No Promises...  

XesSex03 50M/48F
99 posts
9/17/2005 8:57 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

No Promises...

A little rant today...

I was chatting with this gentleman for a few days. He lives over 500 miles away, but seemed like a nice intelligent guy. Of course, the conversation turned sexual (Duh! It's an "adult" website). I warned ahead of time that I really do love to tease, so the conversations were fun. I had developed a real interest in the possibility of meeting this guy. Of course, with the distance, it would not be as easy as it sounded.

Suddenly, he starts trying to pressure me into "promising" him that I wouldn't do anything with anyone else until I could get together with him.(?) And if he "drove all that way, the "least I could do is fuck him".(??) I told him that I never make promises that I'm not guaranteed to keep, and besides "What if" we met each other and it turned out that we couldn't stand each other? After all, a person can say whatever they want on chat, but it's not a true measure of the real person. I'm not having sex with someone I don't like. It's my body, and I'll say when, where, who & how!! Well, now I'm the bitch!

Unfortunate, really, because I originally had such high hopes for this encounter. At least there are plenty of others here to try to connect with. But, guys...& girls too, don't try to get promises from someone you've only chatted with 3 times!!

Won't be the last time that I'll be the Bitch, either
Next time,

rm_bottchann 60M
9 posts
9/17/2005 1:40 pm

i completely agree with your just common sense !Nothing to add ! oh ! yes ! One thing : enjoy life and share your lovely body only when you want it !

XesSex03 50M/48F

9/19/2005 4:45 pm

bottchan - Thank you. I thought it was very logical - & yes! I will

agoigo - It was the gentleman that made the observation.

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