but that's another story (my post BIG BOOBS vs. LITTLE BOOBS ). What are the hazzards/effect/results of fake boobs and pregnancy? At your age you never imagine getting older but you will. Then when you have breasts that fall into your arm pits when you're on your back, you won't be sexy or happy!

Charlie


SidesTutorBlast 37M
1 post
3/20/2006 11:12 pm

Hey with modern practises implants aren't all that bad. But if you really want to finalize your decision you should watch one of those surgery shows on tlc or something of that nature and ask yourself "Do I really need/want to go through that".As far as my opinion if they compliment your looks then why not. Every woman I know that has had a breast augmentation was very happy with the end result.


Brainy42 53M

3/20/2006 11:40 pm

Just say NO to rubber titties. They rarely look or feel real. Besides, it's not the size of the tittie that counts, it's what you do with it.

I beleive that if you lack confidence in your appearance, the problem isn't your appearance, the problem is your confidence. If you change your appearance, you're not addressing the real issue. Sooner or later you may become dissatified with some other aspect of your appearance and may want to change that. Then you're on the slippery slope to the ol' Michael Jackson nose falling off the face problems...

We all come in different shapes and sizes. The women I find really attractive are the ones that have self-confidence regardless of their physical appearance and don't give a damn what anyone else thinks.

Unless your titties are causing you physical pain or some other serious medicial discomfort, don't touch 'em (at least not with a knife... go ahead and touch them with your warm, soft hands or better yet mine .


im_your_man77 39M
961 posts
3/21/2006 1:35 am

If its a self confidence thing and you would better getting it done for yourself then sure by all means go ahead and get it done. Just make sure you research the surgeon properly, far too many scare stories out there and I wouldn't want you to be another bad statistic.
If you think you would look better in the eyes of others forget about it, you already have attractive assets shining through. I've not read this blog for very long but from what I have saw in that time, you are humourous, witty, intelligent, opinionated and many more things besides. Those are all attractive features to see in a woman and goes to the heart of who you are. Bigger breasts aren't going to improve you as a person, what they will do is maybe make some guys drool and give you backache in later life. Its not a nice picture when a guy drools, something happens to his brain and he is unable to see past whatever it is that is making him drool. Do you really want to be thinking...hello, I'm witty and intelligent and I'm speaking to you will you stop staring at my breasts you dirty old man...well do you?
Personally what I'd love to have is to be in a deep rooted opinionated conversation with a lady with a beautiful smile, the room reflecting of her eyes, wit going back and forth between us. I'm sure you have all that and more and bigger breasts isn't going to make any difference. Physical features can be 'corrected' (lack of a better term at this time in the morning, sorry I need a brain transplant) but once you start where does it stop? You could get your breasts done and then stop there or you might see a slight flaw somewhere else on your body that you hadn't really taken much notice of before and then go and get that fixed. I'm just saying I think you are great as you are without the need for any work.
That said its your body and you know your mind better than anyone, it's your choice.


oldude1946 71M

3/21/2006 2:45 am

To tell you the truth, Big or small I like them all


rocko1019 66M

3/21/2006 6:39 am

I was with a woman once who had what she thought were small breasts and always felt self-consious about it. But to me they were beautiful just the way they were. It wasn't about the way she looked, which was great anyway, its about the ones sexual nature, which was terrific. I wouldn'st recommend altering your body, but then again, if somebody said they could make my penis 4 inchs longer, hhmmmm, I would have to think about. LOL


rocko1019 66M

3/21/2006 6:41 am

I was with a woman once who had what she thought were small breasts and always felt self-conscious about it. But to me they were beautiful just the way they were. It wasn't about the way she looked, which was great anyway, its about the ones sexual nature, which was terrific. I wouldn't recommend altering your body, but then again, if somebody said they could make my penis 4 inch's longer, hhmmmm, I would have to think about. LOL


sillyperv 54M

3/21/2006 8:19 am

Since they become a such a dominant part of the porn aesthetic I've come to appreciate them - of course this means I've been watching way too much porn - but that's fantasy. I don't care for them in real life and it still strikes me as a woman butchering herself for some contrived notion of what is good and bad. Then there's the long term health concerns.

Now excuse me, I have to go try out my new "Super Sizer John Holmesinizer". It works. It said so in the ad.


jp-v 37M
2 posts
3/21/2006 1:06 pm

just the obligatory one: If you want to have your breasts "augmented", the only reason should be for yourself. Not to please other people.

You cannot change everything what makes you you. You can only change certain physical traits and try to change personal traits, because they annoy you (usually). Do realize that enlarging your breasts will bring other discomforts (though not apparant from the start), but also add things you like or want (aka why you want or did them).

Will enlarged breasts make you *more* you ?
Or will they make you seem more like you want to be seen by others ?

But remember, people will have to take you as a whole, although we always have those insecurities about not being able to live up to those expectations we think others have of us. Heck, being a guy, I also wonder at times whether I'm would be able to really satisfy a girl with my endowment...

JP


blueguy1051 60M

3/21/2006 3:18 pm

I have been told that augmentation makes the breast less sensitive. If you're doing it for yourself, you have to decide whether looks or feel are more important. If you're a B cup, then you are probably large enough already. Afterall, more than a mouthful is overkill.


rm_Crazyman1169 47M
28 posts
3/21/2006 3:37 pm

First of all let me give out a good LOL to the comments above....you guys are pretty funny....Well 'crombie, you seem to be at a crossroads.....Should you or shouldn't you.... well first argument is, why is it that some of the guys above have seen a full body pic of you and I haven't....because if I have to pay more, just tell me where....lol....Big boobies and little boobies are all the same, it's how you use em...It's also fun to say...boobies, boobies, boobies....lol....see...

You're always going to have the women say " ya I bet you they're fake", and guys will say "who cares the look great", but it doesn't matter what people think, if you look in the mirror all the time and it really, really, really gets you depressed then ...do it...but, my opinion....don't...you probably have great quality breasts.....NOW SEND A DAMN PICTURE....LOL.....

Crazyman


rm_dabearman7 59M
3 posts
3/21/2006 5:37 pm

why?


rm_kelli4u2dew 41F
5220 posts
3/21/2006 6:37 pm

Let me suck on one and I'll tell you ... Just take in the top on the bikini. Much cheaper and less complicated. I was flat as a table until I was 18. Now I have tits. Now I have to wear bras. Now I have to worry about gravity and age. You're gorgeous! I'd give anything to look like you do. dumb bitch doesn't realize how good she's got it

Send me your email and I'll send you pics! And thank you for your vote. You'll never know how much that meant.


rm_Crazyman1169 47M
28 posts
3/21/2006 10:58 pm

I'm hoping they saw a full pic of you at the 25 post mark.........woo hoo 7 more to go


Peche85 31F

3/22/2006 2:20 am

I saw part of a documentary on breast implants... they were saying you shouldn't get them because they have to be replaced every so often so you have to keep having operations all your life. And if you decide to just get them taken out your breasts are very saggy and strangely shaped without them.

But now that I think of it this could've been the type of implants they used years ago so maybe its changed?

Definately do heaps of research before you make any decisions!


3noangels 58G

3/22/2006 7:20 am

Amber Hun,
I'm Carol, I too have 34b, am 34 years old, and I wanted bigger ones too. My friends Sue is 40, 42dd, and Patty is 39 38dd, they tell me they are jealous of my 34b! Now its like the grass is always greener on the other side, till you cross the fence, and see its just how the sunlight was shining..
Now I have found loving who and what you are is more important than what you wish you were.. see our blog, and read More Blood Sweat and Tears..
Love,Peace,Prayers
Sue, Patty, Carol


3noangels 58G

3/22/2006 7:23 am

We hope that helped, but its still up to you to decide, its your Body, and nobody else can make that choice for you.. Even Pamela Anderson went bigger, than smaller, and she said she wished she didn't do it at all..


smackyman 46M
3845 posts
3/22/2006 12:32 pm

Doing things to improve your self confidence is a wonderful endevour - but when it comes to surgery...I would have to disagree. If I recall from your original post there were 4 or 5 things that you wanted to do and this one was the most extreme.
When you look at yourself - don't you see all of the other looks and qualities that you should feel so confident about?


rm_Crazyman1169 47M
28 posts
3/22/2006 3:55 pm

*** in a disguised voice **** ....... yes Amber I think that you should send Crazyman a full body pic.... I think he deserves it....and he's so cute...what a smile.....


Brainy42 53M

3/23/2006 3:40 am

    Quoting amberabercrombie:
    I hear you, understand you and agree with you! Confidence is not really something I lack, unless im on the beach with a bikni, lol, thats the only time I really and truly feel self conscious and even than if its a padded top im ok!... I guess it all goes with the territory of being slender...

    Hearing *that friend* talk about them, just brought up old thoughts about getting them done, until than I had pushed it out of my mind, but im serious when I say my friends look and feel great, the guy who did hers, did a wonderful job and she was even smaller than me!

    LOL, whats it like to be touched again?
Probably just an opitcal illusion kinda thing but I've always thought that generally, they all look a bit bgger once the clothes come off anway. I find a "perfect" pair in a bikini, tend to be a little too big for my taste when the bikin comes off. A "small" pair in a blouse tend be just right when the blouse and bra comes off. So given a choice like I ever have any) I'll choose the smaller pair.

As for what it's like to be touched again... If you can't remember I'd be happy to pop by some evening and refresh your mammories... (pun intended)


rm_Crazyman1169 47M
28 posts
3/23/2006 9:21 am

Ha ha ha ha...so i guess Amber it is....did you not like 'crombie?.... What would you like to be called?.... I wasn't pleading...more like lobbying for equality....you've seen a body pic of me and I've seen half a face and some fingers of you.... do you think that's fair?....:;.... you are the only girl I post and read blogs from, that has to count for something?...

Crazyman....( maybe i don't like to be called crazyman )


rm_Crazyman1169 47M
28 posts
3/23/2006 5:01 pm

Oh no, no ,no ,no ,no.....you can't get that out of me....do you not like calling me crazyman?.... well if you want you can start calling me JC, just don't tell anyone else......... this is nice, it seems like we are getting a little comfortable/personal.... So is it "Amber".... I tell you what...I'll give you a letter of my name for every body part you show me.... other than your one eye, nose, half mouth and 4 right fingers.....LOL....sound good ...lets play....

JC


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