Unhealthy Obsessions  

a_wallflower 48F  
283 posts
11/13/2005 3:02 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Unhealthy Obsessions

How far would you go for "love"? Would you refuse to take "just want to be friends" for an answer? Would you break into this person's private email and read their messages, and taking said messages out of context? (They say evesdroppers find out things they really don't want to know.) Would you then concoct a story about how this "friend" backstabbed you with another friend, when, in fact, no such thing happened at all, just to cause grief and gain sympathy? This is obsessive behavior, not to mention criminal behavior. Such a person is emotionally unstable and needs professional help - ASAP! I hope they read this and figure out who they are and get the help they so desperately need.

sleeplessknight1 68M

11/14/2005 11:57 am

Not sure if you wanted a comment or response....
But my Views for what it is worth...

I think it is difficult sometimes to revert to being "just friends" as yu put it, after having expressed feelings of love, but it is possible.. I know.
I personally hate all acts of jealousy and spite.
No.. I would not do that.... but I did hear a case of someone
sticking a notice on someones door saying this was where their husband's mistress lived... omg...
No good ever comes out of prying... yu find out things best left unfound, and then yu can jump to wrong conclusions... and yes it is illegal to hack into emails.
Any obsessive behaviour needs to be addressed... most will
never seek help or even admit they have a problem....[/color

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2xviennanthief 47G
7 posts
11/15/2005 4:09 pm

I thank you flower. You have addressed the point very meaningfully.

FriendlybutKinky 49M

12/10/2005 5:18 pm

Hi Flower, nice chatting with you recently...

What a messy situation. What a bummer. messy messy...run for the hills!

Good Luck,

rm_sharksnsails 46M
738 posts
1/13/2006 7:43 pm

wow, this sounds like an interesting story....

2xviennanthief 47G
7 posts
2/3/2006 9:02 am

Unfortunatly wallflower, said person has not gotten help and has escalated to threats and apparently is now also harrasing others as well. But even if that person does nothing. Pretty soon the people she is harassing and threatening will go public. Just a forewarning. Actually "we" the people that she has been harrasing. Will soon be going public. And we are tired. We expect a great deal of blowback and so on. But we need to address it for other peoples sake. And for some of our members peace of mind.

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