I just don't understand  

_Bound4Pleasure 51F
338 posts
10/14/2005 5:13 pm
I just don't understand


and maybe its me! I understand this is a site about sex, and hooking up and finding compatability with sexual partners, however that doesn't give people the right to be so crass....So come on guys and yes even girls, lets go back to first grade and remember our manners! I just reinstated my membership after being gone for over 2 years....it hasnt been 24 hours and I'm quickly remembering why I left originally!

Ladyblue85 58F

10/14/2005 6:58 pm

uh huh honey -- thats the reason I'm letting my membership drop back to standard. If i wanted this kind of abuse (after a being here a year!) I'd just get married again! lol


rm_mojomike 50M
45 posts
10/14/2005 8:22 pm

I happen to agree with you. There is a lack. With careful filtering and taking ones time to look over everything, I have found some interesting people, that I don't mind sharing time with.

best of luck

Mojomike


AltumHunksUnite 53M

10/15/2005 11:30 am

Okay, here's my standard blurb when it comes to stuff like this...

The site is marketed mainly to guys who surf the porn sites. In a nutshell, the message is Join this site today, get laid by tonight, and when the guys discover that the male-female ratio is incredibly lopsided, sometimes they get bitter, and rude. Not only that, they browse the profiles and find a lot of them with some variation of the message, "No Single Men". Great, so they just joined a site and none of the women want them.

Don't misunderstand me. I'm not saying it's an excuse for these men to behave badly. On the contrary... everyone here deserves as much personal respect as they give others.

My advice... just ignore them, and join a local group like many of us have. You get to meet people in person, which is really the only way to be sure that they're genuine and not fake.

Good luck.

Let me drive. I like the view


Tone_33756 55M

10/15/2005 11:43 am

I see you found TASA - and you will be coming to the M & G tonight. I think you will be very happy in "this family".


luvsxoxo 43F

10/16/2005 6:11 pm

Cleavis is sooooo right.....just ignore the jackazzzes lurking out there! It wasa nice to meet you ther other night and glad to see you in blogland!

Luvs~~


oralfunlover2 50M

10/18/2005 2:12 pm

Not to worry! No matter what kinda group you belong to you are bound to find an asshole or two! No matter the PTA, Church group, Skydiver's Club, etc.... Don't let it get to you. Take time to find out who belongs in which "group" and stick with the winners. Remember: Nothing ventured nothing gained.


a_poetman 45M

10/19/2005 10:14 am

My dear,

When I say that joining TASA will change your mind about this site, it is a gross understatement!

There are real, fine, mature, honest, and upstanding members here. I am only speaking for a few of the members that I have met personally. Our little clique...I consider good friends. They know more then most!
Welcome and post often, you'll see!

Feel free to visit me anytime! a_poetman

~poet~


rm_MisterFrumpy 46M
428 posts
10/24/2005 9:32 pm

i responded to a thread just like this earlier today i think.

Most guys, as Cleavis said think this site is chock full of women just waiting with baited breath for ANY guy to email them for a hook up..which is just not the case. Thats how its advertised and most learn quickly you have to have some amount of tact and brains to get anywhere here.

Learn to filter your mail, get a system for summarily destroying the ones that sneak thru and have fun with anything left worth responding to.


matt481000 59M
22 posts
1/19/2006 5:55 am

Read my blog I have had som winners too!


JuicyBBW1001 54F

4/20/2006 1:56 pm

Manners you wanna talk about manners hmmm lets see how many think your manners suck too. No I am not jealous of you but you know something I am not the only one who has noticed that you have a tendency to want to interrupt in chats between two people. Maybe you need a refresher course in manners.

Juicy


_Bound4Pleasure 51F
204 posts
4/21/2006 11:10 am

    Quoting JuicyBBW1001:
    Manners you wanna talk about manners hmmm lets see how many think your manners suck too. No I am not jealous of you but you know something I am not the only one who has noticed that you have a tendency to want to interrupt in chats between two people. Maybe you need a refresher course in manners.
Well I'm sorry You feel this way.
I'm just a talker, Im not in there trying to steal anyone from you...
You haven't even met me and yet you have drawn all of these conclusions about me. Why would you allow someone, especially someone you don't know create your mood.
I find this sad that you have to reach for such negativity, to make yourself look better to others!


JuicyBBW1001 54F

4/22/2006 5:21 am

Not reaching bound I saw you last night at the luau and you didn't introduce yourself to many people at all. I also know you were at a TASA meet and greet and where trashing chatters from the Florida chatroom right in front of a few of them and you haven't met many of us either. So I rest my case and by the way I have you on iggy and can still tell when you interrupt a conversation I am having.

Juicy


SWM_looking_67 49M
21 posts
4/23/2006 9:15 am

    Quoting JuicyBBW1001:
    Not reaching bound I saw you last night at the luau and you didn't introduce yourself to many people at all. I also know you were at a TASA meet and greet and where trashing chatters from the Florida chatroom right in front of a few of them and you haven't met many of us either. So I rest my case and by the way I have you on iggy and can still tell when you interrupt a conversation I am having.
WHO CARES!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Are you that hung up on yourself that you have to accuse someone of stealing a person you were chatting with????? Get a life!!!!!! When you are in a chat room it is OPEN. It is not a place for you to have a private conversation with someone. If you want to do that, then just go off line.

You got pissy with me one day because I met Susan for coffee and I never met you. Did you ever think that hers and my schedule just happened to coincide?? Did you think that she stole me from you??? We never had sex, we just had coffee. My god, I do not even ant to imagine what you would have been like if we had met (but I smell boiling rabbits).

As far as having her on iggy, WHO GIVES A CARE. Who is the psycho that keeps reading her blog each and every day???? Not only that, is is REAL funny that when you are in the Florida room and Susan comes in, you say that you have to go because of the rif raf (makes me think that you do not have her on iggy).

Maybe if you had something more to offer someone (other then the fear of a boiling rabbit), then maybe they might continue to talk to you.


_Bound4Pleasure 51F
204 posts
4/25/2006 5:09 am

    Quoting JuicyBBW1001:
    Not reaching bound I saw you last night at the luau and you didn't introduce yourself to many people at all. I also know you were at a TASA meet and greet and where trashing chatters from the Florida chatroom right in front of a few of them and you haven't met many of us either. So I rest my case and by the way I have you on iggy and can still tell when you interrupt a conversation I am having.
I never trashed the Florida group at all! It would behoove you NOT to go on hearsay! Its NOT allowed in the legal system for a pretty good reason! I simply put my input in that I didnt think it would be a wise decision to combine meet and greets! The groups are VERY different!
Opinions gotta love em!
As far as meeting people goes, i wasnt aware that there was a minimum I had to meet! I met quite a few people, and if anyone is reallu "pissed" I didnt meet them.....they need to take to take the fall on this one! If I dont know who they are. Its a two way street!
Now if you really have me on ignore........why do u even bother with my blogs? Can't we just keep it peaceful!


clitkisser1950 66M

5/12/2006 12:42 pm

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