Physical Preferences  

amb_lily 40F
371 posts
11/13/2005 4:36 pm

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Physical Preferences

NWMNman7’s wrote in his blog the other day on Physically Perfect Girl… this whole posting of his got me thinking…I’m a bit jealous…now, he seems to be a very realistic guy so obviously our “perfect” person is just thoughts, but wow, he has really thought this out.

I’ve thought a lot about what I like for personality traits, etc. but I’ve never really sat down and “analyzed” what physical type of man I am attracted to. I just look at a picture and decide.

So, now that I’m thinking about this….I wonder if there is a specific type of man that I am attracted to? Let’s see…

I like guys quite a bit taller than me, my ex husband was 5’11” and my last boyfriend was 6’3” I think something in between the two is perfect, although couldn’t say a specific height.

My ex had the Italian look about him, but ex b/f was bald/blonde, green eyes…totally no correlation there.

Body wise though, I am attracted to guys that are NOT hard bodies…may seem odd, but…I don’t like the 6 pack…mind you I don’t like excessively obese bodies either. There is one guy that I’ve talked to infrequently that I would say has a “perfect” body, but I won’t list his name cause I barely talk to him.

I like whiskers, 5 O’clock shadow is a turn on for me, that’s sexy! But I really don’t like moustaches, and beards are only ok. Goatees are nice though.

What else???? Oh, I love a guys forearms…it’s a quirk…something about muscular forearms is a turn on…lol…again I never claimed to be normal.

Hmmm…what else….you know…I don’t think I can even describe my Prince Charming…its too pliable…really…haven’t you ever known someone that was ok looking to you but once you got to know them, they seemed gorgeous? That happens to me all the time…someone starts looking better or worse based on personality. Maybe that’s why its hard for me to say what I want based on physical preferences.

On a side note…

If anyone happens to see Prince Charming could you just send him my way? Thanks!

1023 posts
11/14/2005 7:15 am

Wait a second, I thought I read somewhere that you were into the Jabba the Hutt type... Oh well, looks like I'm back to the old cupid matches....

I did run into Prince Charming and he kindly asked me for dircetions to your place... I wish I had read this first, cause I sent him to San Fransisco OOPS! SORRY! ^_^

mister1derful4u 43M

11/15/2005 12:23 pm

I love reading your posts... Always thought-provoking...
Finding the right combination of looks and personality is
always a gamble and always will be... Then again, someone once
told me that the easiest way to find something you are looking
for is to stop looking so hard for it and let it come to you...

amb_lily 40F

11/15/2005 2:35 pm

I have so many people tell me quit looking...but what would I do with all that time on my hands!! lol...I don't believe in sitting around waiting for things to happen. If you want them, then make it happen, or at I'll least die trying!!

amb_lily 40F

11/15/2005 2:36 pm've been a naughty boy...GO TO MY ROOM!

im_curious_4u 50M

11/17/2005 9:31 pm

There are so many things that I find attractive or sexy about women that I don't think I could pin it down either. I suppose we all have our "types" that we look for. One day it's blondes, the next brunettes, but hey I'm a guy. There's way more than looks that makes someone "perfect" anyway.

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