Change the Clothes, Change the Woman  

absolutelynormal 56F
6016 posts
9/8/2006 7:32 pm

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Change the Clothes, Change the Woman

First, I want to apologize to anyone who has commented here recently. I haven't been answering comments, I'm not really sure why, just laziness I suppose. At one point my blogging was about numbers and me trying to be funny etc, but now that's not the case. I write what I want. If you read it you do, if you don't you don't. If you comment you do, if not then I wasn't very interesting or original.

Now the real reason for this post.

The post just before this one was about me sitting here waiting for my friend to get here, I was waiting for him in something sexy. He had no clue. He'd seen some of it before, hanging in my closet. Truth is, it's been a long time since I've thought of myself as sexy.

I put on thigh highs today. It's been 5 years since I've worn thigh highs. I love thigh highs. They feel nice without the ickiness of panty hose. But it's not what how they feel physically, it's how they feel mentally and emotionally that make me love them.

You guys have to remember that I got married when I was 19, stayed married for 21 years. I never even thought about lingerie. We had sex every Saturday night and that was about it. We both had orgasms, I thought that was the goal.

All that was before Mike. Mike bought me my first real lingerie. Surprisingly enough, there were thigh highs in the gift when I opened it. I'd never worn a teddy or thigh highs, but when he asked me to, I did it for him.

I went into the bathroom to change. I put the thing on backward I was so nervous. I get the teddy on and roll the thigh highs on.

I step out of the bathroom. Mike's turned an ordinary hotel room into something romantic, there are candles everywhere. Soft lighting. Very thoughtful cause he knows how I feel about my body.

Only thing is, just as he has transformed the room, the lingerie and the thigh highs have transformed me. Suddenly I'm no longer the shy little introvert, I'm sexier than hell.

I opened the door and stepped out into the bedroom and his jaw dropped open. He told me I was beautiful, something I had been needing to hear for a very long time. Needless to say, he had his world rocked that night and mine right along with his.

Sometimes, the props make the woman more of a woman. They did today.

chas4037 67M
4119 posts
9/8/2006 7:48 pm

What a fabulous posting, Mac.

THANK YOU for sharing, and for the insight you've provided.


absolutelynormal replies on 9/11/2006 3:25 am:
thanks, my friend

blackleather2006 51M/49F

9/8/2006 7:52 pm

AWESOME and I so whole-heartedly agree! I don't like my body either but when I dress sexy and get comments from Doug like you do from Mike it is the best feeling in the world!

absolutelynormal replies on 9/11/2006 3:26 am:
Can totally relate BL

rm_sweetone244 56F
377 posts
9/8/2006 8:32 pm

Whoo Hoo! I know what you mean - I've always been a jeans and T-shirt girl .. but lately - skirts have been my style of choice for that very same reason.

absolutelynormal replies on 9/11/2006 3:27 am:
You keep that man of yours (and you) Happy

rm_wetfingeraz 53F
3012 posts
9/8/2006 10:07 pm

I love thigh hi's, won't wear pantyhose. Pantyhose should be outlawed in Arizona. But thigh hi's make you feel so sexy, especially under the Corporate Costume.

absolutelynormal replies on 9/11/2006 3:30 am:
I can't imagine wearing panty hose in AZ!! Bad enough here in Bama. I have a run in my thigh highs, gotta get some more

norprin5 55M

9/8/2006 11:16 pm

i told ya you were beautiful! maybe next time you'll listen better

King Nor XVIII

absolutelynormal replies on 9/11/2006 3:31 am:
Thanks Norprin with the sexy ass

brute472 74M
3480 posts
9/9/2006 12:18 am

No dear Mac you were always that woman the props just made you realise it.

(He told me I was beautiful) Again I say you were always beautiful but hearing it is so nice.
Congrats on a great experience and may there be many more.(Lucky Girl)

absolutelynormal replies on 9/11/2006 3:32 am:
Thank you Brute, sometimes I just wanna give you a big hug

GoddessOfTheDawn 105F
11238 posts
9/9/2006 12:42 am

you GO GURL!

congratz.... and yes, may there be many more xperiencez like this

absolutelynormal replies on 9/11/2006 3:32 am:
Thanks GOTD, I like that pic btw

frangipanigal 44F
10406 posts
9/9/2006 11:32 pm

Yeh for you!

I know exactly what you mean (even have the profile to pic to prove it..hehe!!)

I'm very happy for you Mac, and yes, you are beautiful.

Frangi x

absolutelynormal replies on 9/11/2006 3:33 am:
Can see you're into the thigh highs too and thank you for the sweet compliment

papyrina 50F
21133 posts
9/10/2006 9:56 am

good for you and him,he sounds like a gem of a guy

I'm a

i'm here to stay

absolutelynormal replies on 9/11/2006 3:34 am:
Thanks Papy

complexlysimple 34M

9/10/2006 5:18 pm

... yup, sometimes the clothes (or lack of) makes all the difference

absolutelynormal replies on 9/11/2006 3:34 am:

absolutelynormal 56F
6563 posts
9/12/2006 3:35 am

I was having trouble with them wanting to roll down, but they stayed where they were for as long as I needed them to. Got a run in them though, dammit!! I think I finally see a picture of someone as white as I am Thanks for your comment and your wish for peace and healing, I can use it and it means a lot to me. Mac

red_hot_trucker 58F

10/8/2006 9:51 pm

When I'm in my truck sexy is the last thing I feel. When I have taken the time to put that extra touch for the one in my life, and his response is my aim, I can conquor any mountain.

My dilemna is why? Why is I need a man to validate my sexiness? Why can't I find that self worth on my own?

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absolutelynormal replies on 10/9/2006 7:37 pm:
Like I know!! Look at you, I'd say there isn't a thing about that doesn't scream sexiness! I can only imagine the flack you take from male truckers, you got more balls than I have that's for damn sure (it'sa compliment)

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