Rambling - Where has foreplay gone?  

aam1079 37F
43 posts
12/23/2005 8:26 pm

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Rambling - Where has foreplay gone?


where has foreplay gone? it seems that very few guys i know, or have known, seem to engage in this great thing. don't get me wrong, i have known some that were very into foreplay. a whole night could have been based around it sometimes. although it seems more often than not these days that guys seem to want to skip this very important, at least to me, and very rewarding part of an encounter. granted i too have my nights where i just wanna get down to business, but most of the time i need to get worked up before i get off. when did guys stop thinking that we women need/want a little more than just sex? myself, i love to sit and snuggle, make out for a bit, have a 69 time, then after getting all the anticipation built up the sex is better than it would have been if we had skipped all the rest of it. sure a lot of guys say "i love to give oral" but how many times have i heard that and only ever gotten it once or twice out of the many times we would get together. am i just not meeting the right guys? or have they all just lost sight of just how rewarding it can be to build up the pleasure level of the woman they are with before they get in and get off?

jadedbabe78 105F

12/23/2005 9:15 pm

Amen to that! I need foreplay in order to get off 99% of the time. Sure, quickies can be great if the mood calls for it, but foreplay is a necessity with me. And no men, foreplay is more than just a quick touch of the button and then it's time for lift off. I need AT LEAST 30 minutes .

Great post, aam!


TheSentinel001 37M

12/24/2005 4:31 pm

Unlike the cookie-cutter guys.. i always give oral until my girl was ready. I'd just dive into it.. after the initial kissing and playing around... guess my mouth and tongue are only good fro yelling at my coworkers now...


SlungSpeltDrugs 57M
82 posts
12/26/2005 2:27 pm

I will not try to speak for others,but for me the foreplay starts with flirting.Of coarse when I speak of this I am refering to both parties being reseptive along with giving.When I see the sparkle in a womans eyes I know she is willing. Then hopfully the rest comes into play. Being told what she wants other than what she does't want is a big turn on. I feel that if there is give and take it adds to the experience(and more times together) and keeps both parties interested. Well I'm getting long winded and If this is what your idea is come to my blog or e-mail me and we can explore more indepth what I hope we would both want.


shyfool77 40M

1/3/2006 2:50 pm

I hear ya.....I love oral so much that I've been known to spend an hour or more just sucking and licking the clit and sweet pink lips before I even think about sliding my cock in. And unlike most of the other men/boys you have been with I'll do that every time if the woman I'm with lets me...


rm_ib6Vineub9 39M

1/12/2006 2:19 pm

Wow, I can see how a lack of foreplay happens (in some cases) in older relationships, but anything remotely new (i.e. within a year)in terms of interaction with another woman is so exciting and fresh which, I find, is such a turn on...
When I'm turned on and comfortable, the foreplay is there.
Of course, that's just me.


OmaStudMuffin 70M
6 posts
7/18/2007 11:29 am

you need a more experienced, mature gent how has learned what it takes to pleasure a woman and take his dang time doin it.....


rm_Kindar5 41M

10/19/2011 8:51 pm

For me foreplay is the most important part.


oralking5555 64M
37 posts
10/28/2011 9:03 am

Older men are always better lovers.


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