Making Love, Sex or Fucking?  

Zylea 37F
15 posts
3/8/2005 8:28 pm

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Making Love, Sex or Fucking?


Which do you prefer -- Making love? Having sex? Or just down and dirty fucking?

Cathy_Dave 54M/54F

3/8/2005 9:17 pm

Making love is soooo much more emotional.....something reserved for my husband. When we are playful....exploring....maybe outdoors ..... semi public places.....or in a threesome then sex is great.......as far as down and dirty fucking.....well.....depends how adventurous we are feeling but sometimes in the heat of the moment that can be fun to......just an all round kind of girl I guess......lol.....Cathy


corvette_53 66M
5 posts
3/9/2005 3:06 am

Here is my response:

1. "Down and dirty fucking" is out for me. I' rather masturbate if there is no personal interaction.

2. "Having sex" is sometimes fun, but rarely satisfying long term. It gives momentary pleasure, but (excuse the expression), leaves a bad after-taste.

3. "Making love" is ALWAYS preferable to me, both with my wife and with the other women with whom I have connected over the years.

Making love has ALWAYS been my objective in every relationship I've had. The emotional and spiritual connections are as or more important to me than the sexual ones.

Obviously, my responses are affected by the fact that I have a wife with whom I have had the opportunity experience all three of the above. So, from experience, I can tell you that making love is almost always preferable.


rm_pinkteddy69 43F

3/9/2005 6:45 am

I agree with Cathy. I'm also married and it just depends on your mood. For most women, there is a need to make love, because it fulfills emotional needs, whether you realize you have them or not. Once making love, then you realize it was needed. Sometimes, having sex is just to take up time that would other wise be boring, and dirty fucking and reg sex are for fun.


keystonenc 43M
144 posts
7/23/2005 2:03 pm

It really depends on the mood of both people involved. Sometimes you just need that release of sexual energy but don't feel like getting into the whole making love thing and for me sex is always more preferrable to just plain jerking off.

But, ultimately I love those times when I am with someone I truly care for and we just spend an afternoon together exploring different ways to pleasure each other.


durhambottom 49M

9/1/2005 2:49 pm

Down and dirty fucking, definitly.

Making love would be excellent IF you loved someone, but thats not really what this site is about. Of course I guess we all hope to find it. But trying to make love when you're not in love is sad.

Having sex to me sounds like you want to get off and just need someone around to help out. You don't really want to be involved with the other person. Not for me.

Dirty fucking on the other hand brings up images of taking someone and really giving them what they want and more. I want to think that when she gets up the next day her pussy is sore. And that remembering how it got that way brings a smile to her face.


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