Apologies not included....  

allforfun5262 54M/56F
384 posts
6/22/2006 8:30 am

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12/19/2006 7:10 pm

Apologies not included....

Should I mourn my poor choice of words? Should I apologize for having shared my feelings? Should I admit my guilt in all this?

I can say I'm sorry for the whole world to hear...I can say I'm sorry for all the wrongs you think I've done you...I can say I'm sorry for losing our friendship over little things. I can say I'm sorry...Friend.

But....
I cannot say I'm sorry for having voiced my concerns...I cannot say I'm sorry for being hurt by your words...I cannot say I'm sorry for my imperfections...I cannot say I'm sorry for being me.

2 little words...I'm Sorry...Can you accept them?


rm_marc44054 63M
936 posts
6/23/2006 6:39 pm

We have known each other a long time, so, I am going to say this as a friend. You and your friend had a disagreement that escalated a little higher than it should have. You spoke as a friend. If you feel a need to apologize for part of that conversation, then do so. As I understand it, you have both apologized. It's time to move on.
Put it behind you. If this person was any kind of friend, they will still be your friend, if not, you are better off without.

You have a tendency to feel you need to apologize for every little thing. You don't. Stop blaming yourself, you'll be much happier.

So, will I see you at the Meet and Greet?


allforfun5262 54M/56F

6/23/2006 7:28 pm

    Quoting rm_marc44054:
    We have known each other a long time, so, I am going to say this as a friend. You and your friend had a disagreement that escalated a little higher than it should have. You spoke as a friend. If you feel a need to apologize for part of that conversation, then do so. As I understand it, you have both apologized. It's time to move on.
    Put it behind you. If this person was any kind of friend, they will still be your friend, if not, you are better off without.

    You have a tendency to feel you need to apologize for every little thing. You don't. Stop blaming yourself, you'll be much happier.

    So, will I see you at the Meet and Greet?
Friends sometimes have the tendency to care too much...feelings get in the way of logic and like most people...I am one who tends to fight defensively...spiteful words can hurt your feelings but silence breaks your heart. I have apologized to my friend but not for what was said during the argument because anything either one of us said was what needed to be said at that moment...I cannot apologize for my imperfections or for being me but he would not want me to either...I do however apologize for creating a crevice that almost consumed us both. This may take a long time to heal..but heal it will as long as he stands beside me and call himself my friend.

I will be at the meet & greet...I want to meet my friend.


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