Opinion from anyone?  

aLovelyBrunette 41F
46 posts
2/13/2006 7:12 pm

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Opinion from anyone?

I've been wondering about something and thought I'd throw the question out there. What do you think would be an appropriate or more specifically,not appropriate place to meet some one? If there is a place you'd like to ask a person to meet, what would be a nice place to consider/suggest? Are there places that wouldn't be too cool for a first time meeting? I mean, aside from a dark, back alley, or the back seat of the car of course! How about for the person that is being asked? Are there certain places you think would be great to meet or offensive? For instance: a restaurant, club, coffee house, bar, the movies, rodeo show? yeah, i threw rodeo show in there. Hopefully some ladies will see this and respond as well. I know this might be an odd question to post, but Im interested in some opinions.

tule33 53M

2/14/2006 7:24 pm

Any of the above...except the Rodeo Show...kidding

WildWon1982 34M

2/16/2006 8:10 am

I'm a pretty laid back guy, so I'm up for meeting most anywhere. Obviously, I don't want to go to extremes the first time around, so I'm not likely to commence a blind date at an S&M dungeon. But basically anywhere that my date and I can talk and/or be entertained.

rm_alotofPlzr4U 106M

2/17/2006 7:07 am

doesn't the question become... where to meet for date 2?

ThomasMad 61M

2/22/2006 5:49 am


I generally like to meet either in a coffee shop that serves good cappucino, or a quiet club/bar for a glass of wine. I have asked women to meet me for lunch, as well. I try to put the woman at ease by meeting in a public place that affords some intimacy for private conversation, but allows her to feel safe.

Bottom line in all this is, the woman holds the cards and can accept or refuse where, when, or who to meet.

Its best to treat the first meeting as a chance to see if there is chemistry, get to know a bit about the other person, and as the basis for a great fantasy. If you do click, you should leave feeling like you can't wait to get your hands on one another. But that's another meeting....

rm_alotofPlzr4U 106M

2/24/2006 8:09 am

A little off color...

A cucumber and a pickle are having a conversation and the pickle says to the cucumber, "You know my life really sucks. Whenever I get big, fat and juicy they sprinkle seasonings over me and stick me in a jar."

So the cucumber says, "Yeah, you think that's bad ... whenever I get big, fat and juicy they slice me up and they put me over salad."

So this penis is walking by and overhears their conversation and says, "You think that your life is tough? Whenever I get big, fat and juicy, they put a plastic bag over my head, stick me in a dark smelly room and make me do push ups until I throw up!"

NSAAddict 42F

2/24/2006 1:57 pm

Coffeeshops and bookshops are my favorites, restaurant chain bars are comfortable too (Chili's, TGIF's). If you're local to the Hartford area, I did a post way back on places to meet up in central CT, might give you some more ideas. Good luck!

aLovelyBrunette 41F

2/24/2006 2:52 pm

Thank you all for the suggestions. NSAAddict, thanks, I'll make sure to check out your post on that.

tryit1276 44M

2/25/2006 5:36 am

Lovely, I have been asking myself the same question, thanks for asking it.

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