Frustration 1: Out Vs. In  

aascrompn 42M
6957 posts
12/22/2005 8:28 pm

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Frustration 1: Out Vs. In

I originally started online dating sites b/c of a very horrible breakup that occurred almost two years ago. I must admit that I've been on numerous dates, but none that have really supercharged me. Here is my frustration. I feel that I need to be out on the town in order to meet girls. I have no problem engaging women w/ my combination of cocky + funny attitude, but I don't stand out that much in a crowd, due to my height (this is my own mental holdup that I must overcome). Therefore, I stick to where my personality can shine; online. I feel that while online can be fun, I'm wasting a lot of time that I could be using to actually meet women face to face. When I'm out, I feel that I'm always picking the wrong places to go. If I go to one bar and there are few women there, I change to another location. When I get there, it's usually worse, so I think of another place to go... This goes on and on in a never-ending cycle. When I finally do find a place where there are a lot of women, 85% - 90% of them are w/ a guy already (which you don't know if it's their brother or bf), or they are all taller than me. I would guess 80% of the women out there, don't want to see a guy who is shorter than they are.

In conclusion, I feel that I'm constantly doing the wrong things at the right times. I really want to be just like my new online friend ATLnoonerBoy (If I knew how to link to his blog, I would) and find The One. I'm excited to think that this might work. How long should I concentrate on my time/effort here when I could be out meeting short(er) women??

NaughtyNurseMn 48F
74 posts
12/24/2005 9:05 am

When it happens ... you will know it. Just hang in there. Don't change a thing. You will find someone when you least expect it. Someone who wants you for all that you have to offer in and out of bed. Someone you click with, someone who "supercharges" you. Believe in fate, know that when you are meant to be in a relationship it will happen just the way it is supposed to.

You are a great catch

The Naughtiest Nurse You'll Ever Know...


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
12/25/2005 8:28 pm

naughty - Thanks for your insight and positive outlook. You are a very sweet girl!

ATLNooner - I'm being very honest here. I don't like being negative online, but I'm following your lead in that I try to post all of what I'm really feeling. Thanks!

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