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WTF? Are you blind?
WTF? Are you blind?
That's all they think... let's FUCK
it's a fucking sex and.. oh my god, SWINGER site... a community where we are supposed to be able to find fun, frolic and lust... not just a fuck around the corner.
If I really wanted a fuck around the corner.. guess what! I can fuck there, too!!!
There is more to sex then masturbating with someone else's body, so, how come there are more people interested in THAT then having something meaningful, or fun.. or real?
Yeah... it's me, I know it is...
4/9/2006 2:43 am
Some guys equate masturbation with "something meaningful".|
I know it's shallow and baseless, but that is the reality.
Alot of guys just want to fuck.
It's not you, it's them.
"My every move is a calculated step, to bring me closer to embrace an early death." -Tupac Shakur
4/10/2006 2:20 am
This is a topic that I have considered at length for some time though for different reasons. In my experience people are scared of allowing themselves to have fun, to have something meaningful or real because that makes them vulnerable and responsible to the person they are with.|
The "let's fuck" is an illusion that allows them to free themselves at least in their own minds of having any responsibility beyond that moment and focusing on their own personal gratification. This allows them to keep the walls up and protect their own vulnerability which is often insecurity in one form or another.
In short though since I could go on at length about this, I do agree with Div, it's them ...
You are not asking for anything unreasonable or unrealistic, unfortunately most people are incapable or unwilling to provide such an environment within themselves or explore that within a relationship, usually bolting once it becomes "too serious."
It sucks but there really is not much you can do with people like that as they will not change unless they choose to and most of them are far too busy to make such a choice.
4/14/2006 10:59 pm
What DIV said. I think you would have to stop putting out If you want to find out If someone wants more and is willing to stick around. I don't think you're going to find allot of guy's here looking for a long meaningfull relationship unless it involves them always getting satisfied. Most will lie their asses off to get some. I've been there. I'd like to be wrong about that but, I don't think I am. Keep your head up and don't let this one phase you. |