Are there any normal people on here? LOL  

aldertate 49M
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5/24/2005 9:54 am

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Are there any normal people on here? LOL


I've got to say.. that so far I've met some quite interesting ppl from AdultFriendFinder. Stable, no.... definitely not stable... but interesting...
Never before have I had to deal with such drama, and it's quite interesting because this site is supposed to be very cut and dry...
Why are we here? Hmmmm... What is the goal? Hmmm...
I've taken ppl off of my network because they somehow failed to be even remotely responsible... but they always have charming excuses... lol...
and.. if you're into swinging... and in an open relationship.. then you swing... somehow I don't understand the 'gee let me check with my significant other who's swinging a few times a week to see if it's ok to meet for dinner' bullshit.
It's hilarious.... truly funny. People talk the talk, but they surely don't walk the walk. That's what I'm finding. It's comical in its universality. What good is bragging to me when neither you are not looking at hooking up until the next millenium (because of all the drama).
It's funny... there's more baggage here than at Cleveland Hopkins... LOL...

Just my 'thought of the day'...

and tomorrow.. if the weather holds.. is my next jump from 14,500feet... Yippee!!

no_strings_grrl 44F

5/24/2005 12:50 pm

It sure seems like it would be cut and dry here doesn't it? I mean, the nature of AdultFriendFinder is pretty straight-forward. And it seems like everyone on this site would SURELY be looking for the same thing, right?

The banner doesn't say, "World's Largest Site For People Who Like to Talk About Sex & Swinging, But Never Intend to Meet In Person".

No, it says, "World's Largest Sex & Swingers Personals Site".

But what's the one variable in this equation that has always been unpredictable, uncertain, and never quite what it seems? PEOPLE. People are notoriously deceptive, ellusive, and full of themselves. How many people have you met in your life that actually talk the talk AND walk the walk?

Just like in every other facet of life, its up to YOU to weed out the losers, the liers, the idiots, the fakes, and the assholes. And despite what my user name might imply, "no strings attached sex" is truly a myth. Everybody is looking for something and is offering something in return. That's the game of life.

So, I suppose I should change my name to:

no_monogomous_long term_relationship_grrl, huh?

Good luck in your quest aldertate. And to answer your question...No, there are no normal people on here. Normal is concept that is also a myth.


aldertate 49M

5/24/2005 2:38 pm

Thanks for the responses so far... it's funny... there's someone who I was supposed to 'meet'... and they stood me up... no biggee... no call... nada... but I actually went to meet them a 2nd time and all was quite good.. so to speak.. lol...
then came the 3rd, 4th, 5th times... 3rd got a msg in the morning (can't make it).. ok.. no biggee... 4th, same as first (no call, no msg... they 'forgot')..lol... 5th time.. I chatted 1.5hrs before we were supposed to meet (they actually brought up the idea of meeting).... so I drive 45 minutes... wait an hour... they 'supposedly' fell asleep...
I must be a boring fuck... hahahaha...

no.. I don't trust myself to pack my own chute.. have never done that before... tomorrow is not the time to start. hahaha


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