Just another day of me.  

WildChild5884 32F
40 posts
3/3/2006 10:10 pm

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6/15/2006 6:28 am

Just another day of me.


I like to joke that I am an AdultFriendFinder lifer having been here for about three years with a few breaks in between. My first meet was only the second guy I'd had sex with.

I'd talked to him for quite awhile, and we seemed to get along great..I found I liked him just as much in person, and we seemed to have a lot in common..Not to mention he was an attractive guy as well as a great kisser..We were in his truck in an out of the way little spot..and needless to say it got a lot hotter in his truck that night..After getting dressed we sat there for awhile relaxing and talking.. I have to say I liked him, but wasn't terribly upset that it didn't work out for a couple of reasons.

I'd already learned an important lesson about intimacy, and how to separate love from sex.. I realized from another meet however that in a type of fwb situation there can be a certain level of comfortable intimacy. Which can make it so much more incredible versus the pure casual hook-up, and that much more dangerous to have for some it seems. It's kind of the same thing as the two classic affair scenarios. The emotional cheating against the sexual cheating, and when the two combine it's the complete breakdown of a relationship.

In fact the limited intimacy I had with one couple was refreshing, and seemed to be all of the best parts without the fallout stages of a normal relationship from my point of view. I admit though there is a certain level of emotional distance I have to keep from my adult friends to maintain my focus. I've seen it go downhill pretty fast for those that can't handle it.

I guess at this point I just feel truly fortunate that I've met some great people on here to balance out the not so nice people. At the same time I'm sad for those who right now who are having trouble balancing it all. It seems to be a season of change, but I hope it'll calm down around here soon enough. Tough times begone



On a lighter note I read this is supposed to be the most difficult tongue twister..I don't know about that although it is a toughie.

Sixth sick sheik's sixth sheep's sick

Also read it is impossible to lick your elbow, and they seem to be pretty accurate on that one..Course it has been almost 22 years I didn't feel the need to so, I really don't think it'll become a problem at this point



rm_VoodooGuru1 49M
2053 posts
3/5/2006 4:56 am

Impressive insight. Again.


WildChild5884 32F

3/5/2006 5:24 pm

Thank you Voodoo..Now I'm honored with your comment


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