Question for the ladies  

aascrompn 42M
6957 posts
1/10/2006 7:03 pm

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Question for the ladies

I just got done reading an article that made the following point...

If you listen in on a group of women talking about the men they've dated, the conversation will inevitably turn to SEX.

And in almost all cases, it will eventually turn into a FULL-ON RAG SESSION about how almost every man they've dated has absolutely NO IDEA how to please them in the bedroom.

While a woman will complain for HOURS to her girlfriends about how clumsy and clueless a man is in the bedroom...
she will NEVER EVER EVER tell YOU.

The truth is that most women would rather put up with LAME sex than take the risk of hurting a guy's feelings... and have to face the embarrassment of having to show him what to do.

The last thing a woman ever wants to do is to "hurt your masculinity"... and the second to the last thing she ever wants to do is be your sex-ed teacher.

Just the THOUGHT of showing a man how to "do it" is so wrong to a woman that she will actually FAKE like she's enjoying it to avoid it.

Ladies how accurate is the above point? Would you truly not tell the guy your with??

rm_1hotwahine 63F
21091 posts
1/10/2006 10:15 pm

maybe some women are like that. not all.

Yeah, I'm still [blog 1hotwahine]

papyrina 51F
21133 posts
1/11/2006 5:03 am

nope i don't gossip on that unless hes great in bed if hes crap i will keep it to my self,why admit it especially if you slept with him more than once

I'm a

i'm here to stay

saddletrampsk 54F

1/11/2006 6:33 am

If he's really lame and not very open I will just stop seeing him

aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
1/11/2006 5:58 pm

1hot - Thanks for you input!

aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
1/11/2006 6:00 pm

mineiswetter - I would talk about sex w/ you if your friends aren't available... I'm glad you would be honest w/ him (me).

aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
1/11/2006 6:01 pm

Papy - I never thought of it that way...

aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
1/11/2006 6:04 pm

Saddle - You wouldn't try to guide him at all?

aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
1/11/2006 6:06 pm

Luscious - Did you tell them about me??? I think it's great that you would tell him. I agree there are ways to be tactful. I'm thinking it would really suck to never be satisfied when all you have to do is tell him to adjust here or there.

saddletrampsk 54F

1/11/2006 6:24 pm

    Quoting aascrompn:
    Saddle - You wouldn't try to guide him at all?
Only if he let me..but sometimes men's egos can get in the way I have found

rm_goddess1946 106F
13518 posts
1/11/2006 8:39 pm

would always be honest with you...
no need to discuss it with them...

it is they come to me for advise
more times than not..just is that way...

Just a little food for thought.............
If you really want to be happy, nobody can stop you...

aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
1/12/2006 7:10 am

saddle - Maybe I'm different from all of the other guys... I usually never worry about my own needs in bed. I know that if I take the time to fully pleasure her, there is no question she wouldn't return the efforts. There are two places only in which I'm able to drop my ego. One is the gym and the other is the bedroom.

aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
1/12/2006 7:13 am

Goddess - I'm sure you do have lots of people going to you for advise! I can just tell you know what you're doing! I think it's great that the consensus as a whole is that the women would tell the guy. You wouldn't mind being my sex-ed teacher would you?

aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
1/12/2006 7:16 am

Wicked - I think the insecure guys would, for sure!

NaughtyNurseMn 48F
74 posts
1/15/2006 7:17 pm

I've never talked poorly of a sexcapade or a boyfriends "abilities". I can only think of one time when I was with someone horrible- but one of my best friends ended up dating him right after me and she married him! He didn't do it for me, so I broke it off. It worked for her though, so it seems after 10 years they are still married with two kids. I want my friends to envy me, I want to have it all... so I don't settle for less than what I want, in life, in bed or in relationships. Neither should you.

I don't like to belittle others or bemoan others. It isn't cool, it's petty. I think women should adore other women and men alike and help build each other up to be the best we can be. Seeing the positive in each other is critical to finding even your own happiness...

The Naughtiest Nurse You'll Ever Know...


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
1/15/2006 7:50 pm

Naughty - Thanks for the comment! I think everyone else is in full agreement w/ what you said. Most would never admit it to their friends if he were bad... Welcome back!

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