One Night Stands  

Zylea 37F
15 posts
3/4/2005 5:35 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

One Night Stands


I've never had a one night stand, nor have I ever had the desire to have one. For me, there has to be some connection, some spark that ignites the sexual fire within before sex can happen. Call me old fashion I guess. I'll take it as a compliment.

There have been times when I've been in a bar or at a party, slightly inebriated and had an opportunity to have a one night stand. Even under the foggy haze of a low alcohol threshold, I'm still unable to even attempt to have random sex with some guy I just met. Each time there has been a nagging voice of reason in the back of my head knowing this person would not satisfy my sexual needs, so why even bother? But is this really a voice of reason or a voice of fear? Am I afraid that I might give myself over to someone, letting them inside of me, only to be disappointed with the outcomes? Or am I afraid of the possibility of them actually being able to satisfy me...multiple times?

Sex, for me, is more than just an orgasm or five. It involves raw human emotion and connection. That feeling of being wanted and desired. Its the rhythmic heartbeats as you both come down from the natural high of sex. The gentle touches and kisses placed lightly upon the skin. The soft whispers that give you goosebumps as the breath slides over you.

If I want an orgasm, I'll just go play with my toys...

richardlv2 82M
25 posts
3/4/2005 9:50 pm

you might consider these facts that I have not created.
The largest sex organ is the skin, second you must have high intelligence to be sexually stimulated. The more intelligent the greater the stimulation.
You sound very intelligent and whom ever shares your sexual pleasures will be a lucky partner.


ExcitedSenses 38M

3/4/2005 10:38 pm

I much prefer the ten or twenty night stand That said you are right, it's the sensuality that makes it fun.


mnfun952 102M

3/5/2005 5:48 am

Something that I picked up on was your fear of disappointment in the outcome. often this is tied to expectations which can be a problem - not only with sex and relationships, but with life in general. Vision and goals are much different from expectations, but when you have expectations and they are not realized, there is only disappointment. The absence of expectations leaves you free to experience whatever happens and one can only be pleasantly surprised rather than disappointed.


keystonenc 42M
144 posts
7/23/2005 2:07 pm

I have only ever had one one-nighter, well it turned into a two-nighter after we decided to go at it the next night, just because it had been so long since I had been with someone that I just craved being with a woman again. She was also about the horniest woman I had ever met and I just could not say no. But, I have always enjoyed being with someone who I had an emotional connection with much more.


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