_Bound4Pleasure 50F
338 posts
5/19/2006 7:53 am

whats with them?
I was a member quite a while before figuring out they even existed!
I can see some guys sending them, standard members, cause they dont have email availability, so its a way to initiate some contact....
but Gold and silver members, what gives....if u have enough ambition to send a wink, why not send a full fledged email?
why pussy foot around with a wink?
I have had one guy send me at least 8 winks in 2 months....I even once sent him an email asking why.LOL got nothing in return.
In all the winks over time, i have only coresponded with one....he was a standard member, i emailed him he replied back...
Other than that it seems like a big waste of time on part of both parties...
what gives?

Spiritswilling 63M

5/19/2006 12:28 pm

I agree, nothing has ever come out of me getting a wink. I e-mailed them back and N O T H I N G.

LookandWink 63M

5/22/2006 1:46 pm

Being a standard member, you are correct in saying that it is often the only way to try to get some attention. But you can also consider it a quiet flirt ... just someone saying that they like what they see.

heavensent1123 52F

5/24/2006 2:56 pm

winkers, I think those are the ones that are too shy to actually send you an email, not sure why your 8 guy winker didn't respond back.
Personally I have to be upfront, I don't bother looking at those things or the who thinks I'm hot list either. I figure if they were that interested they would send an email.

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