SEEING THE SOFT SIDE OF THE GIANT.  

alonzolunsford 50M
5 posts
9/27/2005 2:47 am

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SEEING THE SOFT SIDE OF THE GIANT.


WELL TO START OUT WITH I AM NEW TO THE FAMILY AND WOULD LIKE TO GET MEMBER COMMENTS ON THIS SUBJECT. WELL FIRST OF ALL I AM CURENNTLY STATIONED IN HONDURAS AND HAVE BEEN DEPLOYED SINCE 13 NOV 01 AND WHEN I FIRST DEPLOYED I WAS MARRIED BUT AS OF MAY OR JUNE TIMEFRAME I AM NOT THE LATTER. NOW IT WAS NOT AS IF I WAS A BAD HUSBAND OR FATHER IT IS JUST THAT MY OTHER HALF GAVE UP AND QUIT ON ME. SEE I HAVE ALWAYS HEARD FEMALE SAY THAT THE TYPE OF MAN THAT THEY WANT BUT WHEN THEY GET THAT MAN WHY IS IT THAT THEY DONT CHERISH THAT WHAT WAS GIVEN OR THEY JUST TAKE THAT PERSON FOR GRANTED? NOW THAT GOES BOTH WAYS BUT IN MY CASE WHY? PLEASE HELP OR GIVE SOME IMPUT.

digdug41 49M

9/27/2005 8:28 am

hey sorry to hear about that some people seem to forget the vows they take before eachother and god and I do believe it states for better or worse now I've been in the worse and now its getting better I hope that you can get through your tough time and just keep on keepin on if she left you because you are in the service doing your duty to your country and cant understand that then she wasnt meant for you in the first place hold ya head and you'll be fine, some one once said to me that life is like rooms we move from one to the other its just the hallways that are a mother fucker you hang in there and keep your faith in god, if you believe and he'll place someone in your life to love and be loved take care and be safe

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rm_jayscurious 46F
1 post
9/27/2005 11:32 am

Well you didn't say what type of husband or father you were, just that you weren't a bad one.So,lets assume that you were a good one,a very good one so good that your loyalty may not have been to her or the family but rather to your country.You are not a young man,you have done your time,you had a family that needed you,who knows how long they have been waiting for you even before this.How long do you exspect your family to sit on the side line,and just wait?If you were younger with no family & wanted to fight for the U.S.A. I would say go for it, but don't start a family after the fact & still exspect them to be there when you never are! Together you guys stand,While divided your family falls.Is this the type of good guy women should cherish?


alonzolunsford 50M

9/30/2005 2:26 pm

WELL TO REPLY TO THE PAST TWO POSTS, THANKS JAYCURIOUS AND DIGDUG41 FOR YOUR RESPONES. FIRST TO JAY (I DONT PLAY ) I WAS THE TYPE OF HUSBAND OR FATHER THAT THE AVG, PERSON OR GUY WOULD SAY SPOILED MY EXWIFE AND KIDS TO THE LAST DEGREE, BUT HOWEVER I AM THE BLAME FOR THAT AND I AM THE WAY THAT I AM BECAUSE I FEEL THATS THE WAY IT SHOULD BE. AS WE TALKED LAST NIGHT YOU WILL SEE SOON FOR YOURSELF! BUT I DO WHAT I DO FOR THESE REASONS, ONE WHEN WE AS AMERICANS GO TO THE MALL,MOVIES,OR THE STORE WE DONT HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT ANY BOMBS OR WAR LIKE SITUATIONS GOING ON AT ALL,AND I DONT WANT MY KIDS OR YOURS OR ANYONES LITTLEONE LIVING THE LIFE OF SOME OF THE KIDS IN THE MIDDLE EAST OR OTHER PARTS OF THE WORLD. TWO TO DIGDUG THANKS ONCE AGAIN FOR THE SUPPORT AND I WILL KEEP IT HIGH! I CLOSING I SAY THIS LEAST WE NOT FORGET 9/11 AND THE MORE WE SWEAT IN PEACE THE LESS WE BLEED IN WAR.


sexythang469 57F

10/10/2005 3:10 pm

I wouldn't want to be married to someone who was never around. It would be too hard, depressing. I admire our soldiers and their families. And we need the military. I just don't think I could handle being a part, nor the worry.

There are women who take men for granite. But for every respectable man is a respectable woman. But we constantly fall for those not in our best interest.


rm_Shug122 51F

2/11/2007 9:08 am

I am sorry to hear that yet another marriage has ended. I agree with what some of the others have said, but also disagree. I think if your marriage was good and stable before you left the states then it would have survived. I know women want their men with them all the time, but when you make a commmittment to someone it's for the good and bad times. I am unsure as to why you are in the service but it could be due to finances. Either way you have made a scarfice for your family. I am a friend of someone who was in Iraq for 2 years and I was faithful and waited on him. I just find that these days and times that people are not what they say they are. It sad to me. I just don't get women, we women say you are the type of man we are looking but we don't do what we need to do to keep that man. My best goes out to you. Keep in mind I am here to chat if you need it.


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