3Somes Love 'em Or Hate 'Em  

alxgaby 40M/36F
2 posts
1/1/2006 1:09 pm

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5/5/2006 7:51 pm

3Somes Love 'em Or Hate 'Em

we are seeking people thoughts in 3some.In any way.us (ourselves)are very open minded .we set some rules up.so no hard feelings in the morn(but then they say rules were made to be broken(LO.


1/1/2006 7:21 pm

As the 3rd party to a threesome, I've found that when a couple decides ahead of time who should be the 'primary' beneficiary of a 3-some, then the focus is on that person's pleasure and satisfaction.
Granted, there should be sufficient chemistry between all 3 partners, but a couple shouldn't have to compete for the other's attention.
Then, they get to take turns!
When meeting other couples, I think some casual time away from and before the 'playing' starts is essential to determine if you both are comfortable with the other couple. Either person should be able to nix the situation if they're not comfortable. You don't want to start creating problems, you want to satisfy each other!

1_Mr_XinAz 56M/49F

1/3/2006 4:44 pm

Well when we went into this.. we sat down and had a good long talk about what we would and would not put up with. Set your ground rules with eachother, and I do not believe in breaking them.
I have seen a lot of couples break up because they diddnt have their ground rules in place. Good luck to you both!

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