Much rather  

amb_lily 39F
371 posts
1/14/2006 12:29 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Much rather

I think that I would much rather have been dateless and alone on my birthday then ditched and alone….

Today’s my 29th birthday, I was hoping for an evening out, and maybe I still will, just not with who I had intended to be with. I really don’t understand why people ditch other people, especially when it’s them who asked you out. Its not like it was first date nerves, we went out before and he made the initiative to ask me out again. If he didn't like me...why did he ask me out...and on my birthday at that?

There is a point that I’m trying to make somewhere in all this…bear with me….

Now, there’s guy that I know that is searching for someone…one person, something meaningful, which I admired him for…but it turns out….he’s just a lil slut! lol If a man can be called such. That doesn’t change my opinion of him, but I was surprised.

My ex husband, now that the rose colored glasses have been removed, is a moron to the utmost degree, he lives in a selfish lil bubble all his own.

So whats my point? Well…I guess I really don’t have one besides the fact that I must be a horrible judge of character.

Speaking of horrible judge….

Yesterday…someone thought my 9 yr old son was my lil brother. Today, I got carded to buy an “R” rated movie. And as usual I got carded for cig. and liquor. Whats the deal!? As I get older I’m beginning to look younger? I never got carded for anything when I was younger. Well I suppose the good thing out of it is that when I'm 40 they'll think I'm 28.


Lookout4 39M

1/14/2006 3:00 pm

I am sorry to hear that you were stood up on your b-day. I now wish I would have come up there to take you out instead of requesting that you come meet a group of us somewhere far away. I was also alone on my b-day and it sucked! Hope today is better for you and just know that there are people out there who are looking for the same things you are regardless of what their (or my) profile says. LMAO Have a good day. Happy Birthday.


rm_icecube475 40M

1/14/2006 8:02 pm

Happy Birthday Amb. I guess some guys are assholes. It really makes the rest of us look bad. I enjoy reading your blogs and I really like reading the blog you wrote about me. Anyways, Happy Birthday.


amb_lily 39F

1/15/2006 6:52 am

ohhh...now everyone's gonna wonder which one was about you....lol


JoePineCity 55M  
104 posts
1/15/2006 7:48 am

WOW, what an ass, and on your birthday. Have to agree with Icecube it really makes the rest of us look bad.

Love the idea of you being carded.. I am 44 and it never ceases to amaze me when they card me too. When I was 16-25 I was never carded. Since I turned 30 I have been carded at least 3-4 times a year (though it happens less and less now).

Take it as a compliment about being carded, either that or it's some guy just wanting to know how old you are so he can get up the courage to ask you out LOL

JOEPINECITY
I get things at the G spot
I know you will


im_curious_4u 50M

1/15/2006 9:14 pm

Being stood up bad enough but on your birthday!? That is just down right nasty.

As for being carded, like Joe wrote that's just a way for guys to get a womans name.


WORKINGHARD4UALL 54M
1 post
1/21/2006 5:25 pm

UPON FURTHER REVIEW
I READ YOUR FIRST LINE AND AT FIRST BLUSH AGREED. HOWEVER IT IS ONLY THROUGH TAKING RISK THAT WE CAN BE FREED.
SHOULD WE NOT BE ABLE TO TAKE A CHANCE , NEVER AGAIN ON YOUR BIRTHDAY WILL YOU DANCE.
IF I NEVER THROW CAUTION TO THE WIND IN MY LIFE, I WILL SOME DAY LOOK BACK AND SAY "THAT WAS IT". "I FEEL AS THOUGH I HAVE SINNED, AND NEVER FOUND MYSELF A WIFE".


amb_lily 39F

1/21/2006 6:02 pm

working ~ you make a great point


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