What are you doing??  

aascrompn 42M
6957 posts
3/6/2006 7:27 pm

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What are you doing??


Excuse me everybody that reads this blog, but I have some venting to do. This post pains me to write about, but it's actually come down to this.

We bloggers, on this friendly site, establish friendship. I've posted about this before, but I feel like stressing this again. I'm on this site to meet new people, search for hotties of which I'll never lay my hands on, and to post my fucked up ideas. I'm not here to play childish games w/ anybody.

Currently, there are some pretty heavy games that have been started w/ one of my f-bloggers (female blogger). There is an m-blogger (male) friend that seems to be playing mind games with her. This is ablsolutely destroying her. I can't stand the games being played and I'm now here to stress it.

There are certain patterns that seem all too familiar in your actions! You know it, she knows it, I know it. Yes, I'm talking to you. Do you not understand what you are doing to another individual? You claim that you care, but how could you? How could you hurt another person by your wayward actions? I'm almost at the point that I'm ashamed to know you. Yes, it's that bad.

If you claim that you are not doing it, then I have to ask you a question. Do you not realize the amount of time and emotions invested that this person has given to you? I want you to think about that.

If you realize what you are doing, then I think you need to reavalute your current position. You need to realize that she is my friend and that if you hurt her, you are indirectly hurting me. I will NOT settle for you to cause strife in my life? Do you understand that? I will NOT give you enough power to affect me. You are an aquaintance, nothing more. I have no problem as looking at you as nothing. That would hurt you the worst, wouldn't it? It would be almost all to familiar to you, wouldn't it?

I'm seriously very pissed off about this and I truly feel that I should give you an ultimatum, but I (for once in my life) am not going to fight. This is a world that I'm just not ready to go blow to blow w/ anyone yet. I have a much better understanding, but I realize that this is more of your battle field than mine. However, I will caution you. Should you feel to continue your pathetic attempts at mind games, I'm just as good as you, if not incredibly better. Don't be "that guy". Don't be the guy that controls others b/c you can't handle your reality. It's un-fucking fair and not your place.

Quit fucking with others b/c of your lack of self-esteem!!

Again, fellow bloggers, I'm sorry. Would you not stick up for your friends?? I think you would.

rm_saintlianna 45F
15466 posts
3/6/2006 7:45 pm

I would want you to be on my side. And of course, what else is there really.


timberwolf6972 44M

3/6/2006 7:55 pm

I always stick for my my friends. Any true friend would.


caressmewell 53F

3/6/2006 8:01 pm

Way to go little brother!! The games need to stop and his focus needs to be re-directed.


jadedbabe78 105F

3/6/2006 8:04 pm

aascrompn ~ You are such a great, great person for sticking up for your f-blogger friend. Truly, you are. Some people need to be put in their place. Maybe he doesn't realize his actions and probably will never admit it....but they *do* need to be told.

Tell it like it is and be true to you and your friend who needs the help and support right now.

~Jadey


FunandFrisky79 41M/36F

3/6/2006 8:08 pm

I don't blame you! I'd like to think my friends here would stick up for me, too! (And, they have!) Just as I would for them! It's nice to know you've formed strong bonds here in Blogville!!! Whoever she is, she is lucky to have you as a friend!!!

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007sexy40plus 51F  
7603 posts
3/6/2006 8:10 pm

I too would stick up for my friends, and I wish I had more friends like you.

I am the real deal! "Come Get Me!!!"


southrnpeach333 50F

3/6/2006 8:21 pm

It is one thing to unknowingly cause another hurt. But very adequate notice has been served. Any further hurt by this person would just show their true character. You are a good friend.


bardicman 50M

3/6/2006 9:00 pm

Maybe he will just choke on his own shit.



I am not dead yet


elbman 41M  
2566 posts
3/7/2006 2:21 am

Let me know if you need a 3'1" guy.....cause I have to hit below the belt.


rm_PurryKitty2 48M/49F
9753 posts
3/7/2006 3:47 am

You should stick up for your friends but please also talk it out with your male blogger friend and see if perhaps he is not scared for some reason. You have met this person right or is he gonna turn out to be dead and fake like everyone else on here? If you havent met him, then both of you need to ignore him. If you have met him, talk to him.

Purry {=}

Purry


silkysmoothlegs3 105F

3/7/2006 3:50 am

Bloggland needs more people like you babe..

I hope that this person reads this..

People that "fuck" with peoples minds and feelings need to be told!!

Im so glad your my friend..

Id be scared of ya if you were an enemy

Big tough guy

hugs u

silky


papyrina 51F
21133 posts
3/7/2006 4:55 am

i hope yor friend sorts it out and it works out,friends are few and far between but at least on here we can hold each up


I'm a

and
i'm here to stay


pinkzplaytoyz 49F

3/7/2006 7:00 am

I agree with you, I believe in standing with my friends...the hardest part about blogging here is truly knowing someone's "intent"...
and the easiest way to settle it is direct communication, via email or im, or whatever...
I know, I've been there...and at some point, the situation needs to be removed from the blogs and the public, until it is resolved. I am glad your friend has you to stand up for her...It's very lonely when you're in pain...
hugz,
Pink


Lioness_girl 45F
3494 posts
3/7/2006 7:44 am

I am a loyal friend and I do and will stick up for my friends. I hope this person sits back and realizes what he is doing.

Lioness_girl

Come have fun! Visit my blog at Lioness_girl


TabithaElectra79 37F

3/7/2006 9:52 am

I agree with you, I am the same, and expect my friends to be too.


JustaSeeker 105F

3/7/2006 3:30 pm

Whiskey tango fox?


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
3/8/2006 8:26 am

    Quoting caressmewell:
    Way to go little brother!! The games need to stop and his focus needs to be re-directed.
I agree! However, it's not my fight anymore after this.


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
3/8/2006 8:27 am

    Quoting rm_valleyrat4:
    Add me to the consensus there brother Mike!
You are too cool of a guy! Thanks for your support.


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
3/8/2006 8:28 am

    Quoting jadedbabe78:
    aascrompn ~ You are such a great, great person for sticking up for your f-blogger friend. Truly, you are. Some people need to be put in their place. Maybe he doesn't realize his actions and probably will never admit it....but they *do* need to be told.

    Tell it like it is and be true to you and your friend who needs the help and support right now.

    ~Jadey
Thanks very much for your comment! I'm not sure that he does realize the jeopardy that he could cause to the individual. I think everything will work out. *Hugs*


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
3/8/2006 8:30 am

    Quoting FunandFrisky79:
    I don't blame you! I'd like to think my friends here would stick up for me, too! (And, they have!) Just as I would for them! It's nice to know you've formed strong bonds here in Blogville!!! Whoever she is, she is lucky to have you as a friend!!!
I'm pretty lucky to have her as a friend as well. She really is a very cool girl. I just didn't want to see her go through more pain.


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
3/8/2006 8:31 am

    Quoting 007sexy40plus:
    I too would stick up for my friends, and I wish I had more friends like you.
thanks, sweetie! You too, will have friends like me. There are many here among us (not the jimmie hendrix song) that will stick up for you once you have become friends...


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
3/8/2006 8:32 am

    Quoting playrigal:
    That's what friends do, stick up for one another, support one another, laugh and even cry, too. Great post, hope he takes the hint!
Thanks! I think he got it... We'll see how this all works out.


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
3/8/2006 8:33 am

    Quoting southrnpeach333:
    It is one thing to unknowingly cause another hurt. But very adequate notice has been served. Any further hurt by this person would just show their true character. You are a good friend.
That's what my goal was... I just wanted to let him know that I was watching and was more than aware of what he was up to. I think he took the hint. He may have not even been aware of what he was doing.


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
3/8/2006 8:34 am

    Quoting bardicman:
    Maybe he will just choke on his own shit.
Lol - He's certainly got enough of it to choke on...


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
3/8/2006 8:35 am

    Quoting travelingintexas:
    Woooo hoo an aas stomping.... I love me some good aas stompings.... Its been awhile and Im in the mood....
    Trav
AAS stomping, huh? lol - You're just still bitter from earlier in the week. Next, you'll want to give him hugs...


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
3/8/2006 8:35 am

Yes, it certainly was...


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
3/8/2006 8:37 am

    Quoting foxtrotter2000:
    that's what friends are for...stick together through thick and thin...
    hope this guy realizes what he has done, and the pain he caused to someone...
    i'm touched by your genuine concern for your friend...
Thanks for your support, Fox! *hugs*


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
3/8/2006 8:38 am

    Quoting rm_mzhunyhole:
    Good for you..I have friends that stand up for me..and I appreciate it..soooooooooo much.She is very lucky.
She really is a good friend...


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
3/8/2006 8:39 am

    Quoting elbman:
    Let me know if you need a 3'1" guy.....cause I have to hit below the belt.
lol - I can always put you on my shoulders...


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
3/8/2006 8:40 am

    Quoting sweetneeds2:
    The mark of a man is how he treats his friends!!

    Friends always have each others back!! Hopefully he is aware now of what he's doing!! I hope she will be okay and with a friend like you there is no doubt of that!!
Thank you, sweet! I really appreciate that.


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
3/8/2006 8:53 am

    Quoting rm_PurryKitty2:
    You should stick up for your friends but please also talk it out with your male blogger friend and see if perhaps he is not scared for some reason. You have met this person right or is he gonna turn out to be dead and fake like everyone else on here? If you havent met him, then both of you need to ignore him. If you have met him, talk to him.

    Purry {=}
If the male were more accessible, I might've done that. However, this was the best way that I knew to do it, give that he lurks around so much. He has never responded to IM's or phone calls from others. He does exist. I have met him. I think he got my point w/out thinking that he actually was doing anything wrong.


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
3/8/2006 8:54 am

    Quoting silkysmoothlegs3:
    Bloggland needs more people like you babe..

    I hope that this person reads this..

    People that "fuck" with peoples minds and feelings need to be told!!

    Im so glad your my friend..

    Id be scared of ya if you were an enemy

    Big tough guy

    hugs u

    silky
Hey Silky!!! You could never be my enemy, seetness... *Hugs*


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
3/8/2006 8:55 am

    Quoting papyrina:
    i hope yor friend sorts it out and it works out,friends are few and far between but at least on here we can hold each up
Yes, it's hard to make true friends... That's why when I did, I didn't want for her to get hurt.


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
3/8/2006 8:57 am

    Quoting pinkzplaytoyz:
    I agree with you, I believe in standing with my friends...the hardest part about blogging here is truly knowing someone's "intent"...
    and the easiest way to settle it is direct communication, via email or im, or whatever...
    I know, I've been there...and at some point, the situation needs to be removed from the blogs and the public, until it is resolved. I am glad your friend has you to stand up for her...It's very lonely when you're in pain...
    hugz,
    Pink
He would never respond to offline requests so I did it the only way that I knew how.


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
3/8/2006 8:58 am

    Quoting Lioness_girl:
    I am a loyal friend and I do and will stick up for my friends. I hope this person sits back and realizes what he is doing.
I hope so too.


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
3/8/2006 9:00 am

    Quoting TabithaElectra79:
    I agree with you, I am the same, and expect my friends to be too.


Thanks Tab! I'll be your friend.


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
3/8/2006 9:05 am

Somebody made my friend upset and I wanted to diffuse it.


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
3/8/2006 9:06 am

    Quoting rm_mineiswetter:
    You are such a sweet friend! Hugs & Kisses! You have done a good thing!
    I also hate it when people play with others emotions. Why people do it, I don't know?
People are cruel... that's why they do it. However, he may have not understood what he was doing.


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