A lesson in respect and courtesy  

WranglerRage 43M
4 posts
8/2/2006 4:52 pm

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8/9/2006 4:06 pm

A lesson in respect and courtesy

To all you women out there I am just curious about something. I have sent out many emails to some women that I have found an interest in, and to others that I have built somewhat of a friendship with. My question is this: Why is it that women cant reply back or send a simple note? Is it because you have thousands of other mails from jackasses and cock pics? Or is it that you choose not to answer back because you are not interested? I am just curious as to what I might need to do to get a better response back, do I need to title the mail a certain way that will catch your attention to answer. Also is it too much to ask for all you "bisexual and lesbian" women who arent looking for men to atleast be courteous enough to say hello and let me know that you are not looking or interested in chatting with me so that way I wont be wasting my time or yours. I try my best to live by the forgotten Golden Rule: Treat others the way you want to be treated. It seems these days that people fail to take this into consideration and often women wonder why or where all the "good" men have gone, perhaps its because you have ignored the good ones so much so that they have become bitter and hardened and dont give a flying fuck anymore about being a nice guy. Alot of the times I have seen womens profiles state how they are looking for: "A man with a big cock, a hard toned body, and look like Brad Pitt or George Clooney and all that other bullshit, yet when men state that they want women with big tits or want them to look like Angelina Jolie or whomever they get called a sexist pig. Funny how double standards work aint it. I dont claim to be perfect in any way shape or form, I am just an average male, looking to fit into someones world, if you dont like me FINE, if you dont want to chat or get to know me FINE, save me and yourself the time and just tell me from the beginning and I wont bother you. This concludes my rant and rage for today. Give me your feedback ladies this inquiring mind wants to know

rm__jo19 27F
8 posts
8/9/2006 12:04 am

this is such an odd place.

i get emails varying from being really sweet and well thought-out to men asking me to meet for money. mostly i feel they are just general emails copied and pasted to lots of others, nothing personal about them at all, just sent out in the hope of getting a response from someone (anyone) out there at all.

i do try to respond just to say thanks, but no thanks, but even that sometimes causes problems as people then either take that to mean she must be interested because she sent some response even when i have said i am not. it's really annoying to get told off for responding... you just can't win either way.

stick with that karma approach to life wrangler rage. i know you will find the right person when you start looking in the right place. i see a bit of hardness in that post (and a lack of paragraphs ). calm down, go for a walk in the woods and re-group... if the women here are like you are saying, then are you really so surprised at your frustration?

see you sometime.

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