Good times?  

aascrompn 42M
6957 posts
1/2/2006 9:38 am

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Good times?

Who on this site can truly say that they have good times on here? I do, but it's interesting to note how many profiles on here are entirely too serious. It's like people are bitter for being on here? I try to keep my profile funny and my attitude chipper, but there are sooo many profiles on here that just seem too dry. I'm just curious. Do people become more bitter while on this site?

sassybelle21 32F
13313 posts
1/2/2006 10:13 am

I have good times here My profile reflects me and I know it's probably an Exhibit A material. It's static and can only reveal this much since I don't rewrite my profile every other day. To get to know me better especially my friendly and funny sides would be through my blog entries and chat conversations which are more dynamic in nature. I didn't become more bitter after joining here. Really!!

screwmeovernout 59M

1/2/2006 10:19 am

From a physcological stand point I see this place as a useful tool and so far I havent become bitter but I have only been here a year. But there are times when I enjoy poking a stick in the beehive.

silkysmoothlegs3 105F

1/2/2006 10:33 am

Im having fun here

Its light and a good laugh

Lots of really nice genuine people

Hope you are too

silky x

caressmewell 53F

1/2/2006 10:33 am

I think that my profile is kinda flirty/'s specific yet doesn't read like a book (hopefully). I do have quite a bit of fun here..reading and leaving comments! Good times

MyRealLoverOne 46M

1/2/2006 10:50 am

I think some do. Some expect way to much or get burned but don't leave the site. As for me....serious...too funny!

rm_1hotwahine 63F
21091 posts
1/2/2006 12:00 pm

I enjoy most all of it - funny, absurd, inspiring, reflective, even the sad ones, at times. The only thing I can't abide is 'blog bickering' and almost left because of it. But now I simply sidestep the blogs that tend towards bitching, venting and infighting. Nothing personal towards those bloggers, it's just not me. For me the key is well-written stuff that engages my brain.

Bitter bloggers? I don't know - I think it's more of an issue of what motivates people to write. Some people write when they're upset or depressed, so that's all we see. Mine tend towards the serious "meaning of life" kind of stuff more often than not these days, although it started as something very different.

I often get the most comments, interestingly, when I say nothing.

Yeah, I'm still [blog 1hotwahine]

aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
1/2/2006 12:32 pm

sassybelle - That's good that you don't take this stuff too seriously. I hopefully won't turn bitter, but I can see how some do. I think they are the ones that just search and email. I don't think they take to time to interact through chatting/blogging.

screwmeovernout - You like to poke the beehive? Too funny! I posted something once on the advice column about sexy dirty talk and almost got my head taken off! That really poked the beehive.

silky - of course i'm light and genuine. I at least think I am.

caressmewell - Yes, your profile is sassy! I told you before that it intimidated me. I do like it though.

myrealloverone - I think a ton of people get burned out here and that's why they become bitter. I think you're like me and not take this too seriously.

1hotwahine - I'm finding a lot of sad ones. I think that is helping to contribute to my anxiety, but who knows? I like the stuff that I have insight on that I can really contribute to. Meaning of life stuff? That's the best stuff to read. Thanks for your comments!

NaughtyNurseMn 48F
74 posts
1/2/2006 4:40 pm

Bitter schmitter... who cares, that's their problem!!

Stay sweet, focused and genuine. Life isn't meant to be played like a game- calculating every move. Although sometimes... it does require a little calculation!

I avoid blogs that aren't happy, funny and silly. Occasional bitchy is totally understandable- I agree with everything everyone said- DITTO!

The Naughtiest Nurse You'll Ever Know...


rm_kelli4u2dew 41F
5220 posts
1/2/2006 5:41 pm

I've had fun on here, and had fun with some I've met on here. Some think my profile is too serious, or are intimidated by it, or think I'm a bitch. But those who think that a lot of it is tongue-in-cheek and write me in that spirit have had a very good time.

And btw, caressmewell sent me.

rm_jynxgurl 29F
209 posts
1/2/2006 7:16 pm

I love this site, I have fun on it (espiecially the blog part of it) ^_^ hehe, and even though your not quite insane yet I am accepting your application to my insanity club ^_^ enjoy your sanity while it lasts, we will turn you insane *evil grin* hehehe ^_^ Later Days!!

aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
1/2/2006 7:42 pm

kelli4u2dew - Caress is truly a sweetheart, isn't she? Your profile is a little intimidating, but I have to say that I like it. At least you took the time to really fill it out!

jynxgurl - I'm glad you're having fun. I wish I had a site like this when I was your age! I'm not downing you for being young, but I would have three times the amount I had.

imBambi 58M/50F

1/3/2006 1:18 am

We are having a hoot of a good time. However, I have noticed, just like you, that many of the profiles and blogs are either too serious too demanding or too abrasive. Heck, there was a blog last night in which the standard member of 48 hours was demanding action or he was threatening to withdraw his membership!


PailsDiverHonks 55F

1/3/2006 7:51 pm

I have my good days and my bad days on here.

When I was seeking I think my profile was serious but I got so tired of some of the emails I recieved and the nasty notes in reply to the "thanks but no thanks" emails I sent I laid it out what I was looking for and what I wanted to see in terms of a photo.

In general I have fun on here. If I didn't I wouldn't be here.

Now I wish I could leave my profile blank and just blog.

warmandsexy52 64M
13164 posts
1/4/2006 1:22 am

This site is a lot of fun, particularly Blogland. But it also has a cross-section of humanity on it, so I raise no eyebrows at the fact that some people behave strangely. I just have nothing to do with them.

aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
1/7/2006 5:55 am

Bambi - Ya, I've seen a lot of people threaten to leave if they don't get emails/winks, etc back. That makes no sense to me!

aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
1/7/2006 5:56 am

Divinity - I'm w/ you! Maybe I will meet up with someone from here and have more fun! How far away do you live?

aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
1/7/2006 5:57 am

greeneyes - I like your profile. I wish I could've seen it while you were still looking, but I enjoy your blog as well!

aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
1/7/2006 5:58 am

warmandsexy - I just ignore the boring and rude ones as well! That's the only way to go.

aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
1/7/2006 6:00 am

mineiswetter - Wait, you've met others from this site and you haven't met me yet???? WTF? Nice dress!

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