Distance  

aascrompn 42M
6957 posts
12/28/2005 8:18 am

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Distance


I find it funny that the only women that seem to be responding to my profile are women that live out of state. I'm not talking about people that are trying to lure me into their websites, but women that I have great length conversations with. I feel both good and bad about this. I feel great, b/c at least I'm starting to get interaction on here. I think blogging has helped a ton. I feel bad about this, b/c 98% of the local girls are ignoring me. Is it b/c the girls here are unwilling to actually follow through with what they say? Are there just that many guys that I'm in competition with?

I believe that it's easier for girls that live far away to respond, b/c they know that really nothing much will evolve. I'm not saying that it couldn't, I'm saying that the chances are a lot smaller.

caressmewell 53F

12/28/2005 10:14 pm

I know just what you mean and if it wasn't so frustrating it would be funny. To chat and find that you have much in common yet not be close enough to meet with out making travel plans...

"I believe that it's easier for girls that live far away to respond, b/c they know that really nothing much will evolve. I'm not saying that it couldn't, I'm saying that the chances are a lot smaller. "

I think that while chances are smaller, I have spoken with no many to feel that is a fluke that we seem drawn to those out of state people. Good Luck!


silkysmoothlegs3 105F

12/29/2005 11:22 am

Im not trying to lure you

Im trying to get talking to you..

Distance can be frustrating but whats a 7hour flight nowadays??


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
12/29/2005 11:38 am

Silky - I was hoping that you understood this post was about you! Now, let's start talking! I'll go first. How was your day?


PailsDiverHonks 55F

12/29/2005 6:43 pm

"I believe that it's easier for girls that live far away to respond, b/c they know that really nothing much will evolve. I'm not saying that it couldn't, I'm saying that the chances are a lot smaller'

There might be some truth to that. My experience was the locals wanted to meet ASAP, I wanted to know more about them before I took the chance of meeting them. I find myself having enjoyable conversations with men that live miles away because I know there will not be any pressure to meet.


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
12/29/2005 11:04 pm

Greeneyes - I think it must be extremely hard for girls on this site. I think the men are very aggresive. I think they wanted to meet you ASAP b/c they know the kind of competition that they are really dealing with. I think that you just validated my theory on this matter. Thanks!


rm_izalendor 46F

12/30/2005 2:58 am

I get messages mostly from local "gents". I do prefer local, but not too close...you know what I mean? I don't want to come across them at Publix!


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
12/30/2005 8:30 am

Izalendor - *Note to self* Start shopping at Publix... I wouldn't mind running into you at Publix. Kroger would be kinda fun as well!


silkysmoothlegs3 105F

1/2/2006 10:36 am

why was it about me


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
1/2/2006 12:23 pm

Silky - Actually, this post wasn't about you, I swear! I actually talk w/ a few other girls that live far away from me...


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