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absolutelynormal 56F
6016 posts
3/31/2006 7:51 am

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tell me

Just a short blog today, no marathon blogging event like yesterday. I didn't sleep well and I have a headache. I have to be at work in an hour or so, just working till 7 so not too bad. I want to thank everyone who reads my blog for their support, I feel very accepted here. I would like to ask a favor of you though. When you read what I write, please tell me what you honestly think. Don't just read it and leave no comment. I do that sometimes when I read someone's blog, just read and don't think I have anything to offer and so I don't say anything. I read a guy's blog the other day and by the time I almost finished reading his post.. I couldn't finish made me tired. It was a very long post with few comments, 2 I think. I wanted to post, DUDE!! cut back on the adjectives and the adverbs will ya? His style was't bad, I think someone must have told him that as much as men are visual women are more into words. This is what I am talking about, I want to know how my writing makes you feel... not if it just makes you horny, but if I am too descriptive, not enough. I'd also like to know if there is something you think I should or should not write about. I was telling a guy last night that they say write about what you know... I don't have that much sexual experience cause I was married for so long, and believe me youdon't want me to write about our sex life. It would go something like, we had sex for 4 minutes and he fell asleep and snored like a freight train. Thrilling! NOT! I'll have 180 people look at a post and 3 will comment, and those three will probably be people who regularly visit me and KNOW me. I want to get to know more of you, how can I if I don't know that you were here? Ok I said this was going to be short, I'm shutting up now Mac

SirMounts 102M

3/31/2006 8:34 am

I feel that you have a talent for writing, and write very well. In your style alone... very balanced, very open, very... you. But don't be... too critical, of those who read these things, and do not comment. Sometimes you may have really said it all, while at other times another response may have already served to close the circle. *smiling*

absolutelynormal replies on 3/31/2006 5:53 pm:
Well blow me down SM!! Compliments from you? Are you ill? Should I call the Hooterville rescue squad? j/k SM, thank you very much. I like reading the stuff you write too. Your intelligence and sense of play are always evident. Mac

RoyalPurpleRose 51F

3/31/2006 11:06 am

I like your style too. And I try to post comments when something written touches me.

I don't get many comments either. But that really isn't why I'm here in Blogland. I have always wanted to write. I've written poems for years ... since I was very young. I am not as good as some others here. But this is an outlet for me and my writing. I need to take some time and work on the story ideas floating around in my head. And since many of my story ideas are very sexual in nature ... this seems to be the perfect place for them.

Good Luck .... and I'll be back.

~Kisses, RPR

absolutelynormal replies on 3/31/2006 5:51 pm:
Thanks RPR, like you I've always wanted to write. I just didn't know what to write about. I never though erotica would be a niche for me. I don't think of myself as any more sexual than the next person. They say write what you know, if that's the case I should be writing ER escapades. That's what I know. I'm not good at poetry, they all come out sounding like... there once was a man from... lol, Mac

bigknob1958 52M

3/31/2006 11:16 am


trillionman 55M

3/31/2006 4:23 pm

Hell don't feel bad Mac, I have much response on anything.It's a good thing I have someone who responds to me off AdultFriendFinder.But you know I like your writing and I have told you that I thought you would like taking a writing class,not that I think you need it.GOOD STUFF Mac.

somefun4us2006 56M
7 posts
3/31/2006 4:30 pm

I am just getting started reading all you have written. One thing that hits me right off the bat is that you empty your thoughts very quickly. Is it as easy as you make it look or do you edit and edit like I do to try to get clarity.

I'll let you know more as I have time to finish to older post and keep up with the new but your frankness is inspiring.


absolutelynormal replies on 3/31/2006 5:47 pm:
Thanks Lion Mane, when I write it just usually happens. I don't do a lot of editing unless you count correcting spelling/typos as editing. Some things I do go back and edit if I think it could be said more simply or if what I have written doesn't make any sense. I know what I am talking about when I blog, making the reader understand sometimes is difficult. You've only got two posts on your blog, but already you write well, much better than my first posts. Blog ON! Mac

norprin5 55M

3/31/2006 4:40 pm

k, well, i've been here before...does that mean you don't wanna hear from me anymore?

sweetie, that's just how it works...lots of views, few comments. if you look at the views/comment ratio of the top bloggers, i'd be willing to bet that the numbers would match.

i read up to a hundred posts each day, but leave maybe 20 to 30 comments...

King Nor XVIII

absolutelynormal replies on 3/31/2006 6:22 pm:
As long as you have that picture Noprin, I'd welcome you anywhere!
I think we all agree that Blogland/ville is a community and as such, do you not say hi to your neighbor? That's what I really meant, I just didn't word it right. Mac

ella1966 50F
1528 posts
3/31/2006 4:50 pm

Dear Mac

I just thought I'd post a comment as I think you did on my Blog and I wish to get 'round to everyone before I try to take my break from here. I happen to like your attitude and your Blog, and as for the fellow who said your profile was a "tall order", then he musn't really understand what women want or need. I think your Blog epitomises what women reall want in a relationship. He is just plain ignorant or stupid or both! Hang in there and thank you for thinking of me by posting on my Blog!

ella X

absolutelynormal replies on 3/31/2006 5:42 pm:
Thank you very much Ella. I was going to make your blog one of the ones on my watch list and then I saw that you're leaving. I was going to email you but it said your profile is turned off and I couldn't. I really hate that you're taking a break but I do understand. Please don't be so hard on yourself. If there's anything I can do to help, please let me know. Mac

ProtonicMan 47M

3/31/2006 8:15 pm

Hi, Mac.

You are not alone. EVERYBODY gets far more views than comments. I leave comments when I have something to add, or because a post resonated with me. I like to receive comments, too, so I give them fairly frequently. I don't comment on every entry on every blog I read. Especially if it is one of the more popular ones (like MzHunyhole) where there are often three pages of comments before I even read her post.


absolutelynormal replies on 4/2/2006 11:14 pm:
Thanks TJ, I think we're mutual fans. Thanks for replying

Helper874 45M

3/31/2006 9:05 pm

ROFL....I am amazed with you. I liked this blog a lot. I feel the same way with my blogs on 360. It's as if people are afraid to write what they experience in reading.

You do a good job with the feeling and painting of mental pictures. That you need to keep up. I also like how you very your subject matter. Keeps us coming back for more.

I would say this as a suggestion.....go with some more of your deeper feelings. Those deep dark ones. Would be interesting to see how they come out.

Keep it up Mac, you usually make me smile or think. And that is a very good thing......

absolutelynormal replies on 3/31/2006 9:14 pm:
Thank you for the nice comments Helper. Why do you not blog here? I know you gave me the addy but I couldn't get there. If you won't blog here, CCP some of what you've done to my email, please. Thanks again, Mac

Helper874 45M

3/31/2006 10:09 pm

Took your advice Mac, and put one up today. Will go back and e-mail you a couple of the ones from the 360. Get some sleep.....

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