Oh, Wouldn't It Be Nice?  

absolutelynormal 56F
6016 posts
7/6/2006 6:16 am

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Oh, Wouldn't It Be Nice?

Sometimes the edges of being sensible and what could be blur in my mind. Then it's like "oh yeah, I already did this once and I don't think it's worth repeating, remember how hurt you got last time you did this, Mac?" Me, I fall in love with the wrong person, the person that can't or won't love me back. Isn't that just fucking retarded? Maybe men aren't the only dense ones.

You ever keep doing the same thing over and over again, knowing that the results aren't going to change? I think they call that insanity, LOL. Anyone here insane besides me? What is it that you do?

rm_mmmgoodnova 105M/105F
1259 posts
7/6/2006 6:28 am

No, you're not retarded OR insane. You can't control feelings. That's what make us human, and in the final analysis, it's what makes us interesting. Unfortunately, that knowledge and acceptance (I will feel, I won't always have my feelings returned, I may get hurt, but I will recover, I may repeat the cycle, I may find love the next time) doesn't help at all when it's happening.

You take care. Hugs.

absolutelynormal replies on 7/9/2006 7:08 am:
I want the Mac world to make sense. If I do things that make no sense, well you can see that it makes no sense whatsoever

pragmaticCTcpl 61M/50F

7/6/2006 7:27 am

Mac, I think we have all been there done that sort of thing. We have done things again expecting a different result. Perhaps it isn't so much what we do over but how we handle ourselves that makes the difference. When we love with just our hearts and abandon our heads and eyes is when we get hurt. Love doesn't have to be stupid love or blind love. Sending hugs your way.... {=}

absolutelynormal replies on 7/9/2006 7:09 am:
Thank you Prags

norprin5 55M

7/6/2006 8:30 am

insane? yes, yes i am.

i love quickly, deeply, hopelessly...

King Nor XVIII

absolutelynormal replies on 7/9/2006 7:09 am:
Let me know if you need a lifeline

meerkittykat 42F

7/6/2006 9:20 am

I do it often....usually with smaller things that eventually don't harm me.

Every so often I get burned with the matters of the heart. My thing is I always seem to play the stronger partner, and after it ends because I get tired of playing counselor, I say "never again." Then I go rescue some soul and fall for them.

I appear to have interrupted this streak for now (knock wood), thank gawd.

absolutelynormal replies on 7/9/2006 7:14 am:
I've been the rescuer and I've been rescued too. UGH

fortunaswm 61M/52F

7/6/2006 10:51 am

You sound "absolutely normal" to me

usually one of us falls in love and not the other - but, never both at the same time. Or not in recent years anyway. It's getting old!!!!

absolutelynormal replies on 7/9/2006 7:15 am:
yeah, its getting very old.

Twister2bed 47M
617 posts
7/6/2006 11:36 am

I'm watching for anyone who says there not INSANE lol

Because they are the people I am avoiding.

absolutelynormal replies on 7/9/2006 7:16 am:
birds of a feather huh

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7/6/2006 12:52 pm

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absolutelynormal replies on 7/9/2006 7:17 am:
EL I just can't right now.

rm_wetfingeraz 53F
3012 posts
7/6/2006 4:25 pm

You're preaching to the choir on that one, girlfriend! If you ever figure out how to break the cycle, please let me know.

absolutelynormal replies on 7/9/2006 7:17 am:
If you'll do the same for me

ProtonicMan 47M

7/6/2006 5:28 pm

Yeah, I guess I qualify, too. I keep hugging that pillow when I go to sleep at night, but it still hasn't turned into a lovely lady by morning.

Actually, I have become dense enough to dive right back in to the exact same mess, without regard to how bad it made me feel last time, just because I remember how GOOD it made me feel first.


absolutelynormal replies on 7/9/2006 7:19 am:
You're such an addict TJ!

jdocfunguy 50M

7/6/2006 7:22 pm

I actually observe that definition of insanity alot. But as with most things, it's easier to notice in others without noticing it in myself. It's funny how we require more examples to see the pattern in ourselves. The burden of proof is so much higher.

absolutelynormal replies on 7/9/2006 7:20 am:
I see the pattern in myself. I break the pattern for a while and then turn around and do it allover again. dumbass.

greydog1947 69M

7/7/2006 1:30 pm

Wibble. Me, insane. Hell, yes.

I know just where you are coming from about making the same mistakes.

I've had an onn/off relationship (notthat kind of on/off. Keep your minds out of the gutter)for over 2 years.

It's been me workng the switch, and it's currently off.

I think I've been insane for going back so many times. This time it's off for good.

Or maybe I'm insane for thinking that.

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