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Help for newbie men to find women...
Help for newbie men to find women...
I recently had a guy ask me what I did to be successful on AdultFriendFinder since I have a few positive replies from women I have met...This is what I wrote...Maybe I can help more than just him. After all, We are ALL seaching to fulfill our dreams and fantasies:
Always glad to help...First I would change my profile...Show that you are confident in what you know when you write it. If you have something that you feel comfortable doing...Such as me giving oral...Let the population know that is what you like doing, cause that WILL be the thing your partner will grade you most on.
Things to know about AdultFriendFinder...for every 10 guys...There is 1 woman and of them many are looking to be with a couple only or another woman so you odds aren't with you to start with. AdultFriendFinder members have parties...Many are not for men included...But there are many that are. I met many people in a chatroom an was invited and went to a B-Day party for one of them...Even though I didn't hook up with anyone there that night.
After having a few beverages and BEING myself...Right now there are 4-5 of the women there that if I asked what they were doing tonight, would go out with me...I built there trust letting them know that I wasn't just there to fuck them I got to know THEM. I became Friends with them FIRST!
Notice what I have said doesn't have a DAMN thing to with hooking up...It has to do with respect. If you respect someone..They WILL be patient with you even if you ARE inexperienced.
On the SEX end...Don't be affraid to try new things with a woman when you have the oppertunity...But again don't assume just because you have a date from AdultFriendFinder that you are going to get laid. RESPECT and let whatever happens happen!
When you are intamate with a lady...Watch and listen to her! If she starts to moan...Keep doing what you are doing...If she isn't...Keep SEXploring till she is. Look and listen and she WILL let you know what she is looking for. But whatever you do...DO IT WITH CONFIDENCE!!!!!!! Even though you may be beginning on here and not have the experience...Don't be affriad just to go ahead and do something that you have only read or heard about be INNOVATIVE not boring.
Granted I have a few tricks that I do and have some experience behind me...But I also know that each woman is diferent and looking for different things.
Me telling you know what I do may not work for you...Create your own identy on here and be you and enjoy! Go into chat rooms and meet people...Get to know them...You will do better in there than you will trying to meet the "perfect women" that will send you off to join another site. Get to know them and if there is chemistry...WOOO HOOO!!!
I hope that will get you started. Be yourself, be confident and most of all BE RESPECTFUL! After that...Anything can happen!
Take Care and Happy Hunting LOL
I hope this will help anyone looking to find a woman on here (Or man, group, couple or whatever).
I can say that I have found and know what I am looking for. I hope this will help anyone looking to find the same happiness that I have.
Good luck to all!
3/20/2007 10:53 pm
Where have you been Big!!!!!! I will leave you a message my dear, hope to catch you soon!!!!!!|
4/8/2011 9:20 pm
Notice what I have said doesn't have a DAMN thing to with hooking up...It has to do with respect. If you respect someone..They WILL be patient with you even if you ARE inexperienced.|
On the SEX end...Don't be afraid to try new things with a woman when you have the opportunity...But again don't assume just because you have a date from AdultFriendFinder that you are going to get laid. RESPECT and let whatever happens happen!
Good advice I wish they would follow it . Rude emails get nothing back from me ...