Addiction  

aascrompn 42M
6957 posts
2/19/2006 4:49 pm

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10/18/2006 5:10 am

Addiction


Besides looking at all of the beautiful ladies,

sister_act_4_you

Look at that amazing body!!! Her beauty hurts me to the core. On top of that, she's a damn good writer and has one hell of a brain on her!

allsleeky

Besides her absolutely stunning body, she's sweet. What a deadly combo. She sure has one lucky man!

Holly_Would

I don't know much about her, but just look at her!

I've come to be able to put my finger on why I'm addicted to this site...

I realize that I'm able to open up here. You see, in my everyday life, I'm a pretty outgoing person, but nobody but my best friends know much about me. Here, I'm able to give you everything that I am. I've given you everything about me. I'm vulnerable. This vulnerability is what excites me. What I love, is how understanding you all are.

I'm not having much success meeting anybody, but I love the fact that I can at least be myself. Maybe I'm myself, b/c I know that I'm not going to really meet any girl here? I don't know... This is a really good thing, this AdultFriendFinder!

Why do you love this place?? What gets you going?

pinkplaytoyz 50F

2/19/2006 6:13 pm

I'm very much the same way, I'm a pretty social person, but I'm also very private in my everyday life. Most of my co-workers recognize that fact about me, though some would love to know more...
I realized today how much I enjoy logging in here everyday...I look forward to it. And its because not only do I get to share my thoughts and my personality, I get to have fun with others who are doing the exact same thing. We have the chance to truly express ourselves without the scrutiny of everyone else in our day to day lives.
We support eachother here...which is something that many of us lack on the outside.
And should we luck up and connect with someone in the meantime,
then that's a pleasant bonus!


rm_PurryKitty2 48M/50F
9753 posts
2/19/2006 6:15 pm

and all this time I thought it was me....

Purry {=}

Purry


seek_u_topia 51M

2/19/2006 6:32 pm

Definitely some beautiful pics here, but as I'm sure you've realized, it's nice to be able to have entirely honest dialogue with real people. I'm hooked because I always learn new and interesting things about the opposite sex, as well as laugh alot. It's a break from reality, but it's more real than my everyday.

And you never know, maybe you'll meet the right one tomorrow, or not, but you've probably figured out more about what you're looking for in her. Cheers!


saddletrampsk 54F

2/19/2006 8:09 pm

I used to come to the site for all the hot men..but now I find I am more attracted to the blogging aspect..weird eh?


elbman 41M  
2566 posts
2/19/2006 9:34 pm

Connecting with people, it's the one thing I miss in my travels is regular contact with the same individuals......


beewulf9 38M

2/20/2006 1:47 am

I originally came for the eye candy. But of late I just return to blog and try to be an encourager.


campfirecozy 67M

2/20/2006 4:32 am

I stopped by on a referral by caressmewell...and I agree that the blogs here are an interesting way of connecting with new friends by reading thoughts that they might otherwise keep to themselves.

Cozy


Holly_Would 106F

2/20/2006 8:46 am

I enjoy being able to open up and write; letting myself go with no judgments. I've also discovered the joy in the interaction with others through their comments and blogs. Thank you for the kind acknowledgment!


caressmewell 53F

2/20/2006 10:06 am

I love it here! I feel a freedom to be myself..I don't feel hindered by having to be PC or not offending anyone by saying something off color or by being direct. There is a warmth and supportive atmosphere here that I totally love with so much encouragement and feedback.


MaggiesWishes 60F

2/20/2006 11:39 am

Well, dangit. So I have to be "eye candy" now?
They didn't teach that in "flirt 104"
:feels the need for a refresher course:

Beautiful choices, on the ladies, hon.


rm_1hotwahine 63F
21091 posts
2/20/2006 12:01 pm

There are two aspects for me - the profile, which I pay increasingly less attention to as time goes on and of course the blogs, which is a part of my everyday routine. Like so many others have said, it's the friendships that keep me engaged. It's a little worrisome, as I tend to forget that my posts aren't just going out to the people whose blogs I know and who know mine. They are posted for the whole world to see and it's easy to forget that.

Here's something interesting...As I write this, there are thirteen comments. Of those thirteen people, I have met three of them, all from different geographic locations. And to this day, I keep in current touch with all three.

So SOMETHING good is happening here.

Yeah, I'm still [blog 1hotwahine]


Allsleeky 36F

2/20/2006 4:44 pm

I have turned off my profile a couple of times even opened the delete account button but I couldn't do it. I decide to stick around because I honestly love reading what members post n their blogs, I also like reading the advice line questions. Oh and lets not forget the beautiful and sexy pictures


Sister_Act_4_You 38F/38F

2/20/2006 5:08 pm

Oh, wow, first of all I am honoured and humbled by your flattering comments.

As for why I am here? It mostly started as a cathartic thing; allowing me to sort things out in my life and save gazillions on therapy bills; now I am simply addicted.


fantasylover_05 62M

2/21/2006 5:13 am

Hey aascrompn

Mine was a familiar story... I began for the eye candy as well... it felt good to get aroused looking at ALL these GORGEOUS women (as you have represented and others!)...

then I began actually emailing... I so enjoyed that and the few responses I got were very exciting (haven't met ANY of them but it was exciting they would even bother responding)...

then I discovered the blogs... and wrote my first one spontaneously not really expecting anything and certainly not knowing how it would affect me... and as I became addicted to the blogs..

I have barely looked at any profiles in over a month... I occassionally look at a profile of someone I am blogging with only to get a bit more about them... but for the most part I don't worry about their profile.. I am not expecting to meet any of them anyway so what does it matter..

I simply enjoy blogging so much... sharing ideas.. experiences.. dreams.. yes the vunerabilities of us all... sharing my cancer story was soooooo cathartic for me... all my inccessant flirting (as Frisky put it LO... I laugh... I feel deep sorrow... I feel REAL friendships... I feel real connections... I LUST... it is absolutely FABULOUS!!

AND I PERSONALLY THANK YOU ALL!!

ANOTHER GREAT BLOG MY FRIEND!!!!


PailsDiverHonks 55F

2/21/2006 4:56 pm

I came onto this friendly site to find someone to have an ongoing affair with, y'all already know that. Shortly after I activated greeneyesatl05 I discovered the blogs. I think the blogs gave people a better idea of who I am then what a profile shows. Now that I am no longer seeking (y'all know why I'm no longer seeking) I still enjoy writing on my blog and chatting with my friends, reading their blogs, giving them support. I guess you can say I am addicted to the blogs. Sometimes a thought might be going through my head, in regards to affairs and feelings you develope and all that stuff, I like hearing how others feel.

Is this where I write...Oh, don't worry you will meet someone soon. Give it time. But I do mean that. It took me 6 months of serious searching and hundreds upon hundreds of emails and a lot of bad dates ( a few good ones, just didn't click)before I met my friend.


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
2/22/2006 7:02 am

Pinkplay - I agree... If we happen to hook up that's a bonus! I love it. Thanks, sweetie, for your comment. *Hugs*


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
2/22/2006 7:08 am

Purry - Just b/c I didn't list you, doesn't mean to say that I didn't want to... You see, I'm scared of Sail. I didn't want to disrespect him by showing your pic w/out his permission. I was going to call him, but alas I didn't have his number... I was going to call Travelingintexas to get his number, but I don't have his... I was going to get his from DivinityDesires, but she hates me... So, in short, I just couldn't do it. I'm so very sorry! Words can't express how much you mean to me...


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
2/22/2006 7:11 am

    Quoting seek_u_topia:
    Definitely some beautiful pics here, but as I'm sure you've realized, it's nice to be able to have entirely honest dialogue with real people. I'm hooked because I always learn new and interesting things about the opposite sex, as well as laugh alot. It's a break from reality, but it's more real than my everyday.

    And you never know, maybe you'll meet the right one tomorrow, or not, but you've probably figured out more about what you're looking for in her. Cheers!
Seek - It's a break from reality, but it's more real than my everyday... I think that's exactly how it sums it up for me. This is quickly becoming my reality, which might not be a good thing...


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
2/22/2006 7:27 am

    Quoting rm_mineiswetter:
    I'm sorry to hear your not meeting anyone on AdultFriendFinder.

    I like this place b/c of the real life situations or fantasies
    that bloggers write about. I like to hear what's
    running through their heads everyday.
    What gets me going?? ( you )..
mineiswetter - I've met up w/ a couple of girls from here, but it seems we didn't make the everlasting bond that we were all looking for. Bloggers - Ya, we are all a little messed up and it is fun to read what others are going through from day to day. I get you going?? In what way? Do tell!


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
2/22/2006 7:28 am

    Quoting saddletrampsk:
    I used to come to the site for all the hot men..but now I find I am more attracted to the blogging aspect..weird eh?
Saddle - That's pretty much the road I'm starting to go down myself! It is wierd!


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
2/22/2006 7:30 am

    Quoting Divinitydesires:
    i love this place because of you... and your sexy smile... and you can drool over my eyes anytime babe. KISS
Divinity - If I drool anymore over you, I'm gonna need to drink another 3 cups of water to maintain stability... You don't love my sexy, very manly voice?? WTF? Was it all a lie?


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
2/22/2006 7:36 am

    Quoting elbman:
    Connecting with people, it's the one thing I miss in my travels is regular contact with the same individuals......
Elbman - Ya, this does provide a great area to maintain steady conversation w/ the same individuals... It doesn't matter if they are local or from around the world. I'm fortunate enough to not have to travel w/ my job, but I could see how this would be an almost necessity for you.


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
2/22/2006 7:46 am

    Quoting BigGirlzRSweet:
    What I like about AdultFriendFinder is that I can be more myself here than I can in real life. I've been more open here, which is difficult for me. I love the blogs. I love meeting new people. I love the community that we have in Blogland. Meeting the folks at the Chicago convention was a blast! They are REAL people... another thing I like. Thanks for posing the question.
Biggirlz - I didn't know anything about the Chicago convention... Nobody tells me anything! Thanks for the comment, sweetie!


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
2/22/2006 7:47 am

    Quoting rm_mzhunyhole:
    I loved meeting everyone in Chicago too ..but I love the interaction and the friendships I have made on here.I came here to find a man..and no I haven't found one...but I have found so much more,people are so kind to me..and look at your handsome face..{=}
Mzhuny - People are really nice to me as well (most of them). Handsome face??


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
2/22/2006 7:49 am

    Quoting beewulf9:
    I originally came for the eye candy. But of late I just return to blog and try to be an encourager.
beewulf - There truly is a lot of eye candy!! I love that too, but now I'm leaning to just the blogs.


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
2/22/2006 7:50 am

    Quoting campfirecozy:
    I stopped by on a referral by caressmewell...and I agree that the blogs here are an interesting way of connecting with new friends by reading thoughts that they might otherwise keep to themselves.

    Cozy
Cozy - Caress is a sweetheart! Yes, I quite enjoy meeting new people, like you! Thanks for stopping by and commenting!


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
2/22/2006 7:53 am

    Quoting Holly_Would:
    I enjoy being able to open up and write; letting myself go with no judgments. I've also discovered the joy in the interaction with others through their comments and blogs. Thank you for the kind acknowledgment!
Holly - I really enjoy your writing... I love how we can all write, pretty much whatever, and not be judged. There are a few out here that do make things a little difficult, but they get it in the end (not that end). You are quite welcome! *Hugs*


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
2/22/2006 7:55 am

    Quoting caressmewell:
    I love it here! I feel a freedom to be myself..I don't feel hindered by having to be PC or not offending anyone by saying something off color or by being direct. There is a warmth and supportive atmosphere here that I totally love with so much encouragement and feedback.
Caress - PC is not my thing either! I have a hard time w/ that in my corporate job. I tend to be too direct, but business is business! There usually is a lot of warmth!


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
2/22/2006 7:58 am

    Quoting MaggiesWishes:
    Well, dangit. So I have to be "eye candy" now?
    They didn't teach that in "flirt 104"
    :feels the need for a refresher course:

    Beautiful choices, on the ladies, hon.
maggie - You are NEVER just eye candy to me... You are also great to cam w/... That was you, right?? Those ladies are really beautiful, I agree!


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
2/22/2006 8:01 am

    Quoting rm_1hotwahine:
    There are two aspects for me - the profile, which I pay increasingly less attention to as time goes on and of course the blogs, which is a part of my everyday routine. Like so many others have said, it's the friendships that keep me engaged. It's a little worrisome, as I tend to forget that my posts aren't just going out to the people whose blogs I know and who know mine. They are posted for the whole world to see and it's easy to forget that.

    Here's something interesting...As I write this, there are thirteen comments. Of those thirteen people, I have met three of them, all from different geographic locations. And to this day, I keep in current touch with all three.

    So SOMETHING good is happening here.
1hot - Something good is happening? Everything good is happening here. I love the fact that everybody can see my thoughts! That's part of the vulnerability that I love. Great post, thanks!


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
2/22/2006 8:04 am

    Quoting Allsleeky:
    I have turned off my profile a couple of times even opened the delete account button but I couldn't do it. I decide to stick around because I honestly love reading what members post n their blogs, I also like reading the advice line questions. Oh and lets not forget the beautiful and sexy pictures
allsleeky - Don't you dare delete your account!!! I love your blog. I'm not a big fan of the advice line questions, b/c it's mostly guys just asking the same questions to accumulate points. I do love the blogs and your beautiful and sexy pictures...


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
2/22/2006 8:08 am

    Quoting Sister_Act_4_You:
    Oh, wow, first of all I am honoured and humbled by your flattering comments.

    As for why I am here? It mostly started as a cathartic thing; allowing me to sort things out in my life and save gazillions on therapy bills; now I am simply addicted.
Sister - I felt the comments were just... Yes, this place is therapeutic to me as well, but I still have those damn therapy bills... Maybe I should dump the therapy and just stick to this??


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
2/22/2006 8:12 am

    Quoting PailsDiverHonks:
    I came onto this friendly site to find someone to have an ongoing affair with, y'all already know that. Shortly after I activated greeneyesatl05 I discovered the blogs. I think the blogs gave people a better idea of who I am then what a profile shows. Now that I am no longer seeking (y'all know why I'm no longer seeking) I still enjoy writing on my blog and chatting with my friends, reading their blogs, giving them support. I guess you can say I am addicted to the blogs. Sometimes a thought might be going through my head, in regards to affairs and feelings you develope and all that stuff, I like hearing how others feel.

    Is this where I write...Oh, don't worry you will meet someone soon. Give it time. But I do mean that. It took me 6 months of serious searching and hundreds upon hundreds of emails and a lot of bad dates ( a few good ones, just didn't click)before I met my friend.
Greeneyes - Yay! I love when you show up. I think a profile is very limiting. That's the main reason why I started to blog. I wanted to show everybody who I really am. Yes we all know that you're no longer searching b/c of me! Yes, I know that I'm going to find the hot model that I've been searching for. She's in my blog right now, but still doesn't really talk to me yet... She'll come around (one year).


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