aascrompn 42M
6957 posts
12/27/2005 3:15 pm

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10/18/2006 4:56 am


I understand that sometimes things come up, but what I'm about to say is REALLY damn annoying.

A group of my friends and I decided that we are going to club 1150 for NYE. I've never been there, but we had to commit to this about 3 weeks ago. I have recently been seeing two girls. Girl number two said immediately that she couldn't go (which really sucks b/c I really wanted her to say yes). I asked girl number one if she wanted to go and she emphatically said yes. So, I told her that it would be $100 per person, since we're going to be hanging in the VIP area w/ our own waitress and security. She said it wouldn't be a problem. I would've picked up the entire bill of her's but since we're not really "dating", I figured she could pick her own ticket for the night. I usually pay for her when we go out to eat, drink, and whatnot. So, I called her today to give her ideas of what everyone was going to be wearing and she tells me she doesn't THINK she can go. Now, it's too late for me to ask anybody else and I'm stuck paying her part of it. That really sucks! I'm thinking she's going to be "kicked to the curb", since she never really told me why she can't go. Oh well. Although we're not dating, it would have been nice to at least have a date to bring in the new year... Damn!

aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
12/27/2005 7:14 pm

Well you are right; it is a date. However, it's not a date in the sense that we are gf/bf type of date. She knows that we are just hanging out. There is no exclusivity. She is the one that has been very clingy (refer to one of my first posts), so I backed off quite a bit. When I initially told her about it, she knew about the cost. She had no problem with the cost at that time. She is claiming that her ex husband will not take her child for the weekend and can't find a sitter. I truly believe her, but I thought she took care of all of this weeks ago. She apologized three or four times and asked me numerous times if I was mad at her. I said I wasn't mad in the least and would have to come up with some other solution (hinting at having to invite somebody else). You could very well be right. It could totally be b/c of the cost and me not having volunteered paying for it. I guess what really gets me is the last minute notification. We even talked about it just last week and everything was still on track. However, you are a lot smarter than me. Maybe I should have offered to pay. Now, I just have to find somebody else to ask, not really expecting anybody being able to go as it's the last minute.

caressmewell 53F

12/27/2005 7:16 pm

Sorry hun, it was a date.

NaughtyNurseMn 48F
74 posts
12/27/2005 9:16 pm

Hmmmm. Lots of insight into this one. Yes, it was a date. You asked her to go, right? If you would have told me that you expected me to pay the $100 (which wouldn't be a problem financially) I'd feel a little weird about it. I would think... hmmmm is this a sign of times to come if we were to get serious? I am all for equality, but if I were to invite you to a concert with me, I'd buy the tickets for us to go. Maybe, you really are self sabatoging yourself? Maybe she is totally wrong for you and you know it! Maybe you should consider a nice Minnesota girl... just a thought.

The Naughtiest Nurse You'll Ever Know...


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
12/28/2005 5:21 am

Well crap!

rm_izalendor 46F

12/28/2005 5:44 am

Awwww, you're only 31. Keep asking till you find Ms.Right and take her to Las Vegas...for real! But I'm so sorry to hear that you got turned down especially this time of the year. Well, well, well, enjoy your bachelor life while it lasts Happy holidays!

aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
12/29/2005 10:54 pm

izalendor - I know that I'm still young and that I'll find Ms. Right. I just really didn't want to go stag on such an eventful night. I will still have a lot of fun. I will be w/ my great group of friends. I do enjoy my bachelor life (as far as not having any accountablity) but it's still a little depressing when you have something so fun planned out, and everything just falls apart. Happy holidays to you! I hope you had a great Xmas. Don't be a stranger!

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