Hard to Get  

amb_lily 40F
371 posts
10/26/2005 4:48 pm

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Hard to Get

Why is it the men you say I'm not interested to communicate more with you than the men you are interested in? Would that be the whole "hard to get" is more attractive theory???

rm_Cunnystacker 53M
2 posts
10/26/2005 10:05 pm

YES! What you want you can't have! What you don't want you get plenty of! It's like my toilet. I swear during the day when I'm awake, it flushes with no problem. But at night, when I'm trying to sleep,it gets "stuck" and constantly runs! Do you see the parallel here???

You look cute!

handle141970 46F
15 posts
10/27/2005 12:51 am

Honey the one you dont want will contact you more, because they are not for real. They will ask you to send a picture and give you their email address because that their lenght of what they have to offer.

afuncplinmpls 43M/47F
1 post
10/27/2005 6:24 pm

Your question is a good one. But I think it isn't that simple. It's not that "playing hard to get" is what attracts a man. I personally think confidence is sexy. A huge turn off is when a woman is too insecure and you feel like you have a sister/mother/whining puppy more than a partner or adult relationship. So it's not always the "hard to get" game that works. It's more of a confidence thing. If you are living your life and are confident about what you want, then a man will appear beside you. Seek and you will find. It's when we are in "need" of a relationship, versus "wanting" one, that we never find the right one. When we "need" something - whatever it is - we can sometimes hold on too tightly.

amb_lily 40F

10/28/2005 6:39 pm

Ok...I guess that comparison works...lol! Thank you by the way

amb_lily 40F

10/28/2005 6:40 pm

afuncpl...good point

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