Loss of creativity  

amb_lily 40F
371 posts
3/1/2006 6:29 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Loss of creativity

I've not been blogging lately...not because I've not been checking in...but it seems ever since I graduated...I've lost creativity...I've nothing to say, yet I feel absolutely lost right now! lol...for the past several years I've worked, came home, took care of the boys, and studied until wee hours into the night. Now...now I have nothing to do!

You'd think this would lead me to writing more right!? Go figure...I'm speachless.


rm_VoodooGuru1 49M
2053 posts
3/2/2006 6:05 pm

It'll come back, we all need to take a break sometimes. I just came back from one much earlier than I had expected - though it may just be a relapse.


im_curious_4u 50M

3/2/2006 9:12 pm

Oh I'm sure you can come up with something erotic to write. You just need the right inspiration.


abigmark 49M

3/4/2006 12:26 pm

Having gone through some self analysis about the last woman I dated I've come to this conclusion and thus I am bewildered as to why she was soooo upset: hey someone who respects you will tell you the truth. You can never propel your growth even if you're in denial.

Someone who loves you will tell you that the way you treat people, particularly those closest to you, is abominable.

Someone who respects you will point out that you push people away so they can't choose to desert you. That you reject those who know you best out of your own fear of rejection.

So - if you're ever wondering - hmmm, should I tell this person something that may hurt their ego, consider what the alternative is.

Truth be told,Amb_lily, you can't lose something you never had. You blogs were more dialog but certainly no creative. But as you can read, every guy wants to kiss your ass so they don't bother to tell you the truth.

I'm sure I'll catch some shit on this post.


amb_lily 40F

3/4/2006 2:48 pm

Well...abigmark...I wasn't writting because I expected to be the next big author, I was writing what I felt...what was meant was that I've had nothing to say...

I also have this to say...constructive critisim is a great thing, and I always take it well...however, if you should choose to give feed back...possibly you should be good at comunicating yourself well....your right...you will catch shit... from me....the way you put it was rude. You can tell the truth and be respectful.

Live and Learn,
Lily


abigmark 49M

3/4/2006 7:13 pm

I am sorry, I thought I was rather sensitive because I really wanted to rip your writing style.
In the future concentrate on 3 things in writing:
1)spell check
2)read the because out loud
3) use a thesaurus

she says:
I wasn't out loud because I expected to be the next big author, I was writing what I felt.what was meant was that I've had nothing to say...
he says: so you like to blog that's fine, because a blog is an on-line diary how can you have nothing to say? don't you have any other stories?
she says:
I also have this to say...constructive critisim is a great thing, and I always take it well...however, if you should choose to give feed back...
he says:first of all feed back is one word not two try: feedback and you misspelled "criticism" is not constructive but rather the receiver who makes it constructive. Most amateur writers make the same mistake. by the way don't use the word "very" its a useless word. You're either angry or furious not very angry that's a lazy way to write
she says:
possibly you should be good at comunicating yourself
he says: yourself isn't necessary unless you include the preposition "to" as in communicating yourself to others and secondly communicating has two (m)'s

she says: well....your right...you will catch shit... from me....the way you put it was rude. You can tell the truth and be respectful.
he says: Is that more to your taste?


amb_lily 40F

3/4/2006 9:01 pm

No...its VERY much not to my taste at all. As I said in the beginning, I'm not writing to be an author. Spell check, etc. I would take the time to use in writing a paper, not a diary.

If you don't like what I write...why are you here? Obviously if you know my writing you have been here more than once...if its so VERY distasteful to you...why bother reading it? Yes, I see the lil spell check button, if I wanted to use it...I would.

And to answer your questions, no-I have no others stories I would like to post here. And no-I have nothing to say, which is why I said...I had nothing to say.

And I totally disagree with you on the constructive critisism part...but to each their own.


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