"Why are you single?"  

Wicked_Ink 43M
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9/17/2005 11:18 pm

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4/3/2006 9:36 pm

"Why are you single?"

When a friend posed this question to me recently online, I jotted down this somewhat lengthy response. Though, looking at it now, I seem to have really left the query unanswered and did the all time "fashion-foe-paw" of answering a query with queries. But there are many things in life that always seem to always raise more queries then they do answers. . .

To be honest, I'm not entirely sure why I am single. More then not I think it has to do with my dedication to working insane hours on huge projects and having next to no social life. I shower twice a day, brush my teeth and wear deodorant so I know it's not because of hygiene. ~grins

Perhaps it's because I'm an ages old gentleman that opens doors for a lady and delights in intelligent conversation over coffee. I prefer a woman that would compliment me not compete against me. One who supports her man in his endeavours and can appreciate and respect a man who knows what he wants and knows how he likes it instead of being jealous or catty about his past and how he learned to be such a man.

Perhaps it's because I still believe that "she" is out there looking for me as avidly and passionately as I am looking for her. Perhaps I truly am just a hopeless romantic that is going to wake up one day at the age of 80 looking out over the Martian landscape and wonder what the hell it was all about anyway. Perhaps I wonder what the hell it is all about today.

Is it too much to ask for a women who is honest, has some self respect, enjoys intelligent conversation and isn't offended at the thoughts of me enjoying her female aspects by dressing her up in sexy lingerie instead of jeans and a wife beater? Is it too much to ask for a woman who enjoys being just that, a woman instead of a female trying to pass herself off as just as good as a man when we all know that in many ways women are far superior to men?

JaniSux 44F

3/26/2006 5:39 pm

Hi Wicked_Ink... not sure where you've been.. I hope that all is well..

TAG! You're it...

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