Zylea 37F
15 posts
3/6/2005 2:46 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm


Its Sunday afternoonish and I'm bored. I could call up a friend to hang out with or go to the book store or clean, but none of that sounds appealing to me. I know what I should be doing and what I could be doing, but its not what I want to be doing. Ever had one of those days wehre you wanted to do something, but couldn't figure it out?

I toyed with the idea of writing something about sex here to try to get people to look at my blog, but I couldn't think of anything good to talk about. Instead, you all get to hear me ramble on about being bored. So, which is more interesting to read about -- being bored or boring sex?

I've had boring sex. I'm sure everyone has in their life time. Its not bad sex, but it doesn't really seem to hold your interest at that particular moment. You go through the motions and make the noises. You're not faking it or anything, but its just not hitting the right spot or something. I don't like boring sex. Thankfully I haven't had boring sex in quite a few years. I wonder if my partner realized how boring the sex was. By this point in the relationship we had gotten pretty routine in the bedroom. He'd initiate it by rubbing my back and tweaking my nipples. Then he'd go down on me, licking me softly and gently, just enough to make me wet but not enough to send my blood racing. I'd go down on him, playing with his balls for a couple of minutes. Basically long enough to make sure he was good and hard. Then we would have sex. We didn't make love. We didn't fuck. We simply had sex. I'd moan and groan and squeeze him inside of me until he came. When sex becomes boring its either time to let go of that relationship or bring toys into the bedroom. Soon we were through and I had taken many trips to Adam & Eve.

LVsinner04 30F

3/6/2005 9:52 pm

i'm having one of those boring days too. i know there is something i wanna do but i don't know what is it. maybe i will figure out.

i had boring sex a couple of days ago. i don't think the guy thought it was boring but i did. it was just sex. plain, boring sex.

hope you never have boring sex again...

rm_heyjay4two0 44M
56 posts
3/9/2005 8:13 am

"I've never had a one night stand, nor have I ever had the desire to have one. For me, there has to be some connection, some spark that ignites the sexual fire within before sex can happen. Each time there has been a nagging voice of reason in the back of my head knowing this person would not satisfy my sexual needs, so why even bother? Sex for for me, is more than just an orgasm or five. It involves raw human emotion and connection. That feeling of being wanted and desired. Its the rhythmic heartbeats as you both come down from the natural high of sex. The gentle touches and kisses placed lightly upon the skin. The soft whispers that give you goosebumps as the breath slides over you."(this is from your post on one night stands) My question is what is the difference between boring sex and a one night stand in your eyes? I am not sure about either. I have had boring sex with someone I deeply cared about. I also had one of the most passionate nights ever in a one night stand. It was full of wants and desires , slow deep sensual kisses , her soft skin pressed against mine and her hot breath on my neck. She went back to Sweden and I stayed in Ohio. This one night is more memorable than the sex I used to have with the girl I loved. This may have been because I knew it was only going to be one night. I was able to put all else aside, not worry about how I looked naked or if she just had too much to drink and thats why she found me desirable. Somehow I was able to let go of my insecurities and completely get lost in the moment. Now I'm rambling. Is it worse to have boring sex with someone you care about or passionate sex with someone you just met?
I hope you and LVsinner04 never have boring sex again.

rm_heyjay4two0 44M
56 posts
3/9/2005 8:17 am

I apologize about the length of my post.LOL

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