Prostate Stimulation: Green Eggs and Ham?  

aknightwoarmor 48M
41 posts
6/21/2005 7:00 am

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Prostate Stimulation: Green Eggs and Ham?

Many men seem to have some hesitation about a finger up the ass. The reasons are probably related to some phobias or taboo. Perhaps there has already been a bad experience with someone who did not know what they were doing. As long
as you are with a person you trust, any reason to not at least give it a try are unwarranted or completely ridiculous.

If you enjoy pleasure (and who doesn't), then you owe it to yourself to at least give this a try. If you haven't tried this particular sexual activity, your probably missing out. The orgasm you will experience from prostate stimulation will be one of the most intense sensations
you have felt.

As for the women, you may have hesitation because you don't know how to do it. Perhaps you too, as with some of the men, have some phobia or find it taboo. If you get pleasure from giving your man pleasure, then this is one thing, if done correctly, which will be very special for both of you (ok, mainly for him, but do unto others).

Here is how to do it.....

First, some background, the prostate measures approximately one and a half inches across, one inch in height and three quarter inches from front to back. The prostate is found
about three inches inside the anus, and is situated behind the lower part of the pubic arch and in front of the rectum, and is shaped like a walnut and is of firm consistency.

There are two main ways to stimulate the male prostate, and these are internal and external. In my opinion the internal method is the most satisfying, but it must be done correctly.

For internal stimulation, you must lubricate your finger heavily (water based lubricant) and either use a latex glove or a finger cot (although not entirely necessary, you both may feel more comfortable with finger protection).
Make sure that your finger nails have been cut and filed down to insure that the tender rectal tissue does not become torn. After applying the lube, slowly and cautiously insert your finger into his rectum. To relax the area surrounding
your finger move inwards and then outwards repeatedly (very slowly), until both you and your partner feel comfortable. Once your finger is full inside, slowly curl your finger, so that your finger is facing the front of the mans body,
and gently massage the prostate (see above for location and feel of the prostate).

For external stimulation, apply a degree of pressure to the area found between your partner’s scrotum and anus with your index finger. Simply place your index and middle finger on the perineum (the area between the scrotum and
anus). Now run your fingers up and down forcefully pressing on this area as you go. Be sure that your fingernails have been trimmed. Move slowly and test different spots while
asking your partner which area feels best. Once you've found his pressure point ask him how it feels as you apply more and more pressure. Undoubtedly, you'll be surprised at how much pressure is desired. This intense massage is
best when accompanied by other forms of stimulation. With some experience you'll be able to stimulate this area during fellatio and even intercourse. By placing pressure and massaging this area you are still massaging the prostate,
but you need not worry about the issues involved with anal play!

Men, you may find that you *do* like green eggs and ham!

patsam69 51M/51F

6/21/2005 8:10 am

I agree with you. Too many men have anal phobia. They all want to do a woman that way...but when you ask them...they go running!

My husband enjoys prostate massage once in a while. its really awesome. His orgasms are really intense when we do this.

dont worry about it guys...just because you like it DOES NOT MEAN YOU HAVE GAY TENDENCIES!!! Try it ..u may like it! and if least u tried. have fun and be safe!

keithcancook 60M
17718 posts
6/21/2005 1:22 pm

sounds good to me. now i need to find an assistant...

aknightwoarmor 48M
8 posts
6/21/2005 6:00 pm

Damn've got me all hot and bothered now. Guess I'll have to take a cold shower (I'll definitely miss you) LOL

rm_BayLady55 61F

6/21/2005 6:43 pm

Very nicly done! Have to agree with the part that men tend to equate male anal sex with being gay instead of just another type of sexual arousal and pleasure. It is like introducing women to it, you have to take it slow and easy at first. I believe in equality, you want to play with my ass? Ok, but then I get to play with yours! wink

AltumHunksUnite 53M

6/22/2005 8:20 am

I've heard that there's virtually no orgasm sensation from using this technique.

And I figure the woman would really really really have to like you alot to be willing to try it on you.

Let me drive. I like the view

Barbiebunny69 43F

6/22/2005 2:24 pm

knight it sounds like a precursor to prostrate milking. your thoughts?

aknightwoarmor 48M
8 posts
6/23/2005 12:27 pm

I tried posting this once before, hopefully AdultFriendFinder has turned the lights on now (repeats mantra: remember an AdultFriendFinder post is not a post until you actually see it)....

Cleavis, the orgasm is incredible when done correctly (i.e. stimulated and not milked) - trust me on this one

Barbie, prostate milking and prostate stimulation are really "apples and oranges". They both involve the prostate, but their objectives are completely different. Prostate milking (for recreation) is primarily done for BDSM activities and may include multiple condoms in addition to the milking (the male being the submissive of course). The sole purpose of recreational milking is to deny the male any pleasure by eliminating ejaculation and numb the penis and any penile sensation. The sole purpose of prostate stimulation is to provide an incredible orgasm that is clearly a physical pleasure for the male. Granted, some BDSM enthusiasts may get emotional satisfaction from being denied orgasm, but that is an intangible and not a physical sensation.

Now, I'm putting some extra sticky stuff on this post

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