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aascrompn 42M
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2/15/2006 6:31 am

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Here is a great list that really helped me pull through yesterday...

1. We are each responsible for our own experiences.

2. Every thought we think is creating our own future.

3. Everyone is dealing w/ the damaging patterns of resentment, criticism, guilt and self-hatred.

4. They are only thoughts and toughts can be changed.

5. We need to release the past and forgive everyone.

6. Self-approval and self-acceptance in the "NOW" are the keys to positive changes.

7. The point of power is always in the present moment.

fantasylover_05 62M

2/15/2006 7:55 am

Yes aascrompn.... very good list indeed my Friend!

I particularly like # 1 (even if Divinity disagrees LO, 2, 5 & 6!

We all need "self approval and acceptance" and that probably more than anything else is the key to our own happiness!!

Our thoughts do create our future... be positive and good things will come.... when we are in a positive mind frame... we even give of positive "vibes" and we also recognise all the potential OPPORTUNITIES all around us and can then and only then capitalize on them!

Good Post!!

Thank You


caressmewell 53F

2/15/2006 7:56 am

Excellent list..you did some heavy thinking.


saddletrampsk 54F

2/15/2006 8:13 am

This is an awesome list..and it is so important to forgive..hang in there sweety..


elbman 41M  
2566 posts
2/15/2006 9:15 am

I think some people need to be cut loose vs. forgiven; but all in all a rather comprehensive list.


southrnpeach333 50F

2/15/2006 9:34 am

Tenents to live by, that forgiveness one is DIFFICULT though.


kelly402005 52F

2/15/2006 3:28 pm

I think we all think about that stuff....
We have the power to change our attitudes at any time.

It's good that you gave it the thought.
Most men wouldn't...
I'm probably gonna get the hell beat out of me for that, but hey..... My opinion!


papyrina 51F
21133 posts
2/15/2006 3:43 pm

no 1 not always,i've had some stinkers and i wasn't responsible for any.
forgiving i can do ,but forgetting is another .

Nice thoughts


I'm a

and
i'm here to stay


rm_PurryKitty2 48M/50F
9753 posts
2/15/2006 4:39 pm

good points but # is debatable (did i spell that right?)

Purry {=}

Purry


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
2/15/2006 4:43 pm

kelly - I think men have a hard time thinking about it, b/c we're used to always being able to "fix" stuff. However, when it comes to the mind, it's not always the easiest thing to fix. I'm not sure I'm making any sense.


pinkplaytoyz 50F

2/15/2006 7:20 pm

You're right on target! But every now and then, things come along that knock the breath right out of ya, and when that happens, having a friend(s) to help you back to your feet is a blessing also.


jadedbabe78 106F

2/15/2006 7:59 pm

Great list and I agree with it.

~Jadey


kelly402005 52F

2/15/2006 10:19 pm

It's all good! Men just think they are right...... all the time!!!!
LOL!
They think they can fix everything...... sometimes, I can, "fix" it better!
I get ya man!
IT'S A MAN THING.......... FEEL IT!
I WILL LET YOU!
But, on a lighter note...... if you need a friend, I'm here... okay.
Be a man, I can handle it!
AND I'LL GET DRUNK WITH YA! WANNA BEER?
~~~~iwanna hug ya!~~~~
(Just me, "for real")
kelly


elbman 41M  
2566 posts
2/16/2006 12:49 am

#5 still bothers me, so I did a bit of editing

5. We need to release the things in our past that hold us back, and forgive not only others but ourselves.

People tend to find it easier to forgive someone elses faults other thatn thir own.


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
2/16/2006 5:25 am

DD - No problem! I love when you kid w/ me (except when you say you want to have sex and then deny me).


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
2/16/2006 5:26 am

marchbrown - Thanks for stopping by and commenting! I know that it's hard to forgive people, but I actually think everyone can be forgiven.


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
2/16/2006 5:28 am

fantasylover - I think that self-aceptance is the most important part. It's also the one that fails the first when everything starts to go wrong.


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
2/16/2006 5:29 am

caress - I actually got this list from a friend, who got it from his pyschologist. It really did help me through the night. All that I did, was post it here and read it about 139 times that night.


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
2/16/2006 5:30 am

saddle - Thanks, sweetie! *Hugs*


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
2/16/2006 5:31 am

elbman - I like your second post! You are absolutely correct. I have a VERY difficult time, sometimes, forgiving myself.


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
2/16/2006 5:33 am

southrn - Yes, it is the most difficult. What I've found, though, is that I'm happier w/ myself when I forgive somebody who has wronged me in the past.


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
2/16/2006 5:35 am

mineiswetter - Yes, 5 takes a REALLY long time. I think that it's important not to rush number 5, as you have to go through all feelings first(pain, denigal, anger, etc...). After going through these, I would say it's easier to forgive.


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
2/16/2006 5:36 am

papy - I tend to ignore the bad past as much as possible. The only time that I remember it, is to recognize current scenarios w/ the former lessons.


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
2/16/2006 5:37 am

mzhuny - Now there is a bible lesson! Thanks, sweetie...


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
2/16/2006 5:38 am

purry - I think you spelled it right, but you forgot to put the actual number in your sentence... LOL - I had a long day too!


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
2/16/2006 5:39 am

pinkplay - Yes, friends can help at times, but I think a lot of times, we are on our own.


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
2/16/2006 5:40 am

jaded - Thanks, sweetie!


Babel__Fish 45F

2/18/2006 6:10 am

Wonderful list! Things that sometimes people forget, thanks for reminding me!

Babel


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
2/18/2006 7:55 am

babel - Thanks for stopping by and commenting! I'm glad that you enjoyed it! *hugs*


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