Mind Games  

YouNoYouWantTo_f 37F
21 posts
12/25/2005 2:52 pm

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11/10/2006 12:00 am

Mind Games

No one is perfect. I must say I do play little teasing mind games..not however to the point where the other person can't sleep and then when they wake up they are still thinking about it. Why do some people have to do that to others?
I guess some people just don't know when enough is enough. So what do I do about it? How do I get over this situation? There are things that affect the choice of giving up and ignoring the person so thats not possible. We will see..


rm_MustangD6644 51M
1031 posts
12/25/2005 3:10 pm

YouNo sometimes the worst thing that you can do is to turn the other cheek and try to ignore that person. Its like trying to walk with a stone in your boot. Is the stone going to go away? Hell No. Is it going to keep hurting you? Yes. So what do you do? you stop and shake out the stone and then make sure no more stone get in your boots.

How?

Work out this persons weaknesses and then highlight them to that person in front of other people to embarrass that person and to let them know that you have a Line Drawn In The Sand, and if they cross it again you will beat them severely with the big stick you have hidden behind your back.

Most times those sort of people are cowards with problems and make others feel bad to feel better themselves.

They dont like tasting their own medicine, so give them a double dose.

Mustang


kats60 56F

12/25/2005 3:18 pm

good luck, im having a time with it, alot of lies!....kat


YouNoYouWantTo_f 37F
21 posts
12/26/2005 4:18 am

i totaly agree with you and you don't need a brainiac to work that one out..i did say there were things that were affecting the situation. However i have already started shaking the rock out of my shoe, if not hard like i should..it definatly knows that its bothering me Thank you once again for your time reading my post. Seeing you reading it put a smile to my face for some reason..


rm_happyguy0005 41M
53 posts
12/26/2005 3:14 pm

Hi YouNoYouWantto
Sorry about the picture, but "never judge a book by only it's cover". A person's life should always be lived to the full, there are chances we take everyday. Life is precious and should never be wasted with thoughts of regret or missed opportunities.

Life always needs to be viewed on the context of making the most out of every opportunity and not dwelling on thoughts and discussions from the past.

I lost my wife 3 years ago in a car accident. I spent 1 1/2 years of regret and anger. I'm in the medical field and for those 1 1/2 years working hard, but aggressively I shut out the world and focussed entirely on the negatives of society and inidividual.

However over the past year, i've started to chat again to people, i avoid negative people and those that play mindgames and other games. Try to use every precious second to enhance your own life and those lives around you. You sound like an intelligent person with a good heart.

Avoid the negatives and look for the positives.

Ryan


rm_moro_4_fun 40M

1/1/2006 3:18 pm

Good luck I have trouble with people playing mind games fibs white lies and just thinking I am foolish. I take it all with a grain of salt and for give but remember there is good in them too. That is the people i attract do have their weaknesses and fears but they are good and giving in there hearts. I trust my instincts they have not been wrong in 7yrs .

Regards
Moro


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