Want to hear  

aascrompn 42M
6957 posts
3/27/2006 7:12 am

Last Read:
10/18/2006 6:44 am

Want to hear

Are there days when you wake up that you just want to hear how much you are wanted, or how much you are liked?? I'm not usually one to seek such validation, but I have noticed today that I'm kinda on this mindset!

The thing about having e-crushes and e-love, and everything else that's e, is a very tough concept. It's very similar in RL, but I think sometimes it's harder. The reason why I think it's sometimes harder, is b/c of all of the distractions placed upon us here. For example, I really don't know if my New One is real. I assume that She's real, I've chatted w/ Her, but I've never seen Her on cam. Another reason why it's hard is as I having feelings for Her, I am aware of others that flirt w/ me. This is the distraction of which I was speaking. The same is true for Her. She is aware of my feelings, however, I'm in big time competition. She too has her distractions. There are many better looking, smarter guys on this site. I know that She has a lot to filter through, etc.

Sometimes, one just wants to hear that they were thought about that day. If there were to be a quick email stating, "I'm very busy right now, but I wanted to just say hello.", that would be the ultimate pickup for my day, hell, my week! Do you ever have these days where you seek validation?

jadedbabe78 106F

3/27/2006 7:18 am

Every frickin' day. BUT, I'm an attention whore, so obviously I would.

Those quick emails...*can* be great. I've been a sender of those on occasion. What can suck about them is when the person doesn't respond with a 'hey, wow..thanks!'. Blah!

I'm in a horrid mood due to tiredness....so, I'm a bit bitchy, lol.


aascrompn replies on 3/28/2006 6:09 am:
Ya, I can relate to your wishes!! If they don't respond, that is pretty rude!

You're not bitchy!

southrnpeach333 50F

3/27/2006 7:30 am

i seek validation of some sort everyday. do you validate parking?

aascrompn replies on 3/28/2006 6:10 am:
I usually don't, but I was yesterday... It's just good to hear, when you're bummed out, or sick.

caressmewell 53F

3/27/2006 7:47 am

Who doesn't want to be noticed on a daily basis?

aascrompn replies on 3/28/2006 6:11 am:
I'm sure there are people out there that don't want to be...

PassionKisses4Me 44F

3/27/2006 8:20 am

I feel the same way....think that is one of the reasons I blog...to get that interaction while great people who like me and I like them



aascrompn replies on 3/28/2006 6:11 am:
Maybe that is the reason why I blog... I'm not sure if it is or not! I do like to hear nice stuff, though.

angelgrrl 48F

3/27/2006 8:51 am

All the time. There's nothing wrong with that either

aascrompn replies on 3/28/2006 6:12 am:
It just seems like it could be a little self-centered, that's all.

rm_1hotwahine 63F
21091 posts
3/27/2006 10:34 am

Are you talking about who I think you're talking about?

Yeah, I'm still [blog 1hotwahine]

aascrompn replies on 3/28/2006 6:14 am:
Blonde hair? Next to perfect abs... No! lol I'm actually speaking of my new one who has black hair and a wonderful body as well (plus she can write the hell out of poetry, too).

frangipanigal 45F
10406 posts
3/27/2006 1:53 pm

OK, does that mean ALL your friends have to stop flirting? Damn, just when I had some good ideas..hehe!!

Yes, validation is good and needed sometimes, but friends can validate you too, not just "THE NEW ONE".

Frangi xx

aascrompn replies on 3/28/2006 6:23 am:
No, by all means friends can flirt! The New One is the one that I would melt over the most to hear, though...

qyxx 60F
3267 posts
3/27/2006 2:48 pm

okay, okay....I admit it...I need my ego stroked from time to time...Just that little bit of attention does wonders.


aascrompn replies on 3/28/2006 6:24 am:
Yes, I agree that it does do wonders! Thanks for stopping by and commenting!

rm_JohnMacLaine 50M
585 posts
3/27/2006 7:56 pm

I think that a lot of the people that have a blog do it for attention and validation of some sort, and that they want people to tell them that they are a good person.

just a thought, doesn't necessarily apply to eveyone..


"I can retain neither respect or affection for a government which has been moving from wrong to wrong in order to defend its own immorality" Mahatma Ghandi

aascrompn replies on 3/28/2006 6:26 am:
I do it mainly for myself, but I think you're right that many do it for the attention! I guess it just depends on the particular post. When I write poetry, I mainly do it for Her. I'm seeking validation by how nice her reponce and appreciation is.

elbman 41M  
2566 posts
3/28/2006 2:39 am

Kind of like when your going through the airport minding your own business and the TSA throws you into a little room and slaps on a glove up to their elbow and......err...wrong post.

aascrompn replies on 3/28/2006 6:26 am:
LMAO - Yes, kinda like that! You have something you'd like to share?

ella1966 50F
1528 posts
3/28/2006 3:41 am

Yes, that is what he used to do, I was fine with it, even when he was busy, until I panicked, fucked it up by sending him with an angry email and lost him forever!

ella X

ella1966 50F
1528 posts
3/28/2006 3:42 am

Yes, that is what he used to do, my heart would go pitter-patter just opening up , and I was fine with it, even when he was busy, until I panicked, fucked it up by sending him an angry email, didn't read the clues and lost him forever!

ella X

aascrompn replies on 3/28/2006 6:27 am:
I have been known to do very, very similar actions... LOL I lost her even as a friend...

elbman 41M  
2566 posts
3/28/2006 1:57 pm

aascrompn replies on 3/28/2006 6:26 am:
LMAO - Yes, kinda like that! You have something you'd like to share?

I don't know what you're talking about......

Synn74 42F
1206 posts
4/2/2006 1:42 am

everyday thank god my friends understand my mental defect

I welcome you to the House of Syn...

Become a member to create a blog